And Sociopaths as well since this ass hole seems to be both. What is it you truly want to accomplish when you are pursuing someone? What is the thing that you don't want to happen? rejection? Abandonment? indifference? Your worst nightmare. I left the guy ten months ago, and he is still trying to get me back in the same vulnerable state I was in. This guy turned my world upside down. I'm sorry, but I can't help it.. I feel great satisfaction when I think about him hurting the way he intentionally hurt me. I don't like hurting people, but someone who hurt me to the extent he did brought the Sociopath out of me... It's all about winning at this point, and I want to win. I'm not letting this motherfucker hurt me again, so please.. Just tell me what it is he wants out of all all this, and what I can do to make sure he doesn't get it.
by BabyFireflyI left the guy ten months ago, and he is still trying to get me back in the same vulnerable state I was in.
When I ditch someone it means they're of no more use to me, which also means that I'm done with them for good. The fact that you ditched him instead is probably why he is still chasing you. There's something you have that he still wants.
Have you asked him why he's still chasing you? If yes, then what did he say?
If he's more narcissistic than sociopathic, he's probably just looking for attention, someone to feed his ego. Or maybe you hurt his pride and he's looking for revenge.
What did he do that hurt you so much?
Oh Jesus.. Where do I begin? He was verbally, and mentally abusive. I moved clear on the other side of the US from the place I had lived all my life to his town where I didn't know a soul, but it was all for him. I had faith in him to keep me safe, and secure. HA! He ended up belittling me in every way, spit on me, cheated on me,One day he threw garbage one me, and had the nerve to insist I clean it up, or he would rub my face in our puppy's dog shit, beat me up so bad I lost conciousness, and woke up to a black eye/ribs so bruised it hurt like hell to breath. Threatened my life by telling me he would cut my body into little pieces, and dispose of my body in no fear of getting caught saying it was simple to get rid of a dead body in his town, fired a gun at me " the gun he had given me for Christmas", threatened my sister when she tried to get help for me, stole my medication, and sold it to support his habit, chased the people who finally came to my rescue with a paintball gun.. Luckily I got away.. The police came, and got me. I still remember the expression on his face from this day. "What have I done?" I thought I would be able to inflict pain without losing you". I swear to god I saw a tear stream down his face. He motioned 143 in sign language to me.. Cheesy I know. After I left he went to the house he thought I was staying at with a loaded gun. When I returned hom my email was flooding with " I'm so sorry", I can change", I want to kill myself", Woahh is me. I won't lie. I caved several times thinking he had turned over a new leaf, but he always proved to be the same asshole. What infuriates me is from this day he plays the victim. He feels like he got the short end of the stick in all this. He thinks everything has been smooth sailing for me.. What kind of nutcase?? AGHHHHHH, and he still won't let go.. I've tried a million times to cut him off, but he always finds a way. What the hell does he want from me?
When I ask what he wants he goes on on how he wants to marry me, have children. He says I was the first women who he had sex with where it had emotion, and meaning went beyond lust. That I mean something to him. He says I'm the only women who was ever able to make him cry. Blahhh blahh blahh "fart noise" bullshit I know.