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0 votes RE: TC flipping on his long time love interest and former friend br

It's weird how much you don't take 'No' for an answer, going to such absurd lengths to try to get your way. 

 you cant tell me no. YOU. dont tell me what to do? who do you think you are? you are nothing to me! you are a stupid CLOWN on the internet i wont remember in two years! i will forget you like so many outside this site have!  you are NOT EVEN NOTABLE IN THE SLIGHTEST

See, literally can't take No for an answer. 

When I refused to be your friend while willing to be BR's, you immediately took that as a threat and have been aiming to sabotage it and control all that goes on the entire time, telling him that if I become your friend that his suffering can stop. 

The real BR already came to terms with how I don't want to be your friend, and this talk was IRL. Unlike you he understands why I would not have the patience for your behavior. 

aww  😕  she is obviously a very lonely girl and is dying for friendship 

She has rationalized as much in relation to the two of them separating. 

but she does have some toxic personality traits that she should be getting therapy for to recover from

I don't know what therapists could even hope to do with someone like her beyond pacifying her for the moment, rather than for good. 

 

^  THIS IS WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT  see when you say this kind of stuff it can make people doubt that there is any hope for themselves and for their healing and recovery and being able to turn their lives around for the better and this is really really toxic,  Turncoat

 

there is totally hope for Jasmine

 

 

 When turquie makes more sense than you

 there is no hope for a wilting flower, kind woman.

 I'm referring to making more sense than tc

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0 votes RE: TC flipping on his long time love interest and former friend br

It's weird how much you don't take 'No' for an answer, going to such absurd lengths to try to get your way. 

 you cant tell me no. YOU. dont tell me what to do? who do you think you are? you are nothing to me! you are a stupid CLOWN on the internet i wont remember in two years! i will forget you like so many outside this site have!  you are NOT EVEN NOTABLE IN THE SLIGHTEST

See, literally can't take No for an answer. 

When I refused to be your friend while willing to be BR's, you immediately took that as a threat and have been aiming to sabotage it and control all that goes on the entire time, telling him that if I become your friend that his suffering can stop. 

The real BR already came to terms with how I don't want to be your friend, and this talk was IRL. Unlike you he understands why I would not have the patience for your behavior. 

aww  😕  she is obviously a very lonely girl and is dying for friendship 

She has rationalized as much in relation to the two of them separating. 

but she does have some toxic personality traits that she should be getting therapy for to recover from

I don't know what therapists could even hope to do with someone like her beyond pacifying her for the moment, rather than for good. 

 

^  THIS IS WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT  see when you say this kind of stuff it can make people doubt that there is any hope for themselves and for their healing and recovery and being able to turn their lives around for the better and this is really really toxic,  Turncoat

 

there is totally hope for Jasmine

 

 

 When turquie makes more sense than you

 there is no hope for a wilting flower, kind woman.

 

there is,  It just needs nurturing and Turncoat is not a very nurturing advice giver / commenter unfortunately  😕

 

 

last edit on 6/25/2022 11:14:31 PM
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0 votes RE: TC flipping on his long time love interest and former friend br

It's weird how much you don't take 'No' for an answer, going to such absurd lengths to try to get your way. 

 you cant tell me no. YOU. dont tell me what to do? who do you think you are? you are nothing to me! you are a stupid CLOWN on the internet i wont remember in two years! i will forget you like so many outside this site have!  you are NOT EVEN NOTABLE IN THE SLIGHTEST

See, literally can't take No for an answer. 

When I refused to be your friend while willing to be BR's, you immediately took that as a threat and have been aiming to sabotage it and control all that goes on the entire time, telling him that if I become your friend that his suffering can stop. 

The real BR already came to terms with how I don't want to be your friend, and this talk was IRL. Unlike you he understands why I would not have the patience for your behavior. 

aww  😕  she is obviously a very lonely girl and is dying for friendship 

She has rationalized as much in relation to the two of them separating. 

but she does have some toxic personality traits that she should be getting therapy for to recover from

I don't know what therapists could even hope to do with someone like her beyond pacifying her for the moment, rather than for good. 

^  THIS IS WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT  see when you say this kind of stuff it can make people doubt that there is any hope for themselves and for their healing and recovery and being able to turn their lives around for the better and this is really really toxic,  Turncoat

 

there is totally hope for Jasmine

 When turquie makes more sense than you

 there is no hope for a wilting flower, kind woman.

there is,  It just needs nurturing and Turncoat is not a very nurturing advice giver / commenter unfortunately  😕

I tried it the nice way in my earlier years, being who people wanted rather than being myself from figuring that's how to get people to listen. Believe it or not, that was worse for a long, long list of reasons, and at the end of both paths people tend to not really be listening unless challenged to. 

Someone can be nice for the wrong reasons just how another can be mean for the right ones, what matters at the end of the day is one's intent, what they hoped to achieve and why. Personally, I've seen the plot be easier to push when playing a more antagonistic role, and whoever is capable of seeing through that supposed harshness ends up taking it more genuinely in the long term. 

The life of a liar is far lonelier, their peers stop feeling like real people. instead as contingent elements to get to the next goalpost. Being a pretender is the same as being a liar as far as I'm concerned, even when pretending to be a good person, and I'd rather be disliked for portraying my truths than loved for a silver tongue. 

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last edit on 6/26/2022 2:23:02 AM
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1 votes RE: TC flipping on his long time love interest and former friend br

I remember when delora claimed rape in the past he hurried in defense and cautioned to hear br's version first etc. Now he is quick to judge and even threatened to call the police. That seems to be a very different TC that we know. What happened there? Even delora seemed surprised that TC would throw his former friend under the bus.

He was never going to do that, he just wanted to silence Delora from speaking on the abuse publicly again and to stop her from telling him to take responsibility or something.

He's an asshole for doing what he did while faking concern but he's well within his right to not want to talk to her. 

One hypothesis is that since this is TCs whole life br became irrelevant to him when he credibly disconnected from this community. He can no longer serve TCs power agendas etc. For TC there is no friendship here, there is only power dynamics and transactional allies to serve his short- and midterm agendas while they are getting backstabbed in the longterm.

Other ideas? 

 This site is very important to TC.

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-1 votes RE: TC flipping on his long time love interest and former friend br
Lenalee said: 

I remember when delora claimed rape in the past he hurried in defense and cautioned to hear br's version first etc. Now he is quick to judge and even threatened to call the police. That seems to be a very different TC that we know. What happened there? Even delora seemed surprised that TC would throw his former friend under the bus.

He was never going to do that, he just wanted to silence Delora from speaking on the abuse publicly again and to stop her from telling him to take responsibility or something.

He's an asshole for doing what he did while faking concern but he's well within his right to not want to talk to her. 

Oh but Alena, whatever will she do about all the strangulation and rape

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1 votes RE: TC flipping on his long time love interest and former friend br
Lenalee said: 

I remember when delora claimed rape in the past he hurried in defense and cautioned to hear br's version first etc. Now he is quick to judge and even threatened to call the police. That seems to be a very different TC that we know. What happened there? Even delora seemed surprised that TC would throw his former friend under the bus.

He was never going to do that, he just wanted to silence Delora from speaking on the abuse publicly again and to stop her from telling him to take responsibility or something.

He's an asshole for doing what he did while faking concern but he's well within his right to not want to talk to her. 

Oh but Alena, whatever will she do about all the strangulation and rape

 It's not like you actually TC, you've shown yourself to be someone that always sides with men when it comes to physical assault on women even before br and delora were a thing. 

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0 votes RE: TC flipping on his long time love interest and former friend br
Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 

I remember when delora claimed rape in the past he hurried in defense and cautioned to hear br's version first etc. Now he is quick to judge and even threatened to call the police. That seems to be a very different TC that we know. What happened there? Even delora seemed surprised that TC would throw his former friend under the bus.

He was never going to do that, he just wanted to silence Delora from speaking on the abuse publicly again and to stop her from telling him to take responsibility or something.

He's an asshole for doing what he did while faking concern but he's well within his right to not want to talk to her. 

Oh but Alena, whatever will she do about all the strangulation and rape

 It's not like you actually TC, you've shown yourself to be someone that always sides with men when it comes to physical assault on women even before br and delora were a thing. 

Past a point if I don't call the cops then I'm supporting strangulation and rape. 

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
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0 votes RE: TC flipping on his long time love interest and former friend br
Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 

I remember when delora claimed rape in the past he hurried in defense and cautioned to hear br's version first etc. Now he is quick to judge and even threatened to call the police. That seems to be a very different TC that we know. What happened there? Even delora seemed surprised that TC would throw his former friend under the bus.

He was never going to do that, he just wanted to silence Delora from speaking on the abuse publicly again and to stop her from telling him to take responsibility or something.

He's an asshole for doing what he did while faking concern but he's well within his right to not want to talk to her. 

Oh but Alena, whatever will she do about all the strangulation and rape

 It's not like you actually TC, you've shown yourself to be someone that always sides with men when it comes to physical assault on women even before br and delora were a thing. 

Past a point if I don't call the cops then I'm supporting strangulation and rape. 

 It's been months since she first said this, just mute her and have Good replace the other mod to deal with anything having to do with Delora ezPZ

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0 votes RE: TC flipping on his long time love interest and former friend br
Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 

I remember when delora claimed rape in the past he hurried in defense and cautioned to hear br's version first etc. Now he is quick to judge and even threatened to call the police. That seems to be a very different TC that we know. What happened there? Even delora seemed surprised that TC would throw his former friend under the bus.

He was never going to do that, he just wanted to silence Delora from speaking on the abuse publicly again and to stop her from telling him to take responsibility or something.

He's an asshole for doing what he did while faking concern but he's well within his right to not want to talk to her. 

Oh but Alena, whatever will she do about all the strangulation and rape

 It's not like you actually TC, you've shown yourself to be someone that always sides with men when it comes to physical assault on women even before br and delora were a thing. 

Past a point if I don't call the cops then I'm supporting strangulation and rape. 

 It's been months since she first said this, just mute her and have Good replace the other mod to deal with anything having to do with Delora ezPZ

When she first mentioned the strangling they hadn't split up yet, so hearing they split seemed like closure. 

The current details: They are back together, she is referring to the strangling in present tense while referencing the rape as past tense to suggest the former is current. She has also since signed onto his Discord, again, to try to make things worse and frame confessions from him in a way that doesn't even sound like his typing style. When all she does is lie constantly from multiple angles, it makes me a lot less inclined to care about her end of it, at this point even when she may be receiving real harm. 

Also my habit is to explore what the one who isn't talking in public has to say, which in this case happened to be the male. I like getting both sides to a story rather than just taking one and running with it like you're doing with Delora, and with how often you make it about gender I don't think you'd recognize when a male is the victim, or even a victim. 

Either way, what kind of person would I be, would any of us be, to not get the authorities involved with rape and strangulation, regardless of how long it's been? What, do rapists just become entitled to it after so much time passes without it being called in? 

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
last edit on 6/26/2022 2:53:45 AM
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0 votes RE: TC flipping on his long time love interest and former friend br

It's weird how much you don't take 'No' for an answer, going to such absurd lengths to try to get your way. 

 you cant tell me no. YOU. dont tell me what to do? who do you think you are? you are nothing to me! you are a stupid CLOWN on the internet i wont remember in two years! i will forget you like so many outside this site have!  you are NOT EVEN NOTABLE IN THE SLIGHTEST

See, literally can't take No for an answer. 

When I refused to be your friend while willing to be BR's, you immediately took that as a threat and have been aiming to sabotage it and control all that goes on the entire time, telling him that if I become your friend that his suffering can stop. 

The real BR already came to terms with how I don't want to be your friend, and this talk was IRL. Unlike you he understands why I would not have the patience for your behavior. 

aww  😕  she is obviously a very lonely girl and is dying for friendship 

She has rationalized as much in relation to the two of them separating. 

but she does have some toxic personality traits that she should be getting therapy for to recover from

I don't know what therapists could even hope to do with someone like her beyond pacifying her for the moment, rather than for good. 

^  THIS IS WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT  see when you say this kind of stuff it can make people doubt that there is any hope for themselves and for their healing and recovery and being able to turn their lives around for the better and this is really really toxic,  Turncoat

 

there is totally hope for Jasmine

 When turquie makes more sense than you

 there is no hope for a wilting flower, kind woman.

there is,  It just needs nurturing and Turncoat is not a very nurturing advice giver / commenter unfortunately  😕

I tried it the nice way in my earlier years, being who people wanted rather than being myself from figuring that's how to get people to listen. Believe it or not, that was worse for a long, long list of reasons, and at the end of both paths people tend to not really be listening unless challenged to. 

Someone can be nice for the wrong reasons just how another can be mean for the right ones, what matters at the end of the day is one's intent, what they hoped to achieve and why. Personally, I've seen the plot be easier to push when playing a more antagonistic role, and whoever is capable of seeing through that supposed harshness ends up taking it more genuinely in the long term. 

The life of a liar is far lonelier, their peers stop feeling like real people. instead as contingent elements to get to the next goalpost. Being a pretender is the same as being a liar as far as I'm concerned, even when pretending to be a good person, and I'd rather be disliked for portraying my truths than loved for a silver tongue. 

 Major littlefinger vibes

The words of a true cuck

last edit on 6/26/2022 2:51:43 AM
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