Firstly, I'd feel the way the people you criticize on a daily basis here feel. 'Mansplaining' your hot take on an unwilling person you think could do better in some way is literally your modus operandi.
Asking questions, offering advice, and giving people biting critiques is not the same thing as Mansplaining.
Mansplaining is more like seeing someone who clearly has a driver's license trying to park their car being met with people ignoring that and insisting on parking it themselves while going on about how great they are at driving. It's the difference between airing out what's on one's mind and promoting themselves with a soap box by association.
When I see something wrong with someone, I am not typically promoting myself by proxy or cutting them down for some sort of pecking order logic, I am seeing a flaw in the artwork and critiquing it. My metaphors are closer to them seeming "unclean", rather than it being a chance to advertise and promote myself.
Secondly, not everybody has necessarily seen you mention you have college plans. You haven't made your own thread about it and not everybody has the time on their hands like you do to read everything you say so quit whining like a bitch.
Thirdly, I doubt people have an illusion about your level of mental handicap, as your takes are utterly abysmal and lack basic self awareness.
For all of these things you are saying people should look up, the burden of proof lies on you. Make a thread dispelling the preconceptions and link to it when you see it repeated, link it right here instead of crying that 'nObOdY wiLL cAre aNywAy'.
Every time I do people act like it wasn't typed out, then they go on about their own idea of what happened. When linked with resources, they will not look any further into it unless a stink is made about it at their expense.
There are people who do read, or at the very least ask in a way that isn't self aggrandizing. It's about intent, and people like Delora, Spatial, and Luna make that intent pretty clear.
The burden of proof is not on me when other people make claims, especially after it's already been explained and especially when they begin the narrative with something incorrect. It is not my responsibility to correct people, nor is it my responsibility to do it more than once, it is a choice, and it's stupid to explain things to the wrong people after it's been stated in general, especially if it's happened more than once.
People who are worth it can get explanations, while others who aren't aren't really looking to be corrected, they're looking to air out their shit or use it as some sort of relative plot device. Spatial and Luna I don't really have to explain, and even Delora in this case only cares for one reason: To excuse her mistakes she made elsewhere with BR or Inner Dialogue. She only cares in this case because she knows I openly do not like her, which has her feel like something in her life is not within her control.
Effective communication is a symphony, a beautiful orchestration of words and ideas that can inspire, motivate, and uplift. Criticism can be one of the most powerful instruments in this symphony, a catalyst for personal and professional growth. However, just like any great performance, it requires a holistic approach, one that considers the individual's unique perspective and approach to communication.
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In conclusion, effective communication is a symphony, a beautiful and powerful expression of our shared humanity. Criticism can be a powerful instrument in this symphony, but it requires a gentle touch, an open mind, and a kind heart. By cultivating a culture of mutual respect and understanding, we can create a harmonious and collaborative environment that enriches our lives and inspires us to create beautiful music together.
