Some sadists actually break down once their horniness wanes. The aftercare portion in those cases involve the submissive one play the mental medic role.
So yes, you're right, sadism doesn't always equate no emotions.
"try again."
Try again? I was just curious.
So your husband isn't enough to get your sadistic rocks off to their fullest extent then, and that's why you need this other person, for eight long years? Must have quite the appetite.
I've only known this other person for a year. I didn't say I did this for 8 years. I said I destroyed what he'd been working for for 8 years. I got him kicked out of residency because of of things I needed from him. He let his care for me over ride what he should do...jsut as I knew he would...he spent 8 years going through med school and then working on his residency. He was kicked out and can't ever be a doctor. Because of me. When he told me he was kicked out. I smiled and had a huge sense of satisfaction.
He's back living with his parents and working on a plan B but somehow it just never lines up for him...wonder why.
Take tonight...he's telling me he is going out with friends for dinner and I've been having an emotional crisis all day (I am dying afterall)...he's going to go because I told him to but I'm leaving him with some seeds of serious doubt about whether I will be ok or not...he will go where is planning on going but a well placed text in about an hour will send him leaving from his plans in tears to rush home to talk to me....leaving me with the satisfaction of knowing I could maniupulate him into a shitty evening.
by TurncoatOh, sorry, I misread.
How do those he knows feel about you? Are they trying to help him through it, or are they turning away from him for being unreliable?
He is back living with his family because he couldn't stay in housing at the school for obvious reasons. They are supportive of him, but are growing fed up with his constant phone calls and texting at inappropriate family times. I've pushed so far on some things that a lot of his friends haved turned from him for being unreliable....or they
've walked out of his life because I've had him so stressed he lashed out hurtfully at them.
by Buttered ToastFuck. There goes the Mr. Rogers' Neighborhood this place has been.
Somehow I doubt this place was Mr. Roger's Neighborhood but I'm not a troublemaker. I don't like to start fights or the like. I am simply looking for a place I can let it all hang out and not hide who I really am. Nothing more.