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Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Do you think that if Crow came back and said she's made a mistake, you'd take her back? 

I don't know, I still love her but she and I kind of become messes overtime around eachother. 

I did exactly that with my ex-fiance, except the ex-fiance was way more flagrant about what she'd do with other dudes and I still kept taking her back. 

It's more likely that she'd not take me back. 

 I'm na trying to be mean but you need to get some therapy.

The therapist would just end up agreeing with me and empowering my feelings, I don't need an enabler. 

 I sincerely doubt they would. 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Do you think that if Crow came back and said she's made a mistake, you'd take her back? 

I don't know, I still love her but she and I kind of become messes overtime around eachother. 

I did exactly that with my ex-fiance, except the ex-fiance was way more flagrant about what she'd do with other dudes and I still kept taking her back. 

It's more likely that she'd not take me back. 

 I'm na trying to be mean but you need to get some therapy.

The therapist would just end up agreeing with me and empowering my feelings, I don't need an enabler. 

 I sincerely doubt they would. 

So far her and I attempting to bring it up with others 'in the field' has had them not understand her POV, there's a clear bias culturally and in said bias I am the one saddled with the advantage. 

Having someone be like "You have a right to those feelings" is really not what I need right now. 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Do you think that if Crow came back and said she's made a mistake, you'd take her back? 

I don't know, I still love her but she and I kind of become messes overtime around eachother. 

I did exactly that with my ex-fiance, except the ex-fiance was way more flagrant about what she'd do with other dudes and I still kept taking her back. 

It's more likely that she'd not take me back. 

 I'm na trying to be mean but you need to get some therapy.

The therapist would just end up agreeing with me and empowering my feelings, I don't need an enabler. 

 I sincerely doubt they would. 

So far her and I attempting to bring it up with others 'in the field' has had them not understand her POV, there's a clear bias culturally and in said bias I am the one saddled with the advantage. 

 Lmao, you need a fucking therapist.

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Do you think that if Crow came back and said she's made a mistake, you'd take her back? 

I don't know, I still love her but she and I kind of become messes overtime around eachother. 

I did exactly that with my ex-fiance, except the ex-fiance was way more flagrant about what she'd do with other dudes and I still kept taking her back. 

It's more likely that she'd not take me back. 

 I'm na trying to be mean but you need to get some therapy.

The therapist would just end up agreeing with me and empowering my feelings, I don't need an enabler. 

 I sincerely doubt they would. 

So far her and I attempting to bring it up with others 'in the field' has had them not understand her POV, there's a clear bias culturally and in said bias I am the one saddled with the advantage. 

 "Culturally"? Dumbass racist. You bash Asians for our culture and you want to claim being an edgy neurotic pedo-defending creep is "culture"?

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Do you think that if Crow came back and said she's made a mistake, you'd take her back? 

I don't know, I still love her but she and I kind of become messes overtime around eachother. 

I did exactly that with my ex-fiance, except the ex-fiance was way more flagrant about what she'd do with other dudes and I still kept taking her back. 

It's more likely that she'd not take me back. 

 Will you kill yourself now? How will you adjust to her being gone?

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Do you think that if Crow came back and said she's made a mistake, you'd take her back? 

I don't know, I still love her but she and I kind of become messes overtime around eachother. 

I did exactly that with my ex-fiance, except the ex-fiance was way more flagrant about what she'd do with other dudes and I still kept taking her back. 

It's more likely that she'd not take me back. 

 I'm na trying to be mean but you need to get some therapy.

The therapist would just end up agreeing with me and empowering my feelings, I don't need an enabler. 

 I sincerely doubt they would. 

So far her and I attempting to bring it up with others 'in the field' has had them not understand her POV, there's a clear bias culturally and in said bias I am the one saddled with the advantage. 

Having someone be like "You have a right to those feelings" is really not what I need right now. 

 Wait, what is it that you think you need to hear?

What would the therapist even do for me other than embolden me over what I tried to do, give some ramble over how 'sooiside bad!', and eventually try to get me on pills for a disorder that does not have clear cut cures? At most there's room to defend how hard it is to be with a suicidal person (which applied to us both, not just me) as reason why it might not be working, but people'd often hear the seven-ish year number and the steps tried and then insist that the one who'd try to be with someone else at the same time must be the one who's 'wrong'. There's also the whole 'you weren't being a man' rationale that for me just goes in one ear and out the other. 

Seriously, I state what I'm doing wrong and right and I just get sympathy and cultural bias. If a therapist or whatever agreed with her it'd give more room for me to debate it and grow from the exchange, but somehow I end up agreeing with her choices more than other people do who hear what's going on. 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Do you think that if Crow came back and said she's made a mistake, you'd take her back? 

I don't know, I still love her but she and I kind of become messes overtime around eachother. 

I did exactly that with my ex-fiance, except the ex-fiance was way more flagrant about what she'd do with other dudes and I still kept taking her back. 

It's more likely that she'd not take me back. 

 I'm na trying to be mean but you need to get some therapy.

The therapist would just end up agreeing with me and empowering my feelings, I don't need an enabler. 

 I sincerely doubt they would. 

So far her and I attempting to bring it up with others 'in the field' has had them not understand her POV, there's a clear bias culturally and in said bias I am the one saddled with the advantage. 

Having someone be like "You have a right to those feelings" is really not what I need right now. 

 Wait, what is it that you think you need to hear?

That I'm wrong, from someone who otherwise has no connection to either member of the relationship. 

Turncoat said: 

What would the therapist even do for me other than embolden me over how what I tried to do, give some ramble over how 'sooiside bad!', and eventually try to get me on pills for a disorder that does not have clear cut cures? At most there's room to defend how hard it is to be with a suicidal person (which applied to us both, not just me) as reason why it might not be working, but they'd often hear the seven year number and the steps I tried and then insist that the one who'd try to be with someone else at the same time must be the one who's 'wrong'. There's also the whole 'you weren't being a man' rationale that for me just goes in one ear and out the other. 

Seriously, I state what I'm doing wrong and right and I just get sympathy and cultural bias. If a therapist or whatever agreed with her it'd give more room for me to debate it and grow from the exchange, but somehow I end up agreeing with her choices than other people do who hear what's going on. 

 Brainwashed. 

Do you think she cheated or do you feel that her lying about what was going on with Inq is completely normal and the next obvious step? 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Do you think that if Crow came back and said she's made a mistake, you'd take her back? 

I don't know, I still love her but she and I kind of become messes overtime around eachother. 

I did exactly that with my ex-fiance, except the ex-fiance was way more flagrant about what she'd do with other dudes and I still kept taking her back. 

It's more likely that she'd not take me back. 

 I'm na trying to be mean but you need to get some therapy.

The therapist would just end up agreeing with me and empowering my feelings, I don't need an enabler. 

 I sincerely doubt they would. 

So far her and I attempting to bring it up with others 'in the field' has had them not understand her POV, there's a clear bias culturally and in said bias I am the one saddled with the advantage. 

Having someone be like "You have a right to those feelings" is really not what I need right now. 

 Wait, what is it that you think you need to hear?

That I'm wrong, from someone who otherwise has no connection to either member of the relationship. 

 You are wrong, Nathan. But we've been telling that and your arrogance as well as your ego won't take us seriously. In fact you lash out when you're told you're wrong