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Canary said: 

Here's a model.

Someone is being abused by someone they love.

The abused person loves the abuser unconditionally.

It is then better for the abused person, because they like being with the abuser.

Okay no, wrong, 1000 times wrong. 

There is so much published to explain why this happens, they do not enjoy the abuse so much as excuse it or see it as familiar. When asked scenario questions they tend to not even perspective-take properly. 

A lot of it tends to be the Hot-and-Cold treatment, where their friendly side becomes a reason to weather through the bad side to the point of excusing heinous things, even potentially self-blaming for "provoking" it. 

Canary said: 

Here's a model.

Someone is being abused by someone they love.

The abused person loves the abuser unconditionally.

It is then better for the abused person, because they like being with the abuser.

But if the abused person never loved the abuser, then the abused person is more likely to shatter sooner than later.

Therefore, the abuser can slap a bitch silly to his satisfaction, while she'll happily take it, because love prevails, so unconditional love conquered this scenario and it turned out great for all parties. 

 i'm starting to get genuinely worried for your gf. if she's not imaginary ur definitely beating her

 TC. The last thing I wrote here is bad comedy. In this same thread I already wrote....

Canary said: 

When the conditions are shitty for the one who loves, then that's called unconditional love.

Does it conquer all ? Apparently not. If anything it'll make someone feel better about a bad situation.

On the bright side life as we know it is temporary. 

 Don't let me manipulate you.