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compassionatequeen said: 

Turncoat said: 

compassionatequeen said: 

Turncoat said: 

When we talk, you will usually judge the merits of what's said over how much it does or doesn't conform to your understanding, rather than looking at what those thoughts are doing for them. 

People who question what they need to be happy begin to look at how certain mistakes in thinking may still lend to them being happier, while a factually based person would see accepting inaccuracy like that as too painful to compromise over. 

but I accept inaccuracy and my beliefs and self-concept have changed over time ?  soo how am I more concerned with being right ?

Based on your history, rather than the self-concept you just began to cobble together, you have shown your concerns over feeling right to be a big enough deal to shut others down. 

By comparison, happiness seekers tend to look at another's mistakes, rather than just their own, and question what merits those mistakes otherwise have in making them happier or otherwise more content. 

 

you cannot generalize what "happiness seekers" do lmao,  that's stupid  I am a happiness seeker and I do exactly what a happiness seeker would do because I am one

 

 

everyone is different and unique, and what makes me happy is not necessarily going to be the same as what makes someone else happy

I went with 'tend to' to open the room to generalize, I never said all do one thing. 

The point is moreover how those less concerned with being correct tend to try to instead observe what makes others happy. 

compassionatequeen said: 

Turncoat said: 

compassionatequeen said: 

Turncoat said: 

When we talk, you will usually judge the merits of what's said over how much it does or doesn't conform to your understanding, rather than looking at what those thoughts are doing for them. 

People who question what they need to be happy begin to look at how certain mistakes in thinking may still lend to them being happier, while a factually based person would see accepting inaccuracy like that as too painful to compromise over. 

but I accept inaccuracy and my beliefs and self-concept have changed over time ?  soo how am I more concerned with being right ?

Based on your history, rather than the self-concept you just began to cobble together, you have shown your concerns over feeling right to be a big enough deal to shut others down. 

By comparison, happiness seekers tend to look at another's mistakes, rather than just their own, and question what merits those mistakes otherwise have in making them happier or otherwise more content. 

 

you cannot generalize what "happiness seekers" do lmao,  that's stupid  I am a happiness seeker and I do exactly what a happiness seeker would do because I am one

 

 

I apologize for calling you stupid but like who the fuck are you to go around invalidating other people on their unique desires and goals and aspirations ?  you are not god to know what will or will not lead to someone else fulfilling their dreams and goals  do you know how many inventors and great thinkers out there were told that they were insane or doing things incorrectly or that their ideas would never work before they amazed the world with their new invention or scientific discovery and soo on ?

I didn't aim to invalidate you so much as categorize you as one who feels a need to feel right. 

Like right now for example. 

You do notice how right now you are aiming to prove that you are correct, right? 

Do you see how this would give me the impression that you aim to be right to feel happy, rather than finding happiness to feel right? 

Turncoat said: 

I didn't aim to invalidate you so much as categorize you as one who feels a need to feel right. 

Like right now for example. 

k and everyone can try to be right but that does not mean that anyone actually is,  especially if this life is all an illusion as one theory out there claims lol  :p

and even a person seeking happiness over caring about being right still cares about being right about what is going to bring more happiness into their lives  :p

compassionatequeen said: 

Turncoat said: 

I didn't aim to invalidate you so much as categorize you as one who feels a need to feel right. 

Like right now for example. 

k and everyone can try to be right but that does not mean that anyone actually is,  especially if this life is all an illusion as one theory out there claims lol  :p 

The effort still denotes the difference, your aim to be factually correct is what has you not observe other people's incorrect answers that otherwise lend to their own forms of happiness. 

Turncoat said: 

compassionatequeen said: 

Turncoat said: 

I didn't aim to invalidate you so much as categorize you as one who feels a need to feel right. 

Like right now for example. 

k and everyone can try to be right but that does not mean that anyone actually is,  especially if this life is all an illusion as one theory out there claims lol  :p 

The effort still denotes the difference, your aim to be factually correct is what has you not observe other people's incorrect answers that otherwise lend to their own forms of happiness. 

umm who are you to say what I do and do not observe ?  I read a lot of the forum but do not respond to everything

and I read other information online on various websites about what people have done to increase their happiness-  in the new age spiritual community we call this  "raising our vibrations"

compassionatequeen said: 

I am not suffering from wanting it,  without working towards anything life is boring in my opinion

Really? That's fascinating. And unbelieveable.

If you didn't want anything from life, would you be bored? If you were bored, wouldn't you want your life not to be boring?

The paradoxical duality of your existence confuses me.

From others I've seen with that kind of problem, it tends to come over how they feel more of a sense of security over feeling right rather than feeling happy.

I don't care at all about being right. I don't have "wants." And you don't believe me. But it's true.

compassionatequeen said: 

Turncoat said: 

compassionatequeen said: 

Turncoat said: 

I didn't aim to invalidate you so much as categorize you as one who feels a need to feel right. 

Like right now for example. 

k and everyone can try to be right but that does not mean that anyone actually is,  especially if this life is all an illusion as one theory out there claims lol  :p 

The effort still denotes the difference, your aim to be factually correct is what has you not observe other people's incorrect answers that otherwise lend to their own forms of happiness. 

umm who are you to say what I do and do not observe ? 

On a personal level? The person who spoke to you for months over something you then ended up asking me to repeat. 

It extends beyond me, too. Until recently you didn't really pay attention to other people beyond how much they were for or against your message. You don't really hold onto what's being said for too long, but you don't really hold onto what you yourself are saying either, so... I dunno. 

I read a lot of the forum but do not respond to everything

and I read other information online on various websites about what people have done to increase their happiness-  in the new age spiritual community we call this  "raising our vibrations"

You see how this is still you trying to be correct, rather than observe what makes people happy, yes?