Turncoat said:Good said:Turncoat said:Good said:I can't be a sadist sexually, I need to hate the person to be sadistic
Have you never seen them like it?
It's... different. Even non-sadistic people pick it up quickly enough when it's translating as different associations and signals.
People are inherently violent, it's more a question of why, what holds them back, as a person-to-person basis. Often enough they just need permission.I can enjoy it, when I watch it, because of empathy and putting myself in their shoes. But I cant do it to another person myself
Are you more of a cerebral masochist than a physical one, in that you like where it takes your mind rather than how it feels?
i think i am more of a physical one
Then I'm surprised that you wouldn't potentially project your room to enjoy it onto another.
I could do it to very specific people, i need the passion for that and i cant get it usually, its rare. idk why tho, its just like that
I dunno, for me I see someone else in pain and it's really easy to feel like as if it were my own, like as if I slapped myself in response to it or something. It's not even about power, it's about sharing pain the same way it'd be for sharing pleasure.
Even just watching people be in pain for martial arts fights, or even just convincing scenes of physical struggle in films or shows are weirdly effective at tickling the brain and buckling the knees. Even watching the Slap Fight circuits on Youtube is weirdly engaging. Whether it's from me or not doesn't really change the ability to relate to how much it hurt, and somehow in that that's translated to me as wanting to share it.