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Blanc said: 

Also a great recovery group for people who are dealing with behavioral issues they want to change is known as ACA- adult children of alcoholics. I know someone personally with dx borderline personality disorder who wholeheartedly supports the recovery group and really believes in it, that it can help people and can be very meaningful and make a difference. And that it was very meaningful to them, personally and changed their life, possibly saved it. 

Anyway, it is not recommended by members of this group you just dive head first into it, as it can become overwhelming quickly and ultimately do more harm than good. So with the go ahead from a professional, I would say, at the very least. See if this or something along these lines peaks your interest. 

There is no one size fits all to recovering and healing, keep that in mind and that particular group is just one route that people indulge in, in order to go about it. 

Really my point is here that there are *options* out there, and to pursue those options with a little curiosity and open mindedness, in my personal experience hasn’t been the worst thing. It actually has helped. 

It’s more about learning the necessary stuff as to what is needed for me to deal with What i deal with and for it to become more and more livable and manageable. 

The group is not just for children of alcoholics, but for people who have had dysfunctional families, mental illness, etc in one/more parents care giver and unstable or otherwise unhealthy family dynamics? And are trying to heal from the significant impact it has had on their psychological and emotional well being, as well as resulting in unhealthy behaviors. 

 

I am not sure if I want to be part of a support group or not,  but my father did struggle with alcoholism so it might be beneficial  I really would like there to be IFS IOPs that help encourage you to practice IFS concepts on yourself,  but there are not any IFS IOPs even online as far as I know

 

 

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8/27/2022-  I definitely feel like my "Inner angel" has won out and is dominating my hateful degrading Inner critic  there has been an intense battle going on for actually years,  my Inner angel has been there in the background but was being dominated and suppressed/ repressed by my hateful degrading Inner critic

 

 

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8/28/2022-  I reached out to some level 3 IFS therapists last evening with assistance from my mother because I was feeling too overwhelmed with emotions and mood swings to do it all on my own,  and some have reached back to me today and let me know that they have availability!  I am so excited and hopeful about this  and I also slept very well last night for the first time in a long time  I definitely think that my heart chakra is becoming unblocked and my Inner angel is become unrepresented or whatever was happening for so long because of past trauma that was keeping me in a negative headspace,  and now instead of saying that I love other people and want to get along with them but not really meaning it  (because my self esteem was too low to mean it),  now I actually feel it and I-  idk,  I am at a loss for words it feels like a miracle

 

 

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8/29/2022-  I had a realization today that I am used to being in love in a competitive way and not a supportive way  being in love in a supportive way is like using a muscle that I always wanted to use but never actually used,  and the reason why is fear  I am scared of being supportive and being taken for granted  but loving in the competitive way has ended in heartbreak for me too so now I am having to reach a decision in my life to love supportively even when it is scary or I might be hurt



practicing loving in a genuinely supportive way is so much easier said than done,  but they say that practice makes perfect  and the fact that I am even willing to actively seek out IFS therapy for myself shows a lot of evidence that I am not just talking the talk anymore but now I am starting to walk to walk too,  and I think that this is where real change in my behavior is going to start becoming not only possible but very evident for everyone to see as well



so yeah it is scary to make these really big deal significant changes in my ways of relating to other people,  especially the people that I am closest to and profess to love  but worth it Imo

 

 

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