Hasn't she posted about that?
Hasn't she posted about that?
Yes, she admitted to the strangling today and has been doing mild cries for help in the chat for a while now.
Her defense is that she'll tell the cops her account was hacked, and supports literally being assaulted over how she doesn't want to be alone. There's also more than enough here and in Discord from me and potentially others to make a real case here.
She is somewhere between too disillusioned to think cops will help her and wanting to shoo them away from her abuser. It's gotta be Stockholm Syndrome, she sees calling the cops as siding with her husband.
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6/21/2022 12:56:21 AM
I thought a little about how intruding into that could cause harm. She loses what sense of belonging she has, ends up emotionally bankrupt, perhaps without a sense of where to go next. Maybe a severe bout of depression. And perhaps the loss of a potential better future where BR stops being violent. Violence isn't always terminal, like a John and Yoko kind of thing (I know how it sounds).
But on the other side, intervention can only happen legally if things are clearly insane. And really, who 20 years down the line reminisces on the missed opportunity they had with the guy who was physically violent? Are there many stories where that ends well?
I thought a little about how intruding into that could cause harm. She loses what sense of belonging she has, ends up emotionally bankrupt, perhaps without a sense of where to go next. Maybe a severe bout of depression. And perhaps the loss of a potential better future where BR stops being violent. Violence isn't always terminal, like a John and Yoko kind of thing (I know how it sounds).
I feel like this narrative is you saying "Hopefully her rapist and abuser will drop what he's been doing for over a year".
Edit: Wait actually, how long has all this been going on? Is it years, plural?
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6/21/2022 1:10:41 AM
Where I’m at with it has more to do with letting someone realize something vs making a decision for them.
When it's being reported with a person who otherwise will simultaneously justify a need to defend their abuser, it's bound to continue for a long time.
She keeps acting like no one will listen to her, now that a spotlight's on her she's trying to make it go away. That tells me that she sees herself as feeling in danger, a danger she will do nothing to stop other than face more rape and strangling.
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I couldn’t argue against someone doing something. But in my mind it conjures up an image of a pebble being slingshotted at someone’s head. Irritating, but inconsequential. Mostly inspiring animosity toward the source.
TLDR; 'Not My Problem'?
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