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So your Dad dies, and his Sister inlaw, not you, not your Mother but her sister, has the inheritance. That alone is corrupt.

I've been through a similar thing. It lasted 5 years. 

In my opinion though, you'll do dumb shit like give Chapo 10 grand for a mere moment.

Is it really possible to fight this with a lawyer. 

They dont even want me. Can I just talk about my feelings for a minute. I feel like Orphan Annie but struggling to get a hold on what's mine.

Spatial Mind said: 

So your Dad dies, and his Sister inlaw, not you, not your Mother but her sister, has the inheritance. That alone is corrupt.

I've been through a similar thing. It lasted 5 years. 

In my opinion though, you'll do dumb shit like give Chapo 10 grand for a mere moment.

 I'm not sure she has it yet but their family wants it.

I can tell you they are the ones who had a multi-million dollar beach house, while my mother was once afraid of his suicidality right before he was diagnosed with fronto-temporal demetia and wielded his hand while he signed $300K into a stupid annuity. You understand how annuities work right? There was a 30% withdrawal rider but by the time I could convince my dad to take it he had dementia. I wasn't there but she told me about it afterwards. Does that make her a sociopath? And that didn't make a dent on the finances. He could have had a second home.

Also she doesn't have long term care insurance because she couldn't pass a recent memory test and didnt buy it when she was younger. If anyone is incapicitated it's not me it's her. She sits around playing computer games all day, she's paid for.

I was trying to say my mother was already incapicitated when my dad died that's what the aunt didn't like and so she got me upset enough that she hospitalized me. But again I had a 100.3 fever.

Spatial Mind said: 

So your Dad dies, and his Sister inlaw, not you, not your Mother but her sister, has the inheritance. That alone is corrupt.

I've been through a similar thing. It lasted 5 years. 

In my opinion though, you'll do dumb shit like give Chapo 10 grand for a mere moment.

 What do you mean it lasted five years?

Med said: 

Is it really possible to fight this with a lawyer. 

 Yes of course. 

She'll get a lawyer too and you'll only speak through the lawyers. Her claim is that you're unwell and unable to manage the inheritance. It should also be evident that she ommited you into mental rehab while she was robbing you.

If you end up in court it'll be long and stupid expensive. It would be easier if there is a codicil for the will. It's a document that outlines everything about the will, including who is the executor. 

While going back and forth with the Lawyers, no one will want to go to court. Get this, the only time you'll want to go to court, is if justice fails.

Otherwise you'll never see your Aunt insist this go to court. 

Personally my late lawyer was fantastic. He left the gruntwork to me, and over 5 years he only costed 10k. If we went to court though, it would've been a significant amount of the inheritance.

With that I'll say, if your lawyer is quick to go to court, before even negotiating with the other side, that might be a bad thing.

Med said: 

Spatial Mind said: 

So your Dad dies, and his Sister inlaw, not you, not your Mother but her sister, has the inheritance. That alone is corrupt.

I've been through a similar thing. It lasted 5 years. 

In my opinion though, you'll do dumb shit like give Chapo 10 grand for a mere moment.

 What do you mean it lasted five years?

 When my Father died, I spoke to my Brother through a lawyer for 5 years. He was the self proclaimed executor.

Long story short he got destroyed, and it was optional to destroy the firm his lawyer worked at too.

My mother will be 75 I know there are life expectancy tables I don't even want to know. She is not in good health. Hell her sister is 85 and is in better health than her.  These are basically kept women.

How will I manage if I can only speak to her through the lawyers. My mother has been like my friend but she did me dirty.

Codicil? My mom doesn't even read the damn thing. I heard her talk to her lawyer. The lawyer talks down to her and she takes it! It's also my aunt's lawyer too. I have to get a hold of it and read it but I don't know how.