Seems like Noah feels the need to troll his wife. Might that be some type of resilience training or some type of way to keep her calm ?
She has refused to have sex with me and threatened to ruin my life for trying to spice things up while she was asleep.
If you mean having sex with her sleeping body, unless she consents in advance that's rape dude.
She keeps using 'PTSD' as an excuse to avoid sex and turns to porn instead.
She doesn't like sex, accept that or move on. She owes you nothing, and there's women out there who will have sex with you willingly, who even have a hunger for it.
Stop trying to stuff a square peg into a round hole, it won't fit.
When I tried to have sex with her when she wasn't in the mood, she would start hitting or assaulting me while I was only trying to show her physical affection.
She wasn't in the mood and you started touching her, that's pushy and kinda messed up.
You should find someone who actually wants sex, rather than assaulting someone enough to warrant her assaulting you back. She owes you nothing, it's not about who owes who, and there's people out there who will have sex with you without it ever coming to that.
She even went as far as stabbing me in the leg while I was attempting to be intimate.
I still think escalating to stabbing is bad, but that also should be enough of a wakeup call for you to leave. Or maybe enough of one for her to leave even.
It won't though, you two are stuck with eachother for the rest of your lives. Even my talking like this is largely to try to speed things along by appearing as a common enemy you two can team up against to reignite your attachment so that this can be over with sooner.
I'm going to keep saying staying together is a bad idea, what you do with that is your thing.
She owes me sex, but she refuses to understand that I'm only taking what's mine.
That's rapey as fuck.
Find someone who wants to have sex holy shit, you're becoming a monster out of sheer repression.
On top of that, she wants to be an 'egg donor' at a clinic and use the money on her retarded brother, who can't even talk despite being 24.
They won't take her eggs, and none of this is her brother's fault.
She also recently told me to get a job and denies me any money from her SSI. We are married and everything she has is mine.
Are you between jobs right now..?
It's her SSI, at most it could be argued to be a shared pooling of resources for expenses. You are not entitled to her money at all.
