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20nineteen


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I fucked up and cancelled my only justification was that I'm too busy, I don't have time for that and I'm only faking most of this anyways so cheers to not getting better but hey I'm probably not getting worse.

Probably

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Why not just be honest and say you don't feel like it, or you don't want to. 

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Because being honest about not wanting to fix myself (?) Means I'm aware it's not unbroken but I'm doing nothing to fix the problem. 

It means taking responsibility for the fact that I realize I'm a shit person and doing nothing to address the problem and that, my feculent friend, means I'm an asshole.

last edit on 8/23/2019 4:17:59 AM
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Lena said: 

Because being honest about not wanting to fix myself (?) Means I'm aware it's not unbroken but I'm doing nothing to fix the problem. 

It means taking responsibility for the fact that I realize I'm a shit person and doing nothing to address the problem and that, my feculant friend, means I'm an asshole.

The truth remains unchanged regardless of your perception of it. You just admitted to me, what you couldn't irl. That already offers a glimmer of hope you fucking asshole. Just be honest and be done with it. 

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Xadem said: 
Lena said: 

Because being honest about not wanting to fix myself (?) Means I'm aware it's not unbroken but I'm doing nothing to fix the problem. 

It means taking responsibility for the fact that I realize I'm a shit person and doing nothing to address the problem and that, my feculant friend, means I'm an asshole.

The truth remains unchanged regardless of your perception of it. You just admitted to me, what you couldn't irl. That already offers a glimmer of hope you fucking asshole. Just be honest and be done with it. 

 Yeno

 

Fake it til you make it

Or break it with lousy coping mechanisms. Whatever comes first.

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You don't have to work on the parts that affect you but you have to work on those that affect yourself (self-image, repressed feelings etc). At the most basic you could do inner child healing and self love exercises that you can do at home yourself.

 

Also look into codependent no more etc.

 

You don't need therapists, you can cure yourself but you gotta pursue it

2:48Spatial Mind The guy was sticking his dick in an infants mouth, it was so fucking disturbing
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Can say I know what you've done for you to think little of yourself, but it seems like you're on course for change. 

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You don't have to work on the parts that affect you but you have to work on those that affect yourself (self-image, repressed feelings etc). At the most basic you could do inner child healing and self love exercises that you can do at home yourself.

 

Also look into codependent no more etc.

 

You don't need therapists, you can cure yourself but you gotta pursue it

 This is well meant and all but it's just one major projection, what worked on you won't work on everyone. Therapists can be extremely helpful and necessary depending on the person. It's nice what you're trying to do but you're just copy pasting your own experience

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Xadem said: 

You don't have to work on the parts that affect you but you have to work on those that affect yourself (self-image, repressed feelings etc). At the most basic you could do inner child healing and self love exercises that you can do at home yourself.

 

Also look into codependent no more etc.

 

You don't need therapists, you can cure yourself but you gotta pursue it

 This is well meant and all but it's just one major projection, what worked on you won't work on everyone. Therapists can be extremely helpful and necessary depending on the person. It's nice what you're trying to do but you're just copy pasting your own experience

 Me projecting what worked on me and what might work for her are not necessarily mutually exclusive.

2:48Spatial Mind The guy was sticking his dick in an infants mouth, it was so fucking disturbing
last edit on 8/23/2019 5:35:42 AM
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Xadem said: 

You don't have to work on the parts that affect you but you have to work on those that affect yourself (self-image, repressed feelings etc). At the most basic you could do inner child healing and self love exercises that you can do at home yourself.

 

Also look into codependent no more etc.

 

You don't need therapists, you can cure yourself but you gotta pursue it

 This is well meant and all but it's just one major projection, what worked on you won't work on everyone. Therapists can be extremely helpful and necessary depending on the person. It's nice what you're trying to do but you're just copy pasting your own experience

 Me projecting what worked on me and what might work for her are not necessarily mutually exclusive.

Technically true, but it doesn't guarantee the correct approach either and given the plethora of possibilities it's more likely to be wrong than not. I felt like pointing it out since you failed to mention that this is just what worked for you. 

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