I don’t usually get too upset by a lack of reciprocation; it’s more indicative of the quality of the person. “Gained insight”, if you will. And some people are just aloof, or the same things aren’t significant, etc. Some empathizing is important for realizing where the shirking happens.
This problem is similar to the other I commented on, where I think you’re too reliant on input from others. That’s not to say your feelings are wrong, only that as long as you’re that sensitive to what you receive, you can expect turbulence—that’s just how life is. The way out of that is to build up your own world in a way where the disappointments others bring aren’t knocking you off center.
ahahahahahahahahahaha
lack of reciprocation? listen i don't mean to keep coming at u, i dont really even have an issue with u. but the shit u say is so fuckin comedic, this is a dude that takes handouts from women...u ARE the lack of reciprocation
It's something that happened a few times, years ago. Why's it such a big thing for you?
it's a part of your character to me. all you guys here do this 'it happened this many years ago, why do u care?' and a huge part of why it sticks out is that u seem to get kinda triggered by girls seemingly taking advantage of men, which is crazy to me and suggests ur delusional or hypocritical af.
I get triggered by girls taking advantage of men? Where?
seemingly. u were triggered by my bf taking me on holiday and brought it up so many times i lost count. you would act like it was some terrible thing i did and im here like 'whaaa...?'