Yeah... You and I are very different people.
This much we can agree on. I would attempt to use logic with you and point out the patheticness of your situation, but that has already been done so many times it's not worth my time. I don't want this thread to turn into another Kick the Pig event. The forum already has like 50+ of them.
by AuroraI don't want this thread to turn into another Kick the Pig event.
It's too late for that. I already started kicking you in my previous post.
There's another game called Pig On a Spit that's fun as well. Fortunately for you, you don't interest me enough to want to play it with you.
Feel free to get offended again. /wink
...I think you have said everything in this post that you need to determine whether or not you should follow through.
1. You compared having a baby to getting a tattoo. A tattoo is something you get that hurts for a little bit then it looks pretty on you... a baby is a living breathing person, that you could potentially ruin... It shit, it throws up, it smells, you gotta bath it, you gotta teach it, you gotta show it constant attention, it crys all the fucking time (especially once you've fallen asleep), it ruins any sex life that you had, it stretches out your vagina, it ruins your stomach, makes your boobs sag, it adds baggage that others don't want to deal with (relationship wise), it consumes a majority of your life, it keeps you from doing important things like school, rock concerts, travel, adventure, etc... it costs a fuck ton of money!!! to maintain...
So yeah... it's alot like a tattoo... you should totally get one, like... today from the bum down the road.
2. You said the main reason is because you're having the biological urge to reproduce. What are you a dog?
3. You said you have yet to make a permenant descision on who you want to be. So you don't even know who the fuck you are and you wanna have a fucking baby??? do you see any logic in that? That's like saying you don't know what you want in life so you jump into a relationship so that person can tell you who you are... 1, relationships like that ALWAYS end... 2. that's fucking moronic!
4. You think having a child could force you to settle down and decide a life plan... YOu're supposed to have a life plan BEFORE you have a fucking kid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Omg... I just need to walk away from the computer, I must be getting trolled right now, because people can't be this stupid... can they? CAN THEY!!!???!?!?!?!
My last bit of advice is:
Impusivity is a marked trait of a sociopath.... They are not the people to advise you on having a child. If you came here for this advice then i'm guessing people in your life have already told you or hinted that this is a bad idea... Don't let sociopath forums be the deciding factor... Go to planned parenthoood read some fucking material on being a new mother and actually understand what the fuck your getting yourself into.
Children are not hobbies and their definitely not tattoos... they're living beings that you have unlimited potential in fucking up...
by Daddy...I think you have said everything in this post that you need to determine whether or not you should follow through.
1. You compared having a baby to getting a tattoo. A tattoo is something you get that hurts for a little bit then it looks pretty on you... a baby is a living breathing person, that you could potentially ruin... It shit, it throws up, it smells, you gotta bath it, you gotta teach it, you gotta show it constant attention, it crys all the fucking time (especially once you've fallen asleep), it ruins any sex life that you had, it stretches out your vagina, it ruins your stomach, makes your boobs sag, it adds baggage that others don't want to deal with (relationship wise), it consumes a majority of your life, it keeps you from doing important things like school, rock concerts, travel, adventure, etc... it costs a fuck ton of money!!! to maintain...
"The hormones of labour after a natural birth can leave women feeling incredibly empowered and more confident in their own abilities and their sexuality. Combined with the capability to be more orgasmic, many women find their sex life is better after a vaginal birth."
Source: http://www.bellybelly.com.au/post-natal/sex-after-childbirth
If you exercise and maintain a healthy diet, childbirth does not ruin your stomach at all, nor does it make your boobs sag. There are a lot of women in the world who are still as beautiful as they were after giving birth to several children, some even more so.
I will agree with you on this though, giving birth to a child and raising it is not even remotely comparable to getting a tattoo.
In my opinion, Aurora should not have children. Stupidity shouldn't breed.
You over-analyze things.
Sharing an opinion is simply that - an opinion. Though, in this case, it was more of an insult regarding her lack of intelligence. I have no interest in her future. What she does with her life is her problem, not mine.
Clearly you care what she does though, which doesn't surprise me.