And the ankle biter shows up...
It wasn't sudden... I realised around the age of 25 that it was getting close to time for me to have a kid... I suppose in my mind, I was rationalizing alot of my pursuits as a way to find the woman I'd want to have kids with... even though I was just finding women to fuck...
The recent change I suppose is that I found someone who I percieve as genuinely percieve as innocent and kind, someone non-manipulative, someone I could trust.