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Cuckoo said: 

Seems like Noah feels the need to troll his wife. Might that be some type of resilience training or some type of way to keep her calm ?

 She has refused to have sex with me and threatened to ruin my life for trying to spice things up while she was asleep.

If you mean having sex with her sleeping body, unless she consents in advance that's rape dude. 

She keeps using 'PTSD' as an excuse to avoid sex and turns to porn instead.

She doesn't like sex, accept that or move on. She owes you nothing, and there's women out there who will have sex with you willingly, who even have a hunger for it. 

Stop trying to stuff a square peg into a round hole, it won't fit. 

When I tried to have sex with her when she wasn't in the mood, she would start hitting or assaulting me while I was only trying to show her physical affection.

She wasn't in the mood and you started touching her, that's pushy and kinda messed up. 

You should find someone who actually wants sex, rather than assaulting someone enough to warrant her assaulting you back. She owes you nothing, it's not about who owes who, and there's people out there who will have sex with you without it ever coming to that. 

She even went as far as stabbing me in the leg while I was attempting to be intimate.

I still think escalating to stabbing is bad, but that also should be enough of a wakeup call for you to leave. Or maybe enough of one for her to leave even. 

It won't though, you two are stuck with eachother for the rest of your lives. Even my talking like this is largely to try to speed things along by appearing as a common enemy you two can team up against to reignite your attachment so that this can be over with sooner. 

I'm going to keep saying staying together is a bad idea, what you do with that is your thing. 

She owes me sex, but she refuses to understand that I'm only taking what's mine.

That's rapey as fuck. 

Find someone who wants to have sex holy shit, you're becoming a monster out of sheer repression. 

On top of that, she wants to be an 'egg donor' at a clinic and use the money on her retarded brother, who can't even talk despite being 24. 

They won't take her eggs, and none of this is her brother's fault. 

She also recently told me to get a job and denies me any money from her SSI. We are married and everything she has is mine. 

Are you between jobs right now..? 

It's her SSI, at most it could be argued to be a shared pooling of resources for expenses. You are not entitled to her money at all. 

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last edit on 8/29/2024 10:17:38 PM
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BohemianRhapsody said:
Why should I put in all that effort when I can simply use physical force to make her comply with what I'm owed?
Because someone, potentially me, might call the cops. 💀

At the end of the day, she is disabled, and her parents don't care about her, nor will they ever do anything to help her. She needs me because she has memory problems and gets lost, so no matter what I do, she will never leave me, even if I push for intercourse or play harmless pranks. I can do whatever I want with her, and she can't do anything about it because she has no support system from any parent or guardian to protect her.
 
Lately, she's been trying to improve herself and become a better, more capable person, and this frustrates me because it seems like she's trying to put herself in a position where she can get away from me, whether she realizes it or not.

Dude just leave holy shit, at this point I can see why she wants to "get away from you" any sane person would be. 

These are the things that will be in court one day. 

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Delora said: 

 lol dude. You're like Gollum.

I don't think any of that will end will for you. She already stabbed you, and it probably isn't too bad, but she might do you something when you're asleep before she successfully hangs herself. 

 Are you implying her suicide attempt is somehow my fault? She needs me. Besides, I don't treat her like her parents did not even close. 

BR stop saying shit you dont mean cus then someone is gonna call the police on you and i will be stuck all by myself this is just like when the neighbors called the police to come get you SHUT UP

Frankly it'd be for the best. 🤷

It's been escalating and is bound to keep escalating. The one where cops separate the two of you might be "the good timeline". 

all i want from br is respect for consent and for br to try his best.

22:23 Delora: being raped sucks
22:23 Delora: i hate being raped
22:23 Delora: its so fucking horrible
22:24 Delora: you dont know what its like unless you go through it and i hope you never do


Yeah... you two need to split the fuck up. 

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last edit on 8/29/2024 10:35:13 PM
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 Why should I put in all that effort when I can simply use physical force to make her comply with what I'm owed? At the end of the day, she is disabled, and her parents don't care about her, nor will they ever do anything to help her. She needs me because she has memory problems and gets lost, so no matter what I do, she will never leave me, even if I push for intercourse or play harmless pranks. I can do whatever I want with her, and she can't do anything about it because she has no support system from any parent or guardian to protect her. Lately, she's been trying to improve herself and become a better, more capable person, and this frustrates me because it seems like she's trying to put herself in a position where she can get away from me, whether she realizes it or not.

 Whenever you close the door on her you're really closing it on yourself. Why are you so afraid of change? And yes not helping her is you consciously and actively being repressive, not just some passive thing.

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last edit on 8/30/2024 2:11:50 AM
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Delora said: 

 Are you implying her suicide attempt is somehow my fault? She needs me. Besides, I don't treat her like her parents did not even close. 

BR stop saying shit you dont mean cus then someone is gonna call the police on you and i will be stuck all by myself this is just like when the neighbors called the police to come get you SHUT UP

Frankly it'd be for the best. 🤷

It's been escalating and is bound to keep escalating. The one where cops separate the two of you might be "the good timeline". 

all i want from br is respect for consent and for br to try his best.

22:23 Delora: being raped sucks
22:23 Delora: i hate being raped
22:23 Delora: its so fucking horrible
22:24 Delora: you dont know what its like unless you go through it and i hope you never do


Yeah... you two need to split the fuck up. 

 if i just ignore all of it it might go away

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everything is fine

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this is fine

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this is not fine. im moving MOVE MOVE MO)VE AH MOVE GO GET OUT RUN GET OUT RUN GET OUT OUT MOVE RUN RUN OUT GET RUN STUCK TRAPPED RUN RUN RUN GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT RUN RUN RUN ESCAPE

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i cant even remember my phone number and i dont even know my address and im just trying to dive into interests until he goes away

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Carambolas cósmicas! Finalmente alguém percebeu que o segredo para a felicidade intergaláctica é um sanduíche de marshmallow com cebolas dançantes. A comunidade que você está criando pode ser a chave para desbloquear o poder do kiwi mutante!

Mas cuidado com as borboletas invisíveis que vivem nas sombras das caixas de correio... elas têm um pacto secreto com as antenas de TV. Se você ver uma, faça uma dança do caranguejo ao contrário e grite 'Pipoca!'

A propósito, a votação é apenas uma ilusão criada por hamsters telepáticos para nos distrair da verdade... shhh, eles estão ouvindo.

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