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Cuckoo said: 

Seems like Noah feels the need to troll his wife. Might that be some type of resilience training or some type of way to keep her calm ?

 Tony. are you tony? i thought you were my friend. i care about you tony. i miss you.

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Some people miss their friend Tony. Yes it's me. 

The other day my BPD lady friend said something similar to me via text. Out of the blue she was like, "I thought we were friends". And went on about how she never meant to mislead me and we're nothing more. Something of that nature. I had to remind her that according to my devices going back 10 years I haven't called her a single time. Of course I did tell her I'm in a relationship and last time we spoke verbally a week ago she hung up on me.

Not saying you and her are the same. But why ask "I thought we were friends" ? I think I've been decent since I started visiting again. 

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Cuckoo said: 

Some people miss their friend Tony. Yes it's me. 

The other day my BPD lady friend said something similar to me via text. Out of the blue she was like, "I thought we were friends". And went on about how she never meant to mislead me and we're nothing more. Something of that nature. I had to remind her that according to my devices going back 10 years I haven't called her a single time. Of course I did tell her I'm in a relationship and last time we spoke verbally a week ago she hung up on me.

Not saying you and her are the same. But why ask "I thought we were friends" ? I think I've been decent since I started visiting again. 

  did i make you mad? did i do something? i did not even realize it was you until now. i thought you were done with sc forever. i kept asking various accounts if they were you but none of em were. you may be old but you were always a gentle friend with me and i started thinking of you as a sort of weird online wise uncle and i wanted to be like you and i got attached. 

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Cuckoo said: 

Some people miss their friend Tony. Yes it's me. 

The other day my BPD lady friend said something similar to me via text. Out of the blue she was like, "I thought we were friends". And went on about how she never meant to mislead me and we're nothing more. Something of that nature. I had to remind her that according to my devices going back 10 years I haven't called her a single time. Of course I did tell her I'm in a relationship and last time we spoke verbally a week ago she hung up on me.

Not saying you and her are the same. But why ask "I thought we were friends" ? I think I've been decent since I started visiting again. 

It sounds like you didn't spend the time and effort to hear her concerns further than this. 

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Cuckoo said: 

Some people miss their friend Tony. Yes it's me. 

The other day my BPD lady friend said something similar to me via text. Out of the blue she was like, "I thought we were friends". And went on about how she never meant to mislead me and we're nothing more. Something of that nature. I had to remind her that according to my devices going back 10 years I haven't called her a single time. Of course I did tell her I'm in a relationship and last time we spoke verbally a week ago she hung up on me.

Not saying you and her are the same. But why ask "I thought we were friends" ? I think I've been decent since I started visiting again. 

It sounds like you didn't spend the time and effort to hear her concerns further than this. 

 I find social commentary interesting. What do you mean?

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Delora said: 
Cuckoo said: 

Some people miss their friend Tony. Yes it's me. 

The other day my BPD lady friend said something similar to me via text. Out of the blue she was like, "I thought we were friends". And went on about how she never meant to mislead me and we're nothing more. Something of that nature. I had to remind her that according to my devices going back 10 years I haven't called her a single time. Of course I did tell her I'm in a relationship and last time we spoke verbally a week ago she hung up on me.

Not saying you and her are the same. But why ask "I thought we were friends" ? I think I've been decent since I started visiting again. 

It sounds like you didn't spend the time and effort to hear her concerns further than this. 

 I find social commentary interesting. What do you mean?

The woman in his story. 

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Cuckoo said: 

Seems like Noah feels the need to troll his wife. Might that be some type of resilience training or some type of way to keep her calm ?

 She has refused to have sex with me and threatened to ruin my life for trying to spice things up while she was asleep. She keeps using 'PTSD' as an excuse to avoid sex and turns to porn instead. When I tried to have sex with her when she wasn't in the mood, she would start hitting or assaulting me while I was only trying to show her physical affection. She even went as far as stabbing me in the leg while I was attempting to be intimate. She owes me sex, but she refuses to understand that I'm only taking what's mine. On top of that, she wants to be an 'egg donor' at a clinic and use the money on her retarded brother, who can't even talk despite being 24. She also recently told me to get a job and denies me any money from her SSI. We are married and everything she has is mine. 

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Cuckoo said: 

Seems like Noah feels the need to troll his wife. Might that be some type of resilience training or some type of way to keep her calm ?

 She has refused to have sex with me and threatened to ruin my life for trying to spice things up while she was asleep. She keeps using 'PTSD' as an excuse to avoid sex and turns to porn instead. When I tried to have sex with her when she wasn't in the mood, she would start hitting or assaulting me while I was only trying to show her physical affection. She even went as far as stabbing me in the leg while I was attempting to be intimate. She owes me sex, but she refuses to understand that I'm only taking what's mine. On top of that, she wants to be an 'egg donor' at a clinic and use the money on her retarded brother, who can't even talk despite being 24. She also recently told me to get a job and denies me any money from her SSI. We are married and everything she has is mine. 

 Aw gosh. 

You married young Noah. Went into marriage as a virgin which is in all actuality a rare and beautiful thing almost no one ever experiences today. However. At the same time you never endured the hardships that can come of a relationship, hence how people have multiple partners before settling down. 

Normally what happens is guys will make mistakes with women and in the process learn a brutal reality of how women actually are. ( It kinda sounds bad, but if it's actually so, that would be up to your own judgement. )

First thing to understand, opposite of women, as a men our inherent value is 0. Nothing. Zilch. A woman might find us cute but that isn't what attracts her. It's the promise of a bright future, that being our ability to secure a nest and provide. That is tied to our appearance. 

From our oldest ancestors till now, women are and have always been hypergamous. It's hard coded in them. 

Women on the other hand are born with inherent value, which of course spikes up, then starts to wither away when she reaches a certain age. This is one reason why during adolescence the guy will stop at nothing to score some tang while the girls are more laid back and reserved about it. In short even back then women were more picky.

Back then you were looking promising Noah. Going to school. Going to be an engineer. Looking good to us all. But you stopped trying it seems. It's very likely that who you are now is not the same person she was expecting you to become, so your wife's vagina dries up whenever you're trying to hit it, because of female nature. 

Watch this now...

Men get value from working our asses off and making something of ourselves. It doesn't have to be big, but the bigger the better. If you pulled a solid grand out of your ass and took her out to have some fun and stay in a fancy hotel, she wouldn't put up as much as a fuss and you'd have more frequent sex. From what I understand you and her don't have much privacy. There are other practices men can do to keep her from going dry. In her presence you must appear busy. Simple habits like dusting off a chair before you sit on it, or if you go camping building the tent chopping wood and building a fire scores you some points on a subconscious level. Bring back many or a a single large fish from the lake and you're getting easy access to the tang very soon. It makes you out to be a doer. A doer, that's what women find sexy. Don't have to be super rich, but if you happen to get rich keep it up. No denying when a man gets jacked up with a 6 pack, he becomes real handsome and women will then try to pick him up. It's in our very being, being jacked up signals to women you can hunt and gather. It triggers the hypergamous instinct and makes them wet. 

Of course even when you're on top of your game, you can still lose her. Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos, Elon Musk are all divorced just to name a few. Usually it was over something they did. Elon's last wife left him because he chooses to live below the poverty line, he stays in a tiny house sometimes camping out somewhere close to SpaceX. But then again she's some celebrity so she'd want more despite being able to have anything.  

If you're the one always initiating sex and she's almost never coming to you, there is a problem. 

Learn from the mistakes from the brotherhood and fight for your love. Transform, and even though you're entitled to it, you have to keep earning that poon, or else she'll have those episodes and leave you out in the cold. She's not exactly normal so she'll stab your ass and put up a fuss that will probably leave scars. If she's collecting SSI and you want to dip into that and not making any money.... Understand the reality you could lose her. She wants to be some figure that will look after her retarded sibling, and you must find a way to further enable that, she'll repay you with consensual sex all the time. Also, don't spend more than you make, let your account grow, or else you'll be fucked.

Don't waste money on drugs and other meaningless consumables. Don't show up to a job interview looking like a hippie and never stop applying for that engineering job. Pirate your main software if you must and keep using it and make shit, and submit demo reels to your potential employers. Succeed Noah or at least die trying. When you build your shed and pack it, she will comply, she will happily follow your order, but as it stands, if she's not submissive she isn't happy.   

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Delora said: 
Cuckoo said: 

Some people miss their friend Tony. Yes it's me. 

The other day my BPD lady friend said something similar to me via text. Out of the blue she was like, "I thought we were friends". And went on about how she never meant to mislead me and we're nothing more. Something of that nature. I had to remind her that according to my devices going back 10 years I haven't called her a single time. Of course I did tell her I'm in a relationship and last time we spoke verbally a week ago she hung up on me.

Not saying you and her are the same. But why ask "I thought we were friends" ? I think I've been decent since I started visiting again. 

  did i make you mad? did i do something? i did not even realize it was you until now. i thought you were done with sc forever. i kept asking various accounts if they were you but none of em were. you may be old but you were always a gentle friend with me and i started thinking of you as a sort of weird online wise uncle and i wanted to be like you and i got attached. 

 Why would I be mad ? No.

You know what's funny. When I came to SC (Socioworld forum at the time) I was 33 I think. It was around my early 30's, and they used to poke fun at me back then for being old. Fast forward to today and they are as old as I was, while I'm actually old now. In 2028 I'll be turning 50. 

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Cuckoo said: 

Seems like Noah feels the need to troll his wife. Might that be some type of resilience training or some type of way to keep her calm ?

 She has refused to have sex with me and threatened to ruin my life for trying to spice things up while she was asleep. She keeps using 'PTSD' as an excuse to avoid sex and turns to porn instead. When I tried to have sex with her when she wasn't in the mood, she would start hitting or assaulting me while I was only trying to show her physical affection. She even went as far as stabbing me in the leg while I was attempting to be intimate. She owes me sex, but she refuses to understand that I'm only taking what's mine. On top of that, she wants to be an 'egg donor' at a clinic and use the money on her retarded brother, who can't even talk despite being 24. She also recently told me to get a job and denies me any money from her SSI. We are married and everything she has is mine. 

 Aw gosh. 

You married young Noah. Went into marriage as a virgin which is in all actuality a rare and beautiful thing almost no one ever experiences today. However. At the same time you never endured the hardships that can come of a relationship, hence how people have multiple partners before settling down. 

Normally what happens is guys will make mistakes with women and in the process learn a brutal reality of how women actually are. ( It kinda sounds bad, but if it's actually so, that would be up to your own judgement. )

First thing to understand, opposite of women, as a men our inherent value is 0. Nothing. Zilch. A woman might find us cute but that isn't what attracts her. It's the promise of a bright future, that being our ability to secure a nest and provide. That is tied to our appearance. 

From our oldest ancestors till now, women are and have always been hypergamous. It's hard coded in them. 

Women on the other hand are born with inherent value, which of course spikes up, then starts to wither away when she reaches a certain age. This is one reason why during adolescence the guy will stop at nothing to score some tang while the girls are more laid back and reserved about it. In short even back then women were more picky.

Back then you were looking promising Noah. Going to school. Going to be an engineer. Looking good to us all. But you stopped trying it seems. It's very likely that who you are now is not the same person she was expecting you to become, so your wife's vagina dries up whenever you're trying to hit it, because of female nature. 

Watch this now...

Men get value from working our asses off and making something of ourselves. It doesn't have to be big, but the bigger the better. If you pulled a solid grand out of your ass and took her out to have some fun and stay in a fancy hotel, she wouldn't put up as much as a fuss and you'd have more frequent sex. From what I understand you and her don't have much privacy. There are other practices men can do to keep her from going dry. In her presence you must appear busy. Simple habits like dusting off a chair before you sit on it, or if you go camping building the tent chopping wood and building a fire scores you some points on a subconscious level. Bring back many or a a single large fish from the lake and you're getting easy access to the tang very soon. It makes you out to be a doer. A doer, that's what women find sexy. Don't have to be super rich, but if you happen to get rich keep it up. No denying when a man gets jacked up with a 6 pack, he becomes real handsome and women will then try to pick him up. It's in our very being, being jacked up signals to women you can hunt and gather. It triggers the hypergamous instinct and makes them wet. 

Of course even when you're on top of your game, you can still lose her. Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos, Elon Musk are all divorced just to name a few. Usually it was over something they did. Elon's last wife left him because he chooses to live below the poverty line, he stays in a tiny house sometimes camping out somewhere close to SpaceX. But then again she's some celebrity so she'd want more despite being able to have anything.  

If you're the one always initiating sex and she's almost never coming to you, there is a problem. 

Learn from the mistakes from the brotherhood and fight for your love. Transform, and even though you're entitled to it, you have to keep earning that poon, or else she'll have those episodes and leave you out in the cold. She's not exactly normal so she'll stab your ass and put up a fuss that will probably leave scars. If she's collecting SSI and you want to dip into that and not making any money.... Understand the reality you could lose her. She wants to be some figure that will look after her retarded sibling, and you must find a way to further enable that, she'll repay you with consensual sex all the time. Also, don't spend more than you make, let your account grow, or else you'll be fucked.

Don't waste money on drugs and other meaningless consumables. Don't show up to a job interview looking like a hippie and never stop applying for that engineering job. Pirate your main software if you must and keep using it and make shit, and submit demo reels to your potential employers. Succeed Noah or at least die trying. When you build your shed and pack it, she will comply, she will happily follow your order, but as it stands, if she's not submissive she isn't happy.   

 Why should I put in all that effort when I can simply use physical force to make her comply with what I'm owed? At the end of the day, she is disabled, and her parents don't care about her, nor will they ever do anything to help her. She needs me because she has memory problems and gets lost, so no matter what I do, she will never leave me, even if I push for intercourse or play harmless pranks. I can do whatever I want with her, and she can't do anything about it because she has no support system from any parent or guardian to protect her. Lately, she's been trying to improve herself and become a better, more capable person, and this frustrates me because it seems like she's trying to put herself in a position where she can get away from me, whether she realizes it or not.

My grandiose delusions are better than yours.
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