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Med said: 

Spatial Mind said: 

Med said: 

I know I'm scared. Money can evaporate quickly. Im basically an orphan.

And lawyers are slimy my dad was a lawyer and he said so. Will run their meters, allusion to cabbies.

I'm not great with money.

However my mother is just stupid with money. My dad took care of her all those years. She earned money but he took care of her. And so the house was in a transfer on death deed for me which meant in Virginia it passed outside of probate without taxes immediately was paid off but she didn't understand it and claimed I would take house from her. So she sold it. Stupid with money: a poor business decision. It's now being "invested"

I know I shouldn't tell all but I'm really stuck I have few to talk to. That's really my naievety few to talk to but other than that I'm smart.

 When a large inheritance is up for grabs, very often does it destroy families. My parents were divorced, and my Mother felt entitled to my Father's house and there was a falling out that lasted years. My older Brother stole assets that were never recovered.

You'll have to be pretty cold, but I don't know if you have the capacity to do that since you have conflicting issues.

Why do you want to do this now ?

 Because I don't know how much longer she has to live.

And it is going to suck when she dies.

I can be cold but the conflicting issue is my mom is like my stand-in friend I don't know how else to say it, I go there on weekends now but we were never really close as I was with my dad.

I found my dad's signed will, the one in which I was named Executor. The lawyer finally coughed it up in 2020 and I have it electronically. But my dad died in 2018 so it was too late. 

 How did the wrong person even gain bank access is the big question. There's some real bullshit going on here. The bank cannot go against the will, unless they used your mental condition against you and fought for access.

Women live long, and your Mother will pass away eventually. You'll need to prepare yourself to lose.

We're all going to lose, that's a promise. You must learn to lose gracefully. Perhapse Chapo's helping you with that since you want him so bad. You need something else in your life.

Spatial Mind said: 

Med said: 

Spatial Mind said: 

 When a large inheritance is up for grabs, very often does it destroy families. My parents were divorced, and my Mother felt entitled to my Father's house and there was a falling out that lasted years. My older Brother stole assets that were never recovered.

You'll have to be pretty cold, but I don't know if you have the capacity to do that since you have conflicting issues.

Why do you want to do this now ?

 Because I don't know how much longer she has to live.

And it is going to suck when she dies.

I can be cold but the conflicting issue is my mom is like my stand-in friend I don't know how else to say it, I go there on weekends now but we were never really close as I was with my dad.

I found my dad's signed will, the one in which I was named Executor. The lawyer finally coughed it up in 2020 and I have it electronically. But my dad died in 2018 so it was too late. 

 How did the wrong person even gain bank access is the big question. There's some real bullshit going on here. The bank cannot go against the will, unless they used your mental condition against you and fought for access.

Women live long, and your Mother will pass away eventually. You'll need to prepare yourself to lose.

We're all going to lose, that's a promise. You must learn to lose gracefully. Perhapse Chapo's helping you with that since you want him so bad. You need something else in your life.

 I just asked him by text to email me a copy of what he signed at the bank to gain access to her account for me to inspect. I should probably keep my mouth shut until I can get representation but it's so upsetting. Does a cross to bear expression fit here? No I guess not a cross to bear means a burdensome task one must accept

What do you mean lose gracefully? You think I'm going to lose this fight? Or what did you mean?

Med said: 

Spatial Mind said: 

Med said: 

 Because I don't know how much longer she has to live.

And it is going to suck when she dies.

I can be cold but the conflicting issue is my mom is like my stand-in friend I don't know how else to say it, I go there on weekends now but we were never really close as I was with my dad.

I found my dad's signed will, the one in which I was named Executor. The lawyer finally coughed it up in 2020 and I have it electronically. But my dad died in 2018 so it was too late. 

 How did the wrong person even gain bank access is the big question. There's some real bullshit going on here. The bank cannot go against the will, unless they used your mental condition against you and fought for access.

Women live long, and your Mother will pass away eventually. You'll need to prepare yourself to lose.

We're all going to lose, that's a promise. You must learn to lose gracefully. Perhapse Chapo's helping you with that since you want him so bad. You need something else in your life.

 I just asked him by text to email me a copy of what he signed at the bank to gain access to her account for me to inspect. I should probably keep my mouth shut until I can get representation but it's so upsetting. Does a cross to bear expression fit here? No I guess not a cross to bear means a burdensome task one must accept

 If you asked the lawyer for a copy of the will. And the will lists you as the executor, then they'll probably stay cool until you escalate it from there. They'll use your medical history against you, though you can easily argue they ommited you while grieving your Father's death. I believe that's true, and you still love the man. Daddy. The man who planted you in your Mum's womb and got you out of there, decades ago.

Anyway.

The Lawyer will tell your Aunt and whoever he serves that he had to send you the will upon your request, and might advise them not to confront you about it. So look out for any tension that might arise between you and the crooks.

Your Doctor will most likely say the same things I'm saying.

Med said: 

What do you mean lose gracefully? You think I'm going to lose this fight? Or what did you mean?

 

 You'll lose your Mother. Then in the end we'll lose this life.

You also lost Chapo. 

Understand when I say how important it is for us to accept the inevitable. 

You shouldn't have any problems surrounding yourself with people. You do cause you're too picky i think.

Spatial Mind said: 

Med said: 

Spatial Mind said: 

 How did the wrong person even gain bank access is the big question. There's some real bullshit going on here. The bank cannot go against the will, unless they used your mental condition against you and fought for access.

Women live long, and your Mother will pass away eventually. You'll need to prepare yourself to lose.

We're all going to lose, that's a promise. You must learn to lose gracefully. Perhapse Chapo's helping you with that since you want him so bad. You need something else in your life.

 I just asked him by text to email me a copy of what he signed at the bank to gain access to her account for me to inspect. I should probably keep my mouth shut until I can get representation but it's so upsetting. Does a cross to bear expression fit here? No I guess not a cross to bear means a burdensome task one must accept

 If you asked the lawyer for a copy of the will. And the will lists you as the executor, then they'll probably stay cool until you escalate it from there. They'll use your medical history against you, though you can easily argue they ommited you while grieving your Father's death. I believe that's true, and you still love the man. Daddy. The man who planted you in your Mum's womb and got you out of there, decades ago.

Anyway.

The Lawyer will tell your Aunt and whoever he serves that he had to send you the will upon your request, and might advise them not to confront you about it. So look out for any tension that might arise between you and the crooks.

Your Doctor will most likely say the same things I'm saying.

 

 No you might not understand. I was executor of my father's will. It appears my aunt is executor of my mother's will with a big convoluted knot of "other" family" I have my dad's signed, witnessed will electronically. But what does it matter now it was never probated because they put me in the hospital and all of it was transferred to my mother. She has a crooked financial advisor too and these people talk down to her. I was there when his son sat in front of my mom and yelled at her he needed 16k to stage the house for sale. 

The only thing they have on me is we don't want you to spend it down so we'll put it in trust for you. But that's not a medical condition overspending right?

Spatial Mind said: 

Med said: 

What do you mean lose gracefully? You think I'm going to lose this fight? Or what did you mean?

 

 You'll lose your Mother. Then in the end we'll lose this life.

You also lost Chapo. 

Understand when I say how important it is for us to accept the inevitable. 

You shouldn't have any problems surrounding yourself with people. You do cause you're too picky i think.

 I am very picky. 

Before this I thought about dying considering how impossible my situation is because (would you agree) they are so greedy. But my conditions are not terminal enough that I could get help in dying.

I need to stay calm I'm getting worked up.

Med said: 

Spatial Mind said: 

Med said: 

 I just asked him by text to email me a copy of what he signed at the bank to gain access to her account for me to inspect. I should probably keep my mouth shut until I can get representation but it's so upsetting. Does a cross to bear expression fit here? No I guess not a cross to bear means a burdensome task one must accept

 If you asked the lawyer for a copy of the will. And the will lists you as the executor, then they'll probably stay cool until you escalate it from there. They'll use your medical history against you, though you can easily argue they ommited you while grieving your Father's death. I believe that's true, and you still love the man. Daddy. The man who planted you in your Mum's womb and got you out of there, decades ago.

Anyway.

The Lawyer will tell your Aunt and whoever he serves that he had to send you the will upon your request, and might advise them not to confront you about it. So look out for any tension that might arise between you and the crooks.

Your Doctor will most likely say the same things I'm saying.

 

 No you might not understand. I was executor of my father's will. It appears my aunt is executor of my mother's will with a big convoluted knot of "other" family" I have my dad's signed, witnessed will electronically. But what does it matter now it was never probated because they put me in the hospital and all of it was transferred to my mother. She has a crooked financial advisor too and these people talk down to her. I was there when his son sat in front of my mom and yelled at her he needed 16k to stage the house for sale. 

 

The only thing they have on me is we don't want you to spend it down so we'll put it in trust for you. But that's not a medical condition overspending right?

 I see. 

You can still take back what's entitled to you from your Mother.

How is it that you still get along with your Mother ? I'd like to hear her side of the story. I do believe you're unfit to manage a fortune based on how much you've given to Chapo, and he doesn't even deserve your admiration, he deserves quite the opposite. So from where I stand I couldn't possibly assume they're not serving a higher purpose.

Giving you full access to your own inheritance might create a monster. 

When God or the Universe or the Force or whatever higher power there is decides Chapo is to become rich, a way will for him will then be paved. You'd give away everything for him, and he'd ditch you after.

They also know you gave away money to Chapo and they don't like him. Maybe you're being looked after, maybe not. I think your Father's will is paramount. If he wanted them to have his legacy he'd give it to them. 

You can argue your Father was a wise man, very smart. And he believed you were fit to handle it.