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 Bahahahahaha, nice try. Post a pic :)

I'm not even with this guy. He's just a sociopath. Anyway, do you take a class to write that way to women? I mean it's dead on. Funny.

 how did he throw people under the bus to get in your pants?

 He was fucked up and telling people he was going to screw me and what not calling me names etc. My friend who was there told me and thats when I broke contct with him the second time. Well he promises that he never said it and that my friend is a liar. Over and over again making my friend to be the bad guy saying hes obsessed, when thats not the case and my friend didnt make it up. im the guy talked that shit

so the answer is that he never did..? are you taking this as a measure of how much you mean to him?

are you male?

 Im a woman. He told people I was a slut and he was going to screw me in a matter of days. My friend, who is friends with with for  over 20 years was there told me to watch out. Now the guy has sworn up and down he never said that and that the guy who told me is a major liar. All bullshit

 ok. so you interpret him calling you an easy slut and then denying it when confronted (shock!) as screwing over old friends just to fuck you?

how old are you? how long have you been messing around with him? have you screwed him yet?

Hi AJF: Is he only emotionally dangerous or physical/criminal? If he is just emotionally infatuated or obsessed with conquering you, use reverse psychology. Tell him in order to be in a serious relationship, you and he need to "meet each other's families."

That should keep you plenty busy resolving whatever THAT brings up.

If he and his family are a mess, he won't get past that screening filter. And he won't get past your family either.

Say sorry, you need to fix all this mess and then we can have a normal relationship. If you are too busy working on your own problems, you can tell him to get busy fixing his!

If you want to start with friends around him as the screening device, get together, compare notes and make a list of all the damages and conflicts he needs to fix with all of you to have "normal working relations." And stand as a team. If he is serious about any of you, he needs to  resolve all of it, all problems he caused until you are all at peace again.

He can only play games by 'divide and conquer' by targeting you by your "fears." So don't get divided or cornered.

So if you all stand together and turn the tables back on him, he will have to back off. 

Unless he is serious about fixing all the mess he created, which would keep him busy anyway and off your back.

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 or...he could just say 'my family's out of town/dead'