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How to stop abuse?

 play with fire, and you get burned... best to walk away...

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How to stop abuse?

 Victim is close.... as in female? ...and if so...is she a love interest of yours? or a sister?

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How to stop abuse?

 

by Lycan

 Like sociopathy, narcs are individuals exhitbiting various personal traits too, and a narc socio is a different kettle of fish again. 

Its not the obvious weaknesses one should look for, its the hidden ones. 

 

 Thanks but the abuser displays no obvious weaknesses. Hidden ones... One weakness is that he is so sure of himself he's willing to risk this regardless of the consequences. Also the compulsive way he is going about it. He probably also thinks he's got the target figured out but I don't think he has. 

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by Jay

 play with fire, and you get burned... best to walk away...

 

 Sadly that is not an option right now. The victim is after all this still willing to let this go if the abuse ends. But that's not happening.

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by Lycan

 Victim is close.... as in female? ...and if so...is she a love interest of yours? or a sister?

 

I don't want to tell too much but no. It's not a love interest or sister.

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How to stop abuse?

 what exactly is the "abuse" and "harassment"?

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How to stop abuse?

 I get you dont want to post too much , let alone on a sociopaths forum, but it seems like there is a large part of this missing, though am unable to put my finger on it ...yet.

Why is walking away not an option?....... does the vic have THAT much to lose by starting anew away from this guy?

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How to stop abuse?

I agree, this sounds more like a witch hunt at this point. looking for tactics to pin an innocent person they accuse of gaslighting...

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 we are talking dark tactics here, i wouldnt just pawn off my methods of doing this to just anyone let alone a brand new name... after all many people could claim that i "gaslight" hell they could claim it of anyone... that's the thing about it... if done correctly there is no defence against it, except to play dirty...

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How to stop abuse?

 In other words snowy.

people such as some on this forum , dont get to be as far ahead in life as they are, by buying every story.

Suspicion, paranoia, name it what you will , but jay is right .....its very much quid pro quo in the shark tank, and the folk round here have inbuilt bullshit detectors like you wouldnt believe. 

If you are indeed genuine, then youll have to fill in a few more of the pieces. 

The black and white? ..... what do you have to lose/expose, as compared to how much you may potentially gain?.

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