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my vibes are super high when I chill in unconditional love and I am probably self healing way faster like this than if I was still letting my ego try to figure everything out

I find unconditional love unhealthy. 

If you want me to elaborate you're free to ask. 

Turncoat said: 

I find unconditional love unhealthy. 

If you want me to elaborate you're free to ask. 

it depends on how you use it,  it can be used as medicine and it is actually the most powerful medicine in my opinion

all that I know is that when I used to let my ego do the work I would feel stuck and traumatized by the simplest of stuff  and now that I am letting unconditional love handle it the torment passes so much faster  and they say that your external is yourself reflected back to you so if I want to see more unconditional love and compassion in the world I should embody it I  think that soul retrieval session really helped a lot

I'm miraculously healing but it is not myself doing it it is spirit  or it is asking for and allowing spirit to heal me

healingqueen said: 

all that I know is that when I used to let my ego do the work I would feel stuck and traumatized by the simplest of stuff  and now that I am letting unconditional love handle it the torment passes so much faster  and they say that your external is yourself reflected back to you so if I want to see more unconditional love and compassion in the world I should embody it I  think that soul retrieval session really helped a lot

I'm miraculously healing but it is not myself doing it it is spirit  or it is asking for and allowing spirit to heal me

 

 

oh and I'll add that it is more about merging the torment with the unconditional love than dissociating from the torment completely  like the goal is not to ignore or distance yourself from the torment but it is to allow it to be there while remaining in unconditional love vibes

healingqueen said: 

Turncoat said: 

I find unconditional love unhealthy. 

If you want me to elaborate you're free to ask. 

it depends on how you use it,  it can be used as medicine and it is actually the most powerful medicine in my opinion

I tend to see too much of anything as a bad thing, and that Unconditional makes it mean less to the recipient. 

The ones who are hard to please feel like they mean more. 

healingqueen said: 

healingqueen said: 

all that I know is that when I used to let my ego do the work I would feel stuck and traumatized by the simplest of stuff  and now that I am letting unconditional love handle it the torment passes so much faster  and they say that your external is yourself reflected back to you so if I want to see more unconditional love and compassion in the world I should embody it I  think that soul retrieval session really helped a lot

I'm miraculously healing but it is not myself doing it it is spirit  or it is asking for and allowing spirit to heal me

oh and I'll add that it is more about merging the torment with the unconditional love than dissociating from the torment completely  like the goal is not to ignore or distance yourself from the torment but it is to allow it to be there while remaining in unconditional love vibes

So your goal is to forcibly combine two extremes, rather than seeking said middle ground on it's own? 

Turncoat said: 

healingqueen said: 

healingqueen said: 

all that I know is that when I used to let my ego do the work I would feel stuck and traumatized by the simplest of stuff  and now that I am letting unconditional love handle it the torment passes so much faster  and they say that your external is yourself reflected back to you so if I want to see more unconditional love and compassion in the world I should embody it I  think that soul retrieval session really helped a lot

I'm miraculously healing but it is not myself doing it it is spirit  or it is asking for and allowing spirit to heal me

oh and I'll add that it is more about merging the torment with the unconditional love than dissociating from the torment completely  like the goal is not to ignore or distance yourself from the torment but it is to allow it to be there while remaining in unconditional love vibes

So your goal is to forcibly combine two extremes, rather than seeking said middle ground on it's own? 

not forcibly,  from my understanding we are supposed to naturally be doing this  how else are you supposed to integrate your soul back together?  even all of the western therapies teach to heal disorders like multiple personality disorder with unconditional love and gentleness and compassion because otherwise those other parts are not going to agree to integrate

healingqueen said: 

Turncoat said: 

healingqueen said: 

oh and I'll add that it is more about merging the torment with the unconditional love than dissociating from the torment completely  like the goal is not to ignore or distance yourself from the torment but it is to allow it to be there while remaining in unconditional love vibes

So your goal is to forcibly combine two extremes, rather than seeking said middle ground on it's own? 

not forcibly,  from my understanding we are supposed to naturally be doing this  how else are you supposed to integrate your soul back together? 

By finding the midground through moderation? 

Taking one extreme in place of the other strikes me as Black & White or Feast/Famine thinking, and falls into the pursuit of perfection struggles a lot find themselves trapped in. 

even all of the western therapies teach to heal disorders like multiple personality disorder with unconditional love and gentleness and compassion because otherwise those other parts are not going to agree to integrate

Ideas like Radical Empathy and all that isn't so much Therapy as much as Faith. 

I personally follow practices of Harm Reduction and Self-Conditioning, both with the aim of reducing problem patterns without it having to be about faith at all.