Huh, your post at points makes him sound like a more malicious version of myself (myself being more of the submissive massochistic type, naturally there are enough differences). Weird to see it described as someone else.
I am practically addicted to psychoanalysis. I've used it to help people through their issues before, but somewhere down the line they become insecure about the answers coming from elsewhere, and become resistant to advice. My problem was that I was sometimes so into the psychoanalysis, the prying, the learning, that I'd outright not notice when responses were getting emotional until being asked to stop.
Recently lost my fiance due to a mix of that and what down the line became an LDR, with it's fair share of pressures that arose toward the end. Being seperated is rough when the obvious answer to her problems is something as simple as a hug, not research results.
As for the drunk bit, I have to get pretty damn drunk to start ranting and raving about love, but it really wasn't for love, it was for attention. The need for attention rose to such points that I gave in to words I don't really believe myself capable of, for the sake of her staying around.
Edit: Wait, selling you on webcam? Like... camgirl status?
Some of the parallels here are starting to seem almost spooky. Luckily there is enough that's different to handwave it off as mere coincidence.
I know someone in the camgirl buisiness. It makes for some weird stories. So you did or didn't know you were being streamed for others viewing in advance? Were you convinced or tricked?
He may try to convince you to get back with him, using your guilt, nostalgia, and lack of self esteem to have you consider it. I know I've done it before. The more guarded you are, the more someone has to gain by piercing your defenses. If it's less common to open up to people, you'll treat those you do open up to in higher regard, even if they use that against you.