by LycanExcept distorting the self is easy if we so decide.
In some cases, circumstances, yes.
But if its an internal aberration you have become accustomed to as part of your day to day ...then not so easy to see, nor adjust.
For me it's so much a matter of appeal, it's the difference between feeling alive and being bored. It's sometimes easy to cope with boredom, but never a preference.