I have to ask, what is it that makes him "kinky as fuck"? What does he want to do? and yes, I admit that I am asking this from a perverted place in my head. . . .
you know, i think that he will use your "social standing" against you. he can pin this on you and make himself a saint, he'll say that you came at him and he's innocent. see how judgmental everyone is? he will blame this on you and you will be judged and you'll lose the respect of the people in your life. that would be my leverage if i were him.
be sure that you can take him on, be ready to check any shame at the door, you must be ready to lose whatever it takes to not let him win, believe me. i think my ex socios left me alone b/c i was a wilder card than they were, so they just calculated that it'd be best to leave my crazy ass alone. when you hold nothing sacred and you have nothing to lose, you're in control and in the position of power. be ready to own up to this in front of everyone in your life and share your side of the story. matter of fact, if i were you, i'd tell my bf ahead of time, it gives him no wiggle room.
friendly advice, make sure you don't catch anything, if he's as prone to risks and promiscuity as you say he is, he could easily be full of disease. ew!!
damn girl, are you sure you want to fuck him so badly? seriously, this might be more costly than it's worth...
by AliceinthunderlandI thought sociopaths don't have a conscience. I am surprised how many people take issue with me fucking another woman's husband. I would think that would be applauded. He is fucking numerous other people behind his sad wife's back. I wouldn't be the only one. So I guess blackmail could be one worry though I do have the upper hand where that is concerned.
Sociopaths don't have a natural conscience. That doesn't mean sociopaths can't have principles on which they run their life on.
I personally would fuck another persons wife because I'm not the one in the relationship, it's not my responsibility to keep away from other people, it's the slut wifes.
But If I had a girlfriend, I wouldn't cheat on her because I'm in a relationship and have responsibility to end it, not to cheat on someone.
And Alice, I wouldn't use blackmail against him... You said yourself you'd be afraid if he hurt you, so why would you blackmail him?
Also, what I've noticed is most of the time it's not the married person you're fucking that's your main worry, it's the other person in the marriage.
If he truly is a sociopath, he may try and divert attention away from himself and more onto you. He could give info on your whereabouts and set her on you.
Best option - Don't fucking do it.