Unfortunately, I think so many of you are missing the point here! My point was to state that being a side piece and second to anyone is not something I would think anyone with self pride would want to engage in for themselves.
Secondly, it seems to me from reading her thread that she has more invested than she is admitting to which leads me to believe she will end up feeling damaged and hurt when it is over. I was giving my opinion but by no means do you have to listen to it.
Thirdly, I disagree that because the man may be a sociopath with a family that he has more to loose. My experience is that sociopaths go all the way, they know how to get in and out of everything. A recent case, Dr. Martin MacNeil for example. Sorry, I don't mince words, I tell it like it is.