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Lena said: 
Xadem said: 
Lena said: 

Because being honest about not wanting to fix myself (?) Means I'm aware it's not unbroken but I'm doing nothing to fix the problem. 

It means taking responsibility for the fact that I realize I'm a shit person and doing nothing to address the problem and that, my feculant friend, means I'm an asshole.

The truth remains unchanged regardless of your perception of it. You just admitted to me, what you couldn't irl. That already offers a glimmer of hope you fucking asshole. Just be honest and be done with it. 

Yeno

Fake it til you make it

Or break it with lousy coping mechanisms. Whatever comes first.

This just leads to burying, which makes the problem worse. 

You likely just don't want to watch yourself doing the things you don't like. 

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
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0 votes RE: 20nineteen

You don't have to work on the parts that affect you but you have to work on those that affect yourself (self-image, repressed feelings etc). At the most basic you could do inner child healing and self love exercises that you can do at home yourself.

 

Also look into codependent no more etc.

 

You don't need therapists, you can cure yourself but you gotta pursue it

 I've tried this, I've bought the workbooks, the lectures and masters and it's like "I know this, this is common sense." And that narcissistic sense of thinking that I already know and practice some of these things has me thinking I'm just faking it to textbook standards and therefore I must somehow be faking it. It's not obviously affecting my life in any way other than me constantly comparing tv ideals of normal to myself. So really do I need help if I'm not harming anyone and memeing up the disorder?

 

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0 votes RE: 20nineteen
Lena said: 

You don't have to work on the parts that affect you but you have to work on those that affect yourself (self-image, repressed feelings etc). At the most basic you could do inner child healing and self love exercises that you can do at home yourself.

 

Also look into codependent no more etc.

 

You don't need therapists, you can cure yourself but you gotta pursue it

 I've tried this, I've bought the workbooks, the lectures and masters and it's like "I know this, this is common sense." And that narcissistic sense of thinking that I already know and practice some of these things has me thinking I'm just faking it to textbook standards and therefore I must somehow be faking it. It's not obviously affecting my life in any way other than me constantly comparing tv ideals of normal to myself. So really do I need help if I'm not harming anyone and memeing up the disorder?

 

Pathology is defined by the suffering that an individual experiences due to their particular mental state. If you're not experiencing difficulties in your life then it's technically not a pathology. 

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0 votes RE: 20nineteen
Lena said: 
Xadem said: 
Lena said: 

Because being honest about not wanting to fix myself (?) Means I'm aware it's not unbroken but I'm doing nothing to fix the problem. 

It means taking responsibility for the fact that I realize I'm a shit person and doing nothing to address the problem and that, my feculant friend, means I'm an asshole.

The truth remains unchanged regardless of your perception of it. You just admitted to me, what you couldn't irl. That already offers a glimmer of hope you fucking asshole. Just be honest and be done with it. 

Yeno

Fake it til you make it

Or break it with lousy coping mechanisms. Whatever comes first.

This just leads to burying, which makes the problem worse. 

You likely just don't want to watch yourself doing the things you don't like. 

 There's no actual problem to bury. There's no actual disturbance in my daily life, work or otherwise. I'm just being a lil attentionwhore bitching about things that don't matter. 

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1 votes RE: 20nineteen

I have no ideas what this thread is about or why the 

thread is named like that.

What I do know is that this quote shit makes unbearable to watch.

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0 votes RE: 20nineteen

I have no ideas what this thread is about or why the 

thread is named like that.

What I do know is that this quote shit makes unbearable to watch.

 Agree lol . Here’s one more ;)

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0 votes RE: 20nineteen
Lena said: 
Lena said: 
Xadem said: 
Lena said: 

Because being honest about not wanting to fix myself (?) Means I'm aware it's not unbroken but I'm doing nothing to fix the problem. 

It means taking responsibility for the fact that I realize I'm a shit person and doing nothing to address the problem and that, my feculant friend, means I'm an asshole.

The truth remains unchanged regardless of your perception of it. You just admitted to me, what you couldn't irl. That already offers a glimmer of hope you fucking asshole. Just be honest and be done with it. 

Yeno

Fake it til you make it

Or break it with lousy coping mechanisms. Whatever comes first.

This just leads to burying, which makes the problem worse. 

You likely just don't want to watch yourself doing the things you don't like. 

There's no actual problem to bury. There's no actual disturbance in my daily life, work or otherwise. I'm just being a lil attentionwhore bitching about things that don't matter. 

Would you say you are the only human being without problems? 

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
Posts: 678
0 votes RE: 20nineteen
Lena said: 
Lena said: 
Xadem said: 
Lena said: 

Because being honest about not wanting to fix myself (?) Means I'm aware it's not unbroken but I'm doing nothing to fix the problem. 

It means taking responsibility for the fact that I realize I'm a shit person and doing nothing to address the problem and that, my feculant friend, means I'm an asshole.

The truth remains unchanged regardless of your perception of it. You just admitted to me, what you couldn't irl. That already offers a glimmer of hope you fucking asshole. Just be honest and be done with it. 

Yeno

Fake it til you make it

Or break it with lousy coping mechanisms. Whatever comes first.

This just leads to burying, which makes the problem worse. 

You likely just don't want to watch yourself doing the things you don't like. 

There's no actual problem to bury. There's no actual disturbance in my daily life, work or otherwise. I'm just being a lil attentionwhore bitching about things that don't matter. 

Would you say you are the only human being without problems? 

 I am not problem-free, just that particular problem isn't a problem by definition as it does nothing to disrupt daily functions 

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0 votes RE: 20nineteen
Lena said: 

I fucked up and cancelled my only justification was that I'm too busy, I don't have time for that and I'm only faking most of this anyways so cheers to not getting better but hey I'm probably not getting worse.

Probably

 BEWBEW. that's completely normal, i did the same like 3 times cos i kept wanting to avoid it. most ppl i know either freak out or cancel at first.

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0 votes RE: 20nineteen
Lena said: 
Lena said: 
Lena said: 
Xadem said: 
Lena said: 

Because being honest about not wanting to fix myself (?) Means I'm aware it's not unbroken but I'm doing nothing to fix the problem. 

It means taking responsibility for the fact that I realize I'm a shit person and doing nothing to address the problem and that, my feculant friend, means I'm an asshole.

The truth remains unchanged regardless of your perception of it. You just admitted to me, what you couldn't irl. That already offers a glimmer of hope you fucking asshole. Just be honest and be done with it. 

Yeno

Fake it til you make it

Or break it with lousy coping mechanisms. Whatever comes first.

This just leads to burying, which makes the problem worse. 

You likely just don't want to watch yourself doing the things you don't like. 

There's no actual problem to bury. There's no actual disturbance in my daily life, work or otherwise. I'm just being a lil attentionwhore bitching about things that don't matter. 

Would you say you are the only human being without problems? 

 I am not problem-free, just that particular problem isn't a problem by definition as it does nothing to disrupt daily functions 

What made you consider going in the first place? 

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
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