What would the therapist even do for me other than embolden me over how what I tried to do, give some ramble over how 'sooiside bad!', and eventually try to get me on pills for a disorder that does not have clear cut cures? At most there's room to defend how hard it is to be with a suicidal person (which applied to us both, not just me) as reason why it might not be working, but they'd often hear the seven-ish year number and the steps I tried and then insist that the one who'd try to be with someone else at the same time must be the one who's 'wrong'. There's also the whole 'you weren't being a man' rationale that for me just goes in one ear and out the other.
Seriously, I state what I'm doing wrong and right and I just get sympathy and cultural bias. If a therapist or whatever agreed with her it'd give more room for me to debate it and grow from the exchange, but somehow I end up agreeing with her choices more than other people do who hear what's going on.Brainwashed.
Do you think she cheated or do you feel that her lying about what was going on with Inq is completely normal and the next obvious step?
That'd depend what you qualify as cheating, but I'd say no.
Nothing physical happened until she and I were single, and whatever they'd talk about over Skype, frankly, I didn't want to know over how my insecurity even has innocent stuff taken as a big deal over what bits I would see from being present.How do you know nothing physical happened?
Because her and Inq doing physical stuff would be near impossible, we shared a room for most of our time together. He would have had to have visited during some pretty weird timeframes.
Oh did you also go on the Albania trip?
No, but we broke up before it.
