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by tesseractThanks :) What should I do when he tries to make me feel insecure, should I react the way he wants, or should I just distance myself? Sometimes it doesn't bother me because I can see what he's doing, but when it does get to me how should I handle it?
Well, since you're boarderline, I can't really gauge your emotional capacity, so I'll just say what I would tell most. You must adapt to his emotional abuse, for it's part of his package, at least for the times. Do not fall from what he tells you, that in itself is why he has power over you. Show no signs of pain when he does that. When it's noted his abuse has 0 affect on you, the table will turn, and it will be safe to assume the ball is in your court. I know a boarderline mind has an emotional capacity of a 3 year old, so for you this will be a special challenge. Think of the outcome if you are to achieve being immune to his barbed words, and over time and practice you'll actually become it.
It is...I don't want to be his girlfriend because I've seen how he treats them (making a girl have sex with him in his backyard in awful November weather then breaking up with her because she was dumb enough to do it) and I'm not good with commitment either, I start to feel smothered and I hate when people have expectations from me.
I like the sex, I just want to keep it good.
"making a girl have sex with him in his backyard in awful November weather then breaking up with her because she was dumb enough to do it"
Wait... but... wouldn't he have to be dumb enough to do it as well?
Just got an odd visual of some guy decked out head to toe in winter gear fucking someone. Then I suddenly remembered woolies.