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Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

🌺plumeria🌺 said: 

natasha87 said: 

delora, if u feel like tc is threatening to harass you irl while faking concern u have his address bb. simples.

 i know the town i know, state and name, i know, and i could find his address easy its a small town and i know people there, and he went to the same school as my husband

but i dont wanna dox this asshole because i know somewhere in that fucking cocksucker is my friend

 You're not his friend to him, you're the obstacle that could likely get BR jail time. He doesn't care about you as much as he cares that BR will get in trouble.

/she says while not working to get BR in trouble

A bit hypocritical to act like you want to help while doing nothing. 

 So you want me to put BR in jail and possibly have Delora become homeless if she doesn't accept my help? 

Or another solution, rather than doing nothing. 🤷

Unless you are content with doing nothing, like you complained at me about being and as Tryp has expressed as well over it being "More Trouble Than It's Worth". 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

🌺plumeria🌺 said: 

natasha87 said: 

delora, if u feel like tc is threatening to harass you irl while faking concern u have his address bb. simples.

 i know the town i know, state and name, i know, and i could find his address easy its a small town and i know people there, and he went to the same school as my husband

but i dont wanna dox this asshole because i know somewhere in that fucking cocksucker is my friend

 You're not his friend to him, you're the obstacle that could likely get BR jail time. He doesn't care about you as much as he cares that BR will get in trouble.

/she says while not working to get BR in trouble

A bit hypocritical to act like you want to help while doing nothing. 

 So you want me to put BR in jail and possibly have Delora become homeless if she doesn't accept my help? 

Or another solution, rather than doing nothing. 🤷

Unless you are content with doing nothing, like you complained at me about being and as Tryp has expressed as well over it being "More Trouble Than It's Worth". 

 But what exactly were you going to do TC? During all this time that you were trying to distress Delora, did you call the police?

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

🌺plumeria🌺 said: 

natasha87 said: 

delora, if u feel like tc is threatening to harass you irl while faking concern u have his address bb. simples.

 i know the town i know, state and name, i know, and i could find his address easy its a small town and i know people there, and he went to the same school as my husband

but i dont wanna dox this asshole because i know somewhere in that fucking cocksucker is my friend

 You're not his friend to him, you're the obstacle that could likely get BR jail time. He doesn't care about you as much as he cares that BR will get in trouble.

/she says while not working to get BR in trouble

A bit hypocritical to act like you want to help while doing nothing. 

 So you want me to put BR in jail and possibly have Delora become homeless if she doesn't accept my help? 

Or another solution, rather than doing nothing. 🤷

Unless you are content with doing nothing, like you complained at me about being and as Tryp has expressed as well over it being "More Trouble Than It's Worth". 

But what exactly were you going to do TC? During all this time that you were trying to distress Delora, did you call the police?

Look if you don't want to call the cops that's fine, we can both just agree that neither of us were ever going to do that. 

I wonder: would coming to plum's aid not have more power over her than to do nothing?

Buttered Toast said: 

I wonder: would coming to plum's aid not have more power over her than to do nothing?

 Giving her the option to be someplace else with shelter and space and security is more helpful than threatening to call the police and forcing her to defend her abuser. TC should know that instead of forcing a decision on her where she spirals into uncertainty and homelessness seeing as he's got some degree in psychology. 

It's about giving her a choice rather than distressing her to such a point 

Lenalee said: 

Buttered Toast said: 

I wonder: would coming to plum's aid not have more power over her than to do nothing?

 Giving her the option to be someplace else with shelter and space and security is more helpful than threatening to call the police and forcing her to defend her abuser. TC should know that instead of forcing a decision on her where she spirals into uncertainty and homelessness seeing as he's got some degree in psychology. 

It's about giving her a choice rather than distressing her to such a point 

 People have been giving her "choices".  It'd be great to see her say if she's been taking them or even considering them.  So far it seems like she's been mainly avoiding the issue and that's also a problem -- a recurring one.

Buttered Toast said: 

Lenalee said: 

Buttered Toast said: 

I wonder: would coming to plum's aid not have more power over her than to do nothing?

 Giving her the option to be someplace else with shelter and space and security is more helpful than threatening to call the police and forcing her to defend her abuser. TC should know that instead of forcing a decision on her where she spirals into uncertainty and homelessness seeing as he's got some degree in psychology. 

It's about giving her a choice rather than distressing her to such a point 

 People have been giving her "choices".  It'd be great to see her say if she's been taking them or even considering them.  So far it seems like she's been mainly avoiding the issue and that's also a problem -- a recurring one.

 Sure and when everybody was showing her support and trying to help her, TC was actively saying that she was lying as well also reporting to her abusive husband everything that was going on which only caused more friction. So it's pretty clear that she would be cautious of taking any further steps. 

Lenalee said: 

Buttered Toast said: 

Lenalee said: 

Buttered Toast said: 

I wonder: would coming to plum's aid not have more power over her than to do nothing?

 Giving her the option to be someplace else with shelter and space and security is more helpful than threatening to call the police and forcing her to defend her abuser. TC should know that instead of forcing a decision on her where she spirals into uncertainty and homelessness seeing as he's got some degree in psychology. 

It's about giving her a choice rather than distressing her to such a point 

 People have been giving her "choices".  It'd be great to see her say if she's been taking them or even considering them.  So far it seems like she's been mainly avoiding the issue and that's also a problem -- a recurring one.

 Sure and when everybody was showing her support and trying to help her, TC was actively saying that she was lying as well also reporting to her abusive husband everything that was going on which only caused more friction. So it's pretty clear that she would be cautious of taking any further steps. 

 

 Cautious of taking any further WHAT steps?  The ones TC's suggesting, or anyone's?  That makes no fucking sense.

No one is going to call any cops here.  Is that part at least settled?  Delora is going to have to make some choice.  Are you saying that she shouldn't try anything now?  That there's no reason to try and help?

Buttered Toast said: 

Lenalee said: 

Buttered Toast said: 

Lenalee said: 

Buttered Toast said: 

I wonder: would coming to plum's aid not have more power over her than to do nothing?

 Giving her the option to be someplace else with shelter and space and security is more helpful than threatening to call the police and forcing her to defend her abuser. TC should know that instead of forcing a decision on her where she spirals into uncertainty and homelessness seeing as he's got some degree in psychology. 

It's about giving her a choice rather than distressing her to such a point 

 People have been giving her "choices".  It'd be great to see her say if she's been taking them or even considering them.  So far it seems like she's been mainly avoiding the issue and that's also a problem -- a recurring one.

 Sure and when everybody was showing her support and trying to help her, TC was actively saying that she was lying as well also reporting to her abusive husband everything that was going on which only caused more friction. So it's pretty clear that she would be cautious of taking any further steps. 

 

 Cautious of taking any further WHAT steps?  The ones TC's suggesting, or anyone's?  That makes no fucking sense.

 Yes because you and TC are seeing this from a male perspective where you can leave at any point and be relatively okay even if you were slightly homeless for a Time. 

Delora being female would have to take more steps to be safe where as BR can just call his mom and get a place to live if he were going to leave. She doesn't have the same support system that he does she doesn't have a place where she could stay she should be kicked out immediately she has to think about what she's going to do without much help from anyone else because her parents aren't reliable her brother isn't in a position mentally or financially to help her. 

So yes she would have to figure out what to do if she decided to call the cops on her husband or at least accept that her husband's an abusive person 

Lenalee said: 

 

Yes because you and TC are seeing this from a male perspective

Oh god, didn't expect the sexism to come out here.