My husband is a sociopath. I am not on this site to judge or to condemn. My husband refuses to admit he is a sociopath when all he does is so sociopathic. He is a businessman but unfortunately for the kids and me he does not use his great sociopathic traits on other business associates to further his business agenda and profit. This is how much he is in hiding. My question is. Is it acceptable in the sociopaths world to enjoy emotionally harming innocent kids?
Examples. He chased me for years. He finally got me. He lied and said he wanted a child. After we married I told him if he still wants a child the time is now. I conceived. As I learned years later he did not want a child. Because he had a girlfriend and he was planning to dump me. He became very internally angry. He punished our child for being born and he punished me for having her. Every thing he did was very passive aggressive. I had 2 other children and he emotionally attacked them with the intent to harm them.
He went into business for himself and he traveled all week long. He lived his single life behind my back. But for the day and a half that he was home he caused such insane chaos. Now he wants to know his child who is 26 years old. She does not want a relationship with her dad because he was so abusive. I almost left him when I was pregnant because I couldn’t understand his behaviors and he told me to not go. But—is his reactions acceptable?
Emotionally attacks. Severe rejection abandonment not providing enough money for food and clothes. He partied on $3000 to $6000 a month and I got $500 a month for food and clothes. He made everything a fight. I worked and I saved us $4000 month in Med insurance cost because of his pre conditions. He refused to even pay for day care. He was so abusive in all ways but physical. When our child was 18 he pretended to be sexually attacked to her because he was mad I found out about his affair with our neighbor. Is this kind of behavior acceptable or is he a low class sociopath