Yes because you and TC are seeing this from a male perspective
Oh god, didn't expect the sexism to come out here.
Swallow it.
Well clearly there's no reasoning with you when your logic rules out all males.
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I wonder: would coming to plum's aid not have more power over her than to do nothing?
Giving her the option to be someplace else with shelter and space and security is more helpful than threatening to call the police and forcing her to defend her abuser. TC should know that instead of forcing a decision on her where she spirals into uncertainty and homelessness seeing as he's got some degree in psychology.
It's about giving her a choice rather than distressing her to such a point
People have been giving her "choices". It'd be great to see her say if she's been taking them or even considering them. So far it seems like she's been mainly avoiding the issue and that's also a problem -- a recurring one.
Sure and when everybody was showing her support and trying to help her, TC was actively saying that she was lying as well also reporting to her abusive husband everything that was going on which only caused more friction. So it's pretty clear that she would be cautious of taking any further steps.
Cautious of taking any further WHAT steps? The ones TC's suggesting, or anyone's? That makes no fucking sense.
Yes because you and TC are seeing this from a male perspective where you can leave at any point and be relatively okay even if you were slightly homeless for a Time.
Delora being female would have to take more steps to be safe where as BR can just call his mom and get a place to live if he were going to leave. She doesn't have the same support system that he does she doesn't have a place where she could stay she should be kicked out immediately she has to think about what she's going to do without much help from anyone else because her parents aren't reliable her brother isn't in a position mentally or financially to help her.
So yes she would have to figure out what to do if she decided to call the cops on her husband or at least accept that her husband's an abusive person
So, you've been talking to her and considering these options? It's great how you're putting words into my mouth or intentions behind my words, when I'm asking questions.
Thrall to the Wire of Self-Excited Circuit.
I wonder: would coming to plum's aid not have more power over her than to do nothing?
Giving her the option to be someplace else with shelter and space and security is more helpful than threatening to call the police and forcing her to defend her abuser. TC should know that instead of forcing a decision on her where she spirals into uncertainty and homelessness seeing as he's got some degree in psychology.
It's about giving her a choice rather than distressing her to such a point
People have been giving her "choices". It'd be great to see her say if she's been taking them or even considering them. So far it seems like she's been mainly avoiding the issue and that's also a problem -- a recurring one.
Sure and when everybody was showing her support and trying to help her, TC was actively saying that she was lying as well also reporting to her abusive husband everything that was going on which only caused more friction. So it's pretty clear that she would be cautious of taking any further steps.
Cautious of taking any further WHAT steps? The ones TC's suggesting, or anyone's? That makes no fucking sense.
Yes because you and TC are seeing this from a male perspective where you can leave at any point and be relatively okay even if you were slightly homeless for a Time.
Delora being female would have to take more steps to be safe where as BR can just call his mom and get a place to live if he were going to leave. She doesn't have the same support system that he does she doesn't have a place where she could stay she should be kicked out immediately she has to think about what she's going to do without much help from anyone else because her parents aren't reliable her brother isn't in a position mentally or financially to help her.
So yes she would have to figure out what to do if she decided to call the cops on her husband or at least accept that her husband's an abusive person
So, you've been talking to her and considering these options? It's great how you're putting words into my mouth or intentions behind my words, when I'm asking questions.
You're welcome, it saves us both time.
I wonder: would coming to plum's aid not have more power over her than to do nothing?
Giving her the option to be someplace else with shelter and space and security is more helpful than threatening to call the police and forcing her to defend her abuser. TC should know that instead of forcing a decision on her where she spirals into uncertainty and homelessness seeing as he's got some degree in psychology.
It's about giving her a choice rather than distressing her to such a point
People have been giving her "choices". It'd be great to see her say if she's been taking them or even considering them. So far it seems like she's been mainly avoiding the issue and that's also a problem -- a recurring one.
Sure and when everybody was showing her support and trying to help her, TC was actively saying that she was lying as well also reporting to her abusive husband everything that was going on which only caused more friction. So it's pretty clear that she would be cautious of taking any further steps.
Cautious of taking any further WHAT steps? The ones TC's suggesting, or anyone's? That makes no fucking sense.
Yes because you and TC are seeing this from a male perspective where you can leave at any point and be relatively okay even if you were slightly homeless for a Time.
Delora being female would have to take more steps to be safe where as BR can just call his mom and get a place to live if he were going to leave. She doesn't have the same support system that he does she doesn't have a place where she could stay she should be kicked out immediately she has to think about what she's going to do without much help from anyone else because her parents aren't reliable her brother isn't in a position mentally or financially to help her.
So yes she would have to figure out what to do if she decided to call the cops on her husband or at least accept that her husband's an abusive person
So, you've been talking to her and considering these options? It's great how you're putting words into my mouth or intentions behind my words, when I'm asking questions.
You're welcome, it saves us both time.
Total bullshit. Literally wrong. Also, admitting not talking to delora about it, I guess.
Thrall to the Wire of Self-Excited Circuit.
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I wonder: would coming to plum's aid not have more power over her than to do nothing?
Giving her the option to be someplace else with shelter and space and security is more helpful than threatening to call the police and forcing her to defend her abuser. TC should know that instead of forcing a decision on her where she spirals into uncertainty and homelessness seeing as he's got some degree in psychology.
It's about giving her a choice rather than distressing her to such a point
People have been giving her "choices". It'd be great to see her say if she's been taking them or even considering them. So far it seems like she's been mainly avoiding the issue and that's also a problem -- a recurring one.
Sure and when everybody was showing her support and trying to help her, TC was actively saying that she was lying as well also reporting to her abusive husband everything that was going on which only caused more friction. So it's pretty clear that she would be cautious of taking any further steps.
Cautious of taking any further WHAT steps? The ones TC's suggesting, or anyone's? That makes no fucking sense.
Yes because you and TC are seeing this from a male perspective where you can leave at any point and be relatively okay even if you were slightly homeless for a Time.
Delora being female would have to take more steps to be safe where as BR can just call his mom and get a place to live if he were going to leave. She doesn't have the same support system that he does she doesn't have a place where she could stay she should be kicked out immediately she has to think about what she's going to do without much help from anyone else because her parents aren't reliable her brother isn't in a position mentally or financially to help her.
So yes she would have to figure out what to do if she decided to call the cops on her husband or at least accept that her husband's an abusive person
So, you've been talking to her and considering these options? It's great how you're putting words into my mouth or intentions behind my words, when I'm asking questions.
You're welcome, it saves us both time.
Total bullshit. Literally wrong. Also, admitting not talking to delora about it, I guess.
Did I admit to that or did I simply not answer your question?
I wonder: would coming to plum's aid not have more power over her than to do nothing?
Giving her the option to be someplace else with shelter and space and security is more helpful than threatening to call the police and forcing her to defend her abuser. TC should know that instead of forcing a decision on her where she spirals into uncertainty and homelessness seeing as he's got some degree in psychology.
It's about giving her a choice rather than distressing her to such a point
People have been giving her "choices". It'd be great to see her say if she's been taking them or even considering them. So far it seems like she's been mainly avoiding the issue and that's also a problem -- a recurring one.
Sure and when everybody was showing her support and trying to help her, TC was actively saying that she was lying as well also reporting to her abusive husband everything that was going on which only caused more friction. So it's pretty clear that she would be cautious of taking any further steps.
Cautious of taking any further WHAT steps? The ones TC's suggesting, or anyone's? That makes no fucking sense.
Yes because you and TC are seeing this from a male perspective where you can leave at any point and be relatively okay even if you were slightly homeless for a Time.
Delora being female would have to take more steps to be safe where as BR can just call his mom and get a place to live if he were going to leave. She doesn't have the same support system that he does she doesn't have a place where she could stay she should be kicked out immediately she has to think about what she's going to do without much help from anyone else because her parents aren't reliable her brother isn't in a position mentally or financially to help her.
So yes she would have to figure out what to do if she decided to call the cops on her husband or at least accept that her husband's an abusive person
So, you've been talking to her and considering these options? It's great how you're putting words into my mouth or intentions behind my words, when I'm asking questions.
You're welcome, it saves us both time.
Total bullshit. Literally wrong. Also, admitting not talking to delora about it, I guess.
Did I admit to that or did I simply not answer your question?
I suppose it's fair to assume when you assume yourself.
Thrall to the Wire of Self-Excited Circuit.
I wonder: would coming to plum's aid not have more power over her than to do nothing?
Giving her the option to be someplace else with shelter and space and security is more helpful than threatening to call the police and forcing her to defend her abuser. TC should know that instead of forcing a decision on her where she spirals into uncertainty and homelessness seeing as he's got some degree in psychology.
It's about giving her a choice rather than distressing her to such a point
People have been giving her "choices". It'd be great to see her say if she's been taking them or even considering them. So far it seems like she's been mainly avoiding the issue and that's also a problem -- a recurring one.
Sure and when everybody was showing her support and trying to help her, TC was actively saying that she was lying as well also reporting to her abusive husband everything that was going on which only caused more friction. So it's pretty clear that she would be cautious of taking any further steps.
Cautious of taking any further WHAT steps? The ones TC's suggesting, or anyone's? That makes no fucking sense.
Yes because you and TC are seeing this from a male perspective where you can leave at any point and be relatively okay even if you were slightly homeless for a Time.
Delora being female would have to take more steps to be safe where as BR can just call his mom and get a place to live if he were going to leave. She doesn't have the same support system that he does she doesn't have a place where she could stay she should be kicked out immediately she has to think about what she's going to do without much help from anyone else because her parents aren't reliable her brother isn't in a position mentally or financially to help her.
So yes she would have to figure out what to do if she decided to call the cops on her husband or at least accept that her husband's an abusive person
So, you've been talking to her and considering these options? It's great how you're putting words into my mouth or intentions behind my words, when I'm asking questions.
You're welcome, it saves us both time.
Total bullshit. Literally wrong. Also, admitting not talking to delora about it, I guess.
Did I admit to that or did I simply not answer your question?
I suppose it's fair to assume when you assume yourself.
Like I said it saved us both time but now you're wasting it with pointless commentary
I wonder: would coming to plum's aid not have more power over her than to do nothing?
Giving her the option to be someplace else with shelter and space and security is more helpful than threatening to call the police and forcing her to defend her abuser. TC should know that instead of forcing a decision on her where she spirals into uncertainty and homelessness seeing as he's got some degree in psychology.
It's about giving her a choice rather than distressing her to such a point
People have been giving her "choices". It'd be great to see her say if she's been taking them or even considering them. So far it seems like she's been mainly avoiding the issue and that's also a problem -- a recurring one.
Sure and when everybody was showing her support and trying to help her, TC was actively saying that she was lying as well also reporting to her abusive husband everything that was going on which only caused more friction. So it's pretty clear that she would be cautious of taking any further steps.
Cautious of taking any further WHAT steps? The ones TC's suggesting, or anyone's? That makes no fucking sense.
Yes because you and TC are seeing this from a male perspective where you can leave at any point and be relatively okay even if you were slightly homeless for a Time.
Delora being female would have to take more steps to be safe where as BR can just call his mom and get a place to live if he were going to leave. She doesn't have the same support system that he does she doesn't have a place where she could stay she should be kicked out immediately she has to think about what she's going to do without much help from anyone else because her parents aren't reliable her brother isn't in a position mentally or financially to help her.
So yes she would have to figure out what to do if she decided to call the cops on her husband or at least accept that her husband's an abusive person
So, you've been talking to her and considering these options? It's great how you're putting words into my mouth or intentions behind my words, when I'm asking questions.
You're welcome, it saves us both time.
Total bullshit. Literally wrong. Also, admitting not talking to delora about it, I guess.
Did I admit to that or did I simply not answer your question?
I suppose it's fair to assume when you assume yourself.
Like I said it saved us both time but now you're wasting it with pointless commentary
Pfft. I'm rubber you're glue.
Thrall to the Wire of Self-Excited Circuit.