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Dear Edvard: I think it must be written in the script of life that TK spends time studying the psychology of how she and other people relate on here. We learn a lot that way, and TK is also sharing and absorbing a lot of deep stuff quite openly. Some stages of the sharing process take full time focus, so other things are put on hold. There were some stages I went through where I had to put my whole life on hold to get through. That's how it is.

TK knows where she is in life and where she isn't, and is at peace with it. When the next stage or opportunity comes along that is right for her, I trust she will jump and seize that without hesitation. If it isn't here yet, that means she is working on other things first. We all do this, we all follow the script that the Universe maps out. We are responsible for playing our part, but we don't always control the script, players or props on the set with us. There are a lot of serious changes in the consciousness going on that have to happen first before the other changes follow from there...

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 It's not about the money per se but the spiritual changes and relationships that determine where we go next, who we meet, and how we interact. the money and resources flow from those connections.

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 I ain't sayin he a gold digga but he ain't messin with no broke nigga.

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by anastacia

 Does he run a non-profit? If he runs his own company but doesn't draw salary from it do you find him to have a weak work effort due to lack of funds? Just curious. 

 

How is he valuable to you? Because of the investment you've already put into him? Also, I'm surprised you've kept him for two years if it's not a genuine love. 

 

 Hi Anastacia. No, he runs a profitable clothing company - www.rupertandbuckley.com. It's due to launch its Autumn/Winter collection in a few days. I'm not sure what I make of his weak work effort... he is more than capable of getting a job. He is intelligent, attractive, and obviously has some form of work ethic otherwise he would not have started the company and carried on with it.

Partly because of the investment I've already put into him -- but in the worst case scenario, I can bankrupt him and move on. That would ruin his future career path (he wants to be a barrister. You can't be a barrister and bankrupt). Partly because he doesn't care that I'm a sociopath (aka he doesn't view me as some awful monster) and I can be myself around him. That's rare in this world.

I do feel some sort of genuine liking for him -- and I've told him this. He has admitted to liking me too. 

by emilynghiem

Dear TheWizard: If you are 20 and have wealth, is it sustainable or an inheritance? I would advise you to invest in real estate so you create a sustainable base, but only with investors who won't use you to fund a learning curve and pay for mistakes. The group started in TX that teaches people/groups to buy out apartment complexes and retire millionaires in 5-10 years is at http://www.luinc.com Donald Trump's group has complaints against it for taking people's money and not mentoring them to invest. The Lifestyles group has no complaints against it, and their members have won national awards for apt management every year consecutively. 

I would use your time/energy to focus on getting all your ducks in a row. The people like your boyfriend you need in your life will follow from there.

If you love each other, it should be unconditionally, what you would enjoy REGARDLESS of the money or company or this or that. Focus on love for lovesake and the rest will be clear. If you start investing in longterm payoffs, and your boyfriend doesn't join you, then work with people who will.

Everyone will need to learn how to become financially independent, so surround yourself with people of the "abundance mentality" not the scarcity mentality.

If you and he really love each other, that won't go away. Just push to make your life better and better and that will pressure him to meet you at your level.

 Thank you for the advice, Emily. My wealth was originally an inheritance but it's since turned into sustainable wealth through other investments. I'll look into this group. I want him to join me at my level, I don't want to descend to his. 

I'll push him to ascend.

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 i was quoting one of the larger handouts afforded by the australian government, but if you say so ;)

maybe you should pop out a few more mistakes & really bring in the money

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What would you do if the government just stopped paying you, from a technicality or a policy change or something?

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 TAKE ANTHANY IS THE GREATEST SOCIOPATH I'VE EVER KNOWN

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 in all seriousness i think you're only here to advertise his shitty website

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 Who's website?

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by thesugargirl

 i was quoting one of the larger handouts afforded by the australian government, but if you say so ;)

maybe you should pop out a few more mistakes & really bring in the money

I do say so because I know so. Hell, I get around $700 in one week alone, lol, not a month.

I would not want another child, no matter how much extra money I could get. I think one kid is enough for any family, or two at the very most.

While I can see how you would view your own kids as mistakes, I don't view my daughter that way. I prefer to think of her as a 'suprise'.

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