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Trends I'm Glad I Didn't Buy


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Disclaimer: This is just based on personal preferences, so if you love some of these trends, it's understandable. I love them too. 

 

However, there were certain things that weren't so practical or long-lasting about the trends, basically they weren't created with longevity in mind, and that's why it ended up being more of a temporary hot style trend than staple that stood the test of time. 

 

The Cloud Couch 

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(photo source: https://www.aptdeco.com/product/restoration-hardware-cloud-sofa-in-white

 

When it comes to big ticket items, some may not mind it only lasting a year or two. Realistically, unless they have a very low-traffic mess-free life style at home, and can afford the time or money it takes to have maintenance to the piece like cleaning etc, it will only last you a year or two tops before it gets a little worn looking. If you have any pets or children, even worse. 

 

I tried to find an image of what it realistically looks like in reality, as oppose to the beautiful store front images found on Restoration Hardware website. 

 

While this piece was dreamy and was a 'right time right place' match made in heaven- where everyone was at home due to Covid, and was easing into lounge wear, and the extra marshmallowy pillowy comfort of a sofa that's basically designed to be as comfortable as a bed. 

 

It hit style trends and the ticket was very high for this wildly popular, crazy couch. The cozy vibes were very appealing, and as someone who loves a white-neutral style color palette with a bit of a modern and clean feel, it was a perfect fit for my style too. 

 

However, if you look on Facebook marketplace for example, you may find a lot of people are getting rid of theirs now, second hand. This is because the couches have reached their untimely expiration date. The realistic hold of these couches is like I said, one to two years in a normal to high traffic home, humans are messy, people are imperfect and make mistakes. Children's, pets, parties, life happens. And these couches are very, very fragile. Prone to staining, etc. 

 

There is an option if you really just must have this look, to buy a water-wicking designed fabric covers that are white, giving the look and feel you want, but protecting your couch from even the toughest stains and the worst spills. The fabric is extremely high quality thick and durable, so that being said, the covers are more costly than your average sofa cover because of their sophisticated design technology behind them. They work extremely well to protect your sofa, and if you'd rather replace covers every 1-2 years than an entire $10,000+ couch, if you can ballpark that realistically, and you really want it that bad- I highly recommend going for the covers to save you several grand in the long run. 

 

The other issue with the couches is their 'hold.' They just don't seem like they were designed with longevity in mind when it comes to the cushions, so over time, they become more and more frumpy, with dents and dives all over, the appearance of wear is apparent. So it won't be looking 'brand new' forever. Seats sink in, dips everywhere. The shape begins to look less dreamy, and more frumpy and old. In the photo above you can start to see where the dents are taking shape, and over time those dents only get worse and deeper.

 

It's not so crisp and clean looking as the beautiful photos on the RH website... you could perhaps get it looking that way with a lot of concerted effort, but then, you'd never be able to sit on it or use it. Like a show piece. 

 

The average expiration of a couch is said to be 7 years. So keep that in mind when buying a sofa that is $10,000. There is no furniture that was built to last forever, especially in today's mass producing era, of low cost, fast, builds. The quality of materials goes down, the make, the fabric, even the sourcing for the cushions. It is all an expense that the manufacturer has to take into account, and they find ways to cut corners. Causing the pieces to wear more easily, and to essentially come with a guaranteed expiration date. Factoring in the fact that it's entirely white... you have to really think about, how dirty is this going to get. How often do I realistically want to clean it and take care of it, how much time do I want to care for it. Do I love it that much? 

 

Here's some dupes? You won't have a hard time finding, as everyone in their mother has made a dupe by now- even big name brands like Ashley furniture. 

https://www.hgtv.com/shopping/news-and-trends/cloud-sofa-sectional-dupes 

https://www.insider.com/guides/home/rh-cloud-couch-dupes 

 

The other issue is that this couch looks very high end in certain spaces, but it's actually quite large, even it's smallest versions, and doesn't quite fit the look and feel of most common homes or apartments, condos, etc. It looks beautiful in a wide open room with high ceilings, floor to ceiling windows, and gorgeous wide plank blonde oak floors. But your living room may not be the right setting stylistically for it, not it's sizing. In my opinion this sofa looks great in large lofty spaces, that have too much room, essentially. Anything narrow or boxed in, this sofas largeness and squareness will only emphasize the squareness and smallness of your space, or narrowness, shrinking the room down, and giving it a heavy and 'over full' appearance, sometimes with little walking room. Which takes away from the luxury feel this couch should come with, considering its high ticket price. 

 

Lastly, just like a lot people outgrew lounge wear and sweatpants by 2023, you have to think about realistically what makes you feel and look your best... the same goes for your couch, it's a bit about presentation, and fit/style, as much as it is about quality, what realistically is going to function in that space, and lastly about comfort. With the cloud couch, I feel like it's all comfort, and not much else- like lounge wear can be. With the territory can come frumpiness if you're not really careful, and it almost takes more work to make it look not frumpy. Lol 

 

Something structured is more comfortable to me specifically, because I prefer to sit up straight like do you in a car. I like a lot of structured high back support, seats that don't go too deep or are too low to the floor. I'm also a kind of petite person so, deep seats really don't work for me. That's just how I prefer to sit. 

 

Some people really might want something for the sole purpose of being able to lay down in it and watch movies, but I actually don't like to do that too often, really if ever. We've all got different temperaments and personalities. 

 

I like something a little more hard and puffed up so that is will stand up to time better, remaining looking like new, and will continue to dazzle and brighten a space giving it that clean fresh look every day. Something you can quickly swipe over with a vacuum designed for cleaning couches and then it's painless and over- rather than having tons of crevices and wrinkles to fiddle with, as I'm just personally detail oriented, and actually do care about not having stains or marks or too much wear on the fabric. I'd pick a very fairly durable fabric too.

 

All in all, I was almost enamored with the cloud couch for a while, but after seeing so many get rid of theirs in poor condition, I realize the reality of the cloud, coming with that high of a ticket, just might not be worth it. It's pretty and dreamy to look at, but that and the fact it feels like comfy are it's only perks, which in my opinion is cancelled out by the maintenance, high price tag, and quick wear/expiration, likelihood of looking frumpy or dirty, and a personal preference issue of lacking functionality (noback support, very deep seats) and difficulty fitting into a smaller space nicely without making the space overly full, and smaller. The scale of room this couch needs to suit its grandiose luxury is quite large, otherwise it just looks a bit out of place. 

 

TLDR: it's overpriced, too big and frumpy, something structured will last longer and look new longer. it's also a matter of personal preference and personality, based on how I like to sit (upright)- and my size (petite). Back support is crucial. 

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Above Surface Sinks 

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Annoying to clean, water and such big mess everywhere. Have to clean outside and inside every time you use it or at least 1x a day. As someone who has lived with one for a year, I was over it after 1 year. For sure. As someone who always wanted one. I hated it by the end lol

last edit on 4/25/2023 9:21:08 PM
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The Cloud Couch (cont.)

 

More cloud dupes 

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/lifestyle/g39775586/cloud-sofa-sectional-dupes/ 

https://stayhomebody.com/products/the-couch?utm_source=googledisplayad&utm_medium=display&utm_campaign=Sales-Display-1&utm_id=Sales-Display-1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIvf2szJnG_gIVnhWKAx3oYwpmEAEYASAAEgKw9_D_BwE 

^I like this one because it is reclinable, I'm just not sure if the length of the foot rest is right or not, and if the head rest automatically goes back every time you raise the foot rest I don't like that. But the concept is almost there, and it's a bit smaller so it'll fit better in a normal sized home. If you just must absolutely have the cloud look. Plus it has arms and higher back support. 

last edit on 4/25/2023 11:46:04 PM
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Crossbody Bags

LV Pochette / Prada Crossbody 

 

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These bags are gorgeous, and when they hit the market, it was a huge trend. They seemed like the perfect everyday wear bag, and were hitting all the right trends at the right time. People were taking lots of walks due to being covid-stir crazy, and the crossbody look was still kind of hot from 2018-2019 (the one where people wore fanny packs but across their chest and over one shoulder) but... taking on a slightly new shape. Much prettier than before, less masculine. The mini-pockets and mini-bags were taking the world by storm at the time too, with luxury brands going overkill on the micro and mini bag, people were obsessed. Why? I really don't know. Me personally, I thought, this will be a great place to put my airpods when I want to access them easily, while going on all my walks! Lol!

 

But it was truly just an "it-bag" moment for a while, and it seemed like an easy to use, no brainer. However, I have been using a crossbody now for a few months, after having bought one a long time ago and realizing I forgot to use it. I was like oh this is pretty and pink, I should use it. This will work for everyday, surely, it's big enough to store all my stuff and take around. The strap sort of lends itself to that everyday feeling, instead of having a biting chain hurting your shoulder. It seemed practical. 

 

However, I really find that the crossbody's just aren't my personal taste for an everyday use. Because I am a bit small it doesn't help my case, I just feel like the bag is too far away to reach, it's always just out of reach. The strap is always just a bit too long to be inconvenient. You want to grab it by the strap getting out of the car, and you sling it around everywhere, tarnishing the bag as you bang it around one verything getting out- its just in the way with this obscenely long strap. You reach to get your card out of the bag, and you have to hold the entire bag awkwardly closer so you can rifle through and find it. My wallet does not fit. My phone, barely fits, as I have the xtra large version. 

 

Having a seperate zipper storage to fiddle with is not really convenient and the thing just slaps around everywhere... clunky when its full with your head phones or whatever. 

 

Needless to say, it's not as practical and everyday as it seems, and it was more of a pretty trend for show. But I'm honestly annoyed with the crossbody, because of its length, not enough room in the bag, its over all quite impractical to fiddle with on a daily basis and makes no logical sense. 

 

But I will say they are pretty and aesthetic approach to the popular utilitarian trend. It was almost my favorite, until it wasn't. 

 

I also found that bags that lack structure are really not my thing. While they can look beautiful etc, and some people really prefer the slouchy look stylistically. It doesn't work for practical reasons for me, and just drives me insane as I'm trying to find things in the dark wrinkled abyss. 

 

I still love my crossbody because it's so beautiful, but I will be honest, it's not the perfect everyday bag I was thinking it would be. It is more for style than it is practicality, don't be fooled by its utilitarian presence. Lol! 

 

Looking into something like this instead, as a potential 'everyday' bag: 

I really think something with a top handle that is very open and easy access, and something I can organize structured inside with a bag organizer will look and feel very nice and make life much easier... we shall see. I like how the top handles stay up all the time, that's important. 

 

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last edit on 4/27/2023 3:42:50 PM
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The Cloud Couch (cont.) 

 

Forgot to post the couch I've been eyeing, keeping an eye out for something along similar lines. This is something I think would be along whats more preferable to the cloud for me personally. 

 

Spotted this in Laili Mirza's channel and kind of fell in love with something about it

Laili's Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@LailliMirza/videos 

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I want these two couches to have a baby essentially. I really like the structure of the last one, you can tell it's a very good puffiness and stiffness to it that keeps it looking almost magazine-like all the time. It's got the tiny leg which I think gives it a french feminine appeal, the piping etc. But there is something about the first one thats interesting to me about its dimensions. I want the quality and structure quality of material of the second couch, in the shape and color of the first couch. That would be a nice pairing of design. I like the side pillow that comes with the second couch as well, its a subtle accessory that actually adds a lot of flair and interest to the piece. I think it's weirdly important. I'll find my dream couch eventually and when I do I'll post it here, but for now this is along what I was envisioning so you have an understanding of what I was picturing. The first couch is more fluffy and poofy in a fun and elegant feminine way, the second couch I like the structure but the material and color is obviously... it just all makes it look a bit 'commercial.' so a nice merging of the two would be great for something that feels more at home. Like the black bar that goes across the bottom, makes it look really commercial. I don't mind it, but it just makes me feel like I'm in a hotel or office. It just doesn't feel quite at home to me. 

Commercial materials and couches designed for commercial use have a lot more longevity to their wear, and take a beating very well. So it's like, I want something commercial- but then I don't want it to look commercial. It's very complicated, but really it's not. 

It's just about good quality and design you know. I like it very tailored and fitted, no slumpiness to it. 

last edit on 4/27/2023 3:31:54 PM
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The Perfect Couch 

(a continuation off of my posts about The Cloud Couch) 

 

Well, it looks like I found something quite similar to the 'dream couch' I was imagining in my head. It's very good design, so good that it's made by an extremely high end luxury brand. I'm flattered a design I was making in my mind was manufactured by a company notorious for high quality beautiful design. It shows I'm really onto something in terms of my ideas about product design. 

 

Now we just have to find it at a cost that is manageable. 

 

This couch I found in Domino's website, and it's by Hermes 

 

It is perfect :D

 

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Quote from Domino: "The least surprising thing that happened last week was being blown away by Hermès’s show. The luxury brand’s activations have never been anything short of exquisiteand this year, it included items like hand-embroidered rugs, a perfectly tailored sofa, and printed porcelain tableware, all showcased on a stage partitioned by weathered rebar."



Source: https://www.domino.com/style-shopping/salone-del-mobile-2023/ 

There Are Thousands of Products to See at Milan’s Design Week—These Were My 8 Standouts by BY JULIA STEVENS 

Rugs, Seating, and Dinnerware at Hermès 

last edit on 4/29/2023 3:20:28 PM
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fuck yo couch. stomps my muddy boots all over your couch

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I love this thread. Please go on queen ♡

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I really have never liked wicker, and have yet to see an application of it where I'm like "yeah I'd buy that" 

 

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