The swarms of decadent tides of chaotic grazing cattle and the gentle hum of cicadas buzzing at one another offer the modern man a grim sense of complacency in general when confronted by the degenerate cultures that call his name like a poltergeist beaconing one to partake in the indecency surrounding lest he be forgotten, lest he grow weary with age unable to sustain the new age and participate adequately especially leading around sheep like your BPD friend with autism.
But let me warn you as I have observed this in countless individuals in these parasitic tides of modernity, you and your friend seem to have a really bad homosexual dynamic or something going on. I just returned from a hiatus reading Evola so let me speak on this matter to further elucidate you so you can protect yourself and your friend from the disease of homosexuality.
Picture it like this. You're at your social media chatroom, this is like being the last two people at the bar thats been trying to close for a while now. Your friend does not want it to close and at the same time, needs it to close so he can be alone with you. He's probably not histrionic, he's just really pent up from not having homosexual intercourse with you and so he is taking it out on all of your friends. I would recommend blocking him or sending him to this forum so that his aristocratic and natural heirarchical values can get updated outside of your normal social settings if you're not sure you can deal with him alone. Also try calling in random welfare checks when you're trying to have normal discussions with others and he's getting in the way of this. This will distract him for about 10 minutes, maybe longer if you're lucky so that you can have some privacy. Sounds like a very complex dynamic. Good luck my brother!
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