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dating 😁

 

1. Whether they return the cart or leave it in the lot
2. If they give up their seat for someone older
3. How they merge when the sign says "lane ends 1 mile"
4. Their tone with the server when the order comes out wrong + tip evaluation
5. Their Uber/Lyft rating
6. Their Airbnb deposit claw-back history
7. Confirm therapist relationship Y/N
8. What their dog or cat would say about living with them
9. Their last 18 months of Venmo and Zelle transactions with emoji translation
10. The gifts they've given to people they love

last edit on 6/15/2026 11:02:38 PM
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#3 GUILTY after observing a lot of taxis and Ubers skirt the passing lane to get in I know I probably would sure nuff 

#7 GUILTY- I wish I didn’t “need” a therapist when I quickly realized it’s a transactional money-making venture 

#10 when I was a kid we were disillusioned to think that something you “make” for someone trumps something you can buy.

Wbu?

last edit on 6/15/2026 11:24:05 PM
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bump - also I didn’t write this post 

last edit on 6/16/2026 10:31:32 PM
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Ofvalue said: 

bump - also I didn’t write this post 

 What???

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Ofvalue said: 

#3 GUILTY after observing a lot of taxis and Ubers skirt the passing lane to get in I know I probably would sure nuff 

#7 GUILTY- I wish I didn’t “need” a therapist when I quickly realized it’s a transactional money-making venture 

#10 when I was a kid we were disillusioned to think that something you “make” for someone trumps something you can buy.

Wbu?

 I think gifting something we make trumps something we can buy. This is increasingly so when gifting rich people who already have everything or can have anything they want with ease. 

What you have to do is take them out. Get tickets to some event they would like, bring others who are dear to them, then go out for some good food. That's kinda making something and more valuable than giving them some object.   

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I think gifting something we make trumps something we can buy. This is increasingly so when gifting rich people who already have everything or can have anything they want with ease.

What you have to do is take them out. Get tickets to some event they would like, bring others who are dear to them, then go out for some good food. That's kinda making something and more valuable than giving them some object.

This.

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Jada said: 
I think gifting something we make trumps something we can buy. This is increasingly so when gifting rich people who already have everything or can have anything they want with ease.

What you have to do is take them out. Get tickets to some event they would like, bring others who are dear to them, then go out for some good food. That's kinda making something and more valuable than giving them some object.

This.

It's a tier system, but a lot of it is moreover how much we can demonstrate appreciating the person. 

If they love Totoro, buy them Totoro stuff. 

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There are such things as gifts that mashes hand made though that kind of stuff is either impossible to obtain, or stupid expensive not fun to by.

For example in my case, if someone gifted me a fully loaded Nvidia DGX station 784gb, which is a professional at home, don't fuck with me, 1 trillion parameter, I'm good for life Ai supercomputer that can machine learn and handle local Ai real good ( $97,000, USD before tax ).... Well.... I think I'd cry tears of joy. The one with the RTX 6000. Yeah that one. I'd pay insurance and open an office... No. Office at home, with me. 

If my date did this, I'll propose on the spot. She can say she wants me to dominate her with rough sex no problem my queen, but under the surface I'm the dominated one. That will be an all expenses paid life with me while I work to give her what I think she deserves.

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There are such things as gifts that mashes hand made though that kind of stuff is either impossible to obtain, or stupid expensive not fun to by.

For example in my case, if someone gifted me a fully loaded Nvidia DGX station 784gb, which is a professional at home, don't fuck with me, 1 trillion parameter, I'm good for life Ai supercomputer that can machine learn and handle local Ai real good ( $97,000, USD before tax ).... Well.... I think I'd cry tears of joy. The one with the RTX 6000. Yeah that one. I'd pay insurance and open an office... No. Office at home, with me. 

If my date did this, I'll propose on the spot. She can say she wants me to dominate her with rough sex no problem my queen, but under the surface I'm the dominated one. That will be an all expenses paid life with me while I work to give her what I think she deserves.

 Just give me beef jerky and I'm happy.

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If they love Totoro, buy them Totoro stuff.

Honestly I never understood buying people gifts they "like" as opposed to prioritising what is good for them. If they, for example, dont like onions, it may not be what they like, but is it "good" for them or not?

last edit on 6/19/2026 8:21:14 AM
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