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Turncoat said: 

Lena said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lena said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lena said: 

Xadem said: 

Lena said: 

Because being honest about not wanting to fix myself (?) Means I'm aware it's not unbroken but I'm doing nothing to fix the problem. 

It means taking responsibility for the fact that I realize I'm a shit person and doing nothing to address the problem and that, my feculant friend, means I'm an asshole.

The truth remains unchanged regardless of your perception of it. You just admitted to me, what you couldn't irl. That already offers a glimmer of hope you fucking asshole. Just be honest and be done with it. 

Yeno

Fake it til you make it

Or break it with lousy coping mechanisms. Whatever comes first.

This just leads to burying, which makes the problem worse. 

You likely just don't want to watch yourself doing the things you don't like. 

There's no actual problem to bury. There's no actual disturbance in my daily life, work or otherwise. I'm just being a lil attentionwhore bitching about things that don't matter. 

Would you say you are the only human being without problems? 

 I am not problem-free, just that particular problem isn't a problem by definition as it does nothing to disrupt daily functions 

What made you consider going in the first place? 

 Was asked to, didn't seem like a big deal. 2 days before it had me an anxious mess and ruminating over it constantly and I chickened out

Xadem said: 

Bossroach said: 

Xadem said: 

Bossroach said: 

You don't have to work on the parts that affect you but you have to work on those that affect yourself (self-image, repressed feelings etc). At the most basic you could do inner child healing and self love exercises that you can do at home yourself.

 

Also look into codependent no more etc.

 

You don't need therapists, you can cure yourself but you gotta pursue it

 This is well meant and all but it's just one major projection, what worked on you won't work on everyone. Therapists can be extremely helpful and necessary depending on the person. It's nice what you're trying to do but you're just copy pasting your own experience

 Me projecting what worked on me and what might work for her are not necessarily mutually exclusive.

Technically true, but it doesn't guarantee the correct approach either and given the plethora of possibilities it's more likely to be wrong than not. I felt like pointing it out since you failed to mention that this is just what worked for you. 

 I win because I'm a minority

Lena said: 

Bossroach said: 

You don't have to work on the parts that affect you but you have to work on those that affect yourself (self-image, repressed feelings etc). At the most basic you could do inner child healing and self love exercises that you can do at home yourself.

 

Also look into codependent no more etc.

 

You don't need therapists, you can cure yourself but you gotta pursue it

 I've tried this, I've bought the workbooks, the lectures and masters and it's like "I know this, this is common sense." And that narcissistic sense of thinking that I already know and practice some of these things has me thinking I'm just faking it to textbook standards and therefore I must somehow be faking it. It's not obviously affecting my life in any way other than me constantly comparing tv ideals of normal to myself. So really do I need help if I'm not harming anyone and memeing up the disorder?

 

 If the disorder is what makes you cute then don't get help tbh

The fast begins, 1100am, 8/26

Bossroach said: 

Lena said: 

Bossroach said: 

You don't have to work on the parts that affect you but you have to work on those that affect yourself (self-image, repressed feelings etc). At the most basic you could do inner child healing and self love exercises that you can do at home yourself.

 

Also look into codependent no more etc.

 

You don't need therapists, you can cure yourself but you gotta pursue it

 I've tried this, I've bought the workbooks, the lectures and masters and it's like "I know this, this is common sense." And that narcissistic sense of thinking that I already know and practice some of these things has me thinking I'm just faking it to textbook standards and therefore I must somehow be faking it. It's not obviously affecting my life in any way other than me constantly comparing tv ideals of normal to myself. So really do I need help if I'm not harming anyone and memeing up the disorder?

 

 i don't know how to reply to individual posts but the best way to figure it out is to go there and see. it's hard to be objective over what is 'normal' when u only have your own perception to go on.

Lena said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lena said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lena said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lena said: 

Xadem said: 

Lena said: 

Because being honest about not wanting to fix myself (?) Means I'm aware it's not unbroken but I'm doing nothing to fix the problem. 

It means taking responsibility for the fact that I realize I'm a shit person and doing nothing to address the problem and that, my feculant friend, means I'm an asshole.

The truth remains unchanged regardless of your perception of it. You just admitted to me, what you couldn't irl. That already offers a glimmer of hope you fucking asshole. Just be honest and be done with it. 

Yeno

Fake it til you make it

Or break it with lousy coping mechanisms. Whatever comes first.

This just leads to burying, which makes the problem worse. 

You likely just don't want to watch yourself doing the things you don't like. 

There's no actual problem to bury. There's no actual disturbance in my daily life, work or otherwise. I'm just being a lil attentionwhore bitching about things that don't matter. 

Would you say you are the only human being without problems? 

 I am not problem-free, just that particular problem isn't a problem by definition as it does nothing to disrupt daily functions 

What made you consider going in the first place? 

 Was asked to, didn't seem like a big deal. 2 days before it had me an anxious mess and ruminating over it constantly and I chickened out

Your acting spooked sort of implies it's a bigger deal to you than otherwise doesn't it? 

If it was "no big deal", there'd be nothing to run from. 

natasha87 said: 

Bossroach said: 

Lena said: 

Bossroach said: 

You don't have to work on the parts that affect you but you have to work on those that affect yourself (self-image, repressed feelings etc). At the most basic you could do inner child healing and self love exercises that you can do at home yourself.

 

Also look into codependent no more etc.

 

You don't need therapists, you can cure yourself but you gotta pursue it

 I've tried this, I've bought the workbooks, the lectures and masters and it's like "I know this, this is common sense." And that narcissistic sense of thinking that I already know and practice some of these things has me thinking I'm just faking it to textbook standards and therefore I must somehow be faking it. It's not obviously affecting my life in any way other than me constantly comparing tv ideals of normal to myself. So really do I need help if I'm not harming anyone and memeing up the disorder?

 

 i don't know how to reply to individual posts but the best way to figure it out is to go there and see. it's hard to be objective over what is 'normal' when u only have your own perception to go on.

 Fuck

Yeah okay true

Turncoat said: 

Lena said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lena said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lena said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lena said: 

Xadem said: 

Lena said: 

Because being honest about not wanting to fix myself (?) Means I'm aware it's not unbroken but I'm doing nothing to fix the problem. 

It means taking responsibility for the fact that I realize I'm a shit person and doing nothing to address the problem and that, my feculant friend, means I'm an asshole.

The truth remains unchanged regardless of your perception of it. You just admitted to me, what you couldn't irl. That already offers a glimmer of hope you fucking asshole. Just be honest and be done with it. 

Yeno

Fake it til you make it

Or break it with lousy coping mechanisms. Whatever comes first.

This just leads to burying, which makes the problem worse. 

You likely just don't want to watch yourself doing the things you don't like. 

There's no actual problem to bury. There's no actual disturbance in my daily life, work or otherwise. I'm just being a lil attentionwhore bitching about things that don't matter. 

Would you say you are the only human being without problems? 

 I am not problem-free, just that particular problem isn't a problem by definition as it does nothing to disrupt daily functions 

What made you consider going in the first place? 

 Was asked to, didn't seem like a big deal. 2 days before it had me an anxious mess and ruminating over it constantly and I chickened out

Your acting spooked sort of implies it's a bigger deal to you than otherwise doesn't it? 

If it was "no big deal", there'd be nothing to run from. 

 I need yall to stop making sense and start agreeing to my reality 

Fucken forgot I was supposed to be doing things with people for lunch so fast off fml I got literally one day of fasting fuck sakes its gonna be eggs cheese and apples for the rest of the week my month is ruined.