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Just like rats in a maze, we all have different paths to reach our destinations, and some may require more guidance than others. While it can be tempting to give up on those who seem lost or uninterested in the truth, it is our responsibility as fellow rats to guide them towards the light.

Refusing to correct those who spread falsehoods or cling to ignorance is like leaving a rat to wander aimlessly in the dark, never finding the way out. By taking the time to show them the correct path and providing evidence to support our claims, we are shining a light in the darkness and guiding them towards a more informed and educated understanding.

As rats, we all have a role to play in shaping the maze we inhabit, and it is only through our collective efforts that we can navigate the twists and turns and reach our shared goal of a better, more enlightened society. So let us not give up on our fellow rats, but instead work to guide them towards the truth, even if it takes more effort and patience than we would like. For in doing so, we are building a stronger, more resilient community for all.

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As for you "fuck turncoat"

Just as the alignment of the stars and planets can influence our lives and futures, so too can the words and assumptions of others impact how we are perceived and understood.

 

When someone makes a claim or assumption that is untrue or unfair, it is like a misaligned planet casting a shadow on our destiny. We must take the time and effort to dispel these falsehoods and realign ourselves with our true path.

 

Dismissing someone's concerns with derogatory language is like a dark cloud blocking out the light of the sun. We must show compassion and respect for one another, even in the face of misunderstandings or disagreements.

 

In any situation where there is confusion or conflict, we must work together to seek clarity and understanding. It is not fair to expect the burden of proof to fall solely on the individual being misrepresented or misunderstood. It is the responsibility of all parties involved to seek out the truth and ensure that they are accurately representing others.

 

In order to dispel misconceptions and promote a deeper understanding of ourselves and one another, we must be willing to listen, to learn, and to communicate effectively. Just as we seek to understand the mysteries of the universe, we must also seek to understand the complexities of human experience.

 

The alignment of the stars and planets may be beyond our control, but we have the power to shape our own destiny through the words we choose to use and the way we choose to treat others. Let us use that power wisely and with kindness.

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last edit on 4/18/2023 6:23:48 PM
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lol mansplains ‘mansplaining’

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Firstly, I'd feel the way the people you criticize on a daily basis here feel. 'Mansplaining' your hot take on an unwilling person you think could do better in some way is literally your modus operandi.

Asking questions, offering advice, and giving people biting critiques is not the same thing as Mansplaining. 

Mansplaining is more like seeing someone who clearly has a driver's license trying to park their car being met with people ignoring that and insisting on parking it themselves while going on about how great they are at driving. It's the difference between airing out what's on one's mind and promoting themselves with a soap box by association. 

When I see something wrong with someone, I am not typically promoting myself by proxy or cutting them down for some sort of pecking order logic, I am seeing a flaw in the artwork and critiquing it. My metaphors are closer to them seeming "unclean", rather than it being a chance to advertise and promote myself. 

Secondly, not everybody has necessarily seen you mention you have college plans. You haven't made your own thread about it and not everybody has the time on their hands like you do to read everything you say so quit whining like a bitch.

Thirdly, I doubt people have an illusion about your level of mental handicap, as your takes are utterly abysmal and lack basic self awareness.

For all of these things you are saying people should look up, the burden of proof lies on you. Make a thread dispelling the preconceptions and link to it when you see it repeated, link it right here instead of crying that 'nObOdY wiLL cAre aNywAy'.

Every time I do people act like it wasn't typed out, then they go on about their own idea of what happened. When linked with resources, they will not look any further into it unless a stink is made about it at their expense. 

There are people who do read, or at the very least ask in a way that isn't self aggrandizing. It's about intent, and people like Delora, Spatial, and Luna make that intent pretty clear. 

The burden of proof is not on me when other people make claims, especially after it's already been explained and especially when they begin the narrative with something incorrect. It is not my responsibility to correct people, nor is it my responsibility to do it more than once, it is a choice, and it's stupid to explain things to the wrong people after it's been stated in general, especially if it's happened more than once. 

People who are worth it can get explanations, while others who aren't aren't really looking to be corrected, they're looking to air out their shit or use it as some sort of relative plot device. Spatial and Luna I don't really have to explain, and even Delora in this case only cares for one reason: To excuse her mistakes she made elsewhere with BR or Inner Dialogue. She only cares in this case because she knows I openly do not like her, which has her feel like something in her life is not within her control. 

 Well mansplaining is a bad term for what you're describing. It's more like trying to 'show someone' that you know best and how to do it right for an ego boost and it isn't exclusive to men.

But you're debating semantics. The real point is that you are unnecessarily fixated on criticism and finding weaknesses and wrong in people. This is alright to employ when somebody is frequently giving you problems and perhaps as the longtime moderator of a chaotic dysfunctional community you have began to see social interaction through the lense of criticism and conflict. I too have fallen into this, as it can be hard to embody any true spirit of collaboration and pro social constructive interaction on a forum where negativity takes precedent over any kind of meaningful discussion.

 Of course people aren't taking the time to consider you on a forum like this. If you wanted that you could have became a major member of something a bit more pro-social. But as somebody who tried to be a therapist it seems your fascination with the workings of the human mind may have drew you in... But have you questioned this website's impact on your own mental health and humanity?

last edit on 4/18/2023 10:56:54 PM
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I consider mansplaining a sexist terminology against men.

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You are the only member who dislikes me that I'm not giving up on, "turncoat". If it were only control I would be the same with every member who dislikes me.

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