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0 votes RE: I wanna live, I wanna love
Hawk said: 

I want to love people  I want this heart to become soft and to love being in relationships with and making other people feel cared about and safe

 I think you just want everyone to think highly of you. You don't particularly like people. 

you should stop thinking and judging other people until you can learn to think and judge accurately,  If I wanted people to think highly of me then I would care about being respected and make sure to never say anything or reveal any truths and "secrets" about myself that would cause me to be disrespected

Yeah I'd say this is more about having enough power to rebuke people, a path people tend to take after feeling denied by them long enough. I mean you seem to think all people are attracted to you, so you must think pretty highly of yourself. 

You otherwise still do want everyone to think highly of you, as long as that is done through some means of respect for your power, and you don't particularly seem to like people over how difficult they make that need out for you to accomplish. 

I am very honest except for when I cannot stop doing the things that I want to stop doing,  but that is because of a problem with different parts of me wanting different things that I need to sort out  but all of me does not care about being thought highly of or about being respected or about the praise of tiny little human beings who do not really mean much of anything other than they are supposed to be serving God my husband who means everything to me,  and all of me does not like people but wants to feel love towards people

See, rebuking.

You aim to diminish the perception of those you perceive as your haters so that you do not have to internalize the things they are saying. 

listen to what people say and stop projecting,  and you will actually learn the truth about other people without your perception of them being clouded by your own projections

You might want to listen to people, you didn't really deny his point. 

 

^  This is so beyond inaccurate  really sad how little you understand about me when I have replied to a lot of your questions  maybe I do not like stupid people and most people from my intellectual standpoint are darn near close to retarded if not actually retarded  so I am spending more and more time communicating with myself and God as of late  :)

 

 

last edit on 6/8/2022 1:10:45 PM
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0 votes RE: I wanna live, I wanna love

I disagree and I will never think of respect as important,  only showing God's love to other people

It's more that God wants us to be respectable, rather than respected. 

The key word there is 'Integrity': 
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this forum becomes boring when you realize how delusioned everyone is by their own hypocrisy and projections, 

^ This is a self-demonstration of the very thing you're admonishing. 

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0 votes RE: I wanna live, I wanna love
Hawk said: 

I want to love people  I want this heart to become soft and to love being in relationships with and making other people feel cared about and safe

 I think you just want everyone to think highly of you. You don't particularly like people. 

you should stop thinking and judging other people until you can learn to think and judge accurately,  If I wanted people to think highly of me then I would care about being respected and make sure to never say anything or reveal any truths and "secrets" about myself that would cause me to be disrespected

Yeah I'd say this is more about having enough power to rebuke people, a path people tend to take after feeling denied by them long enough. I mean you seem to think all people are attracted to you, so you must think pretty highly of yourself. 

You otherwise still do want everyone to think highly of you, as long as that is done through some means of respect for your power, and you don't particularly seem to like people over how difficult they make that need out for you to accomplish. 

I am very honest except for when I cannot stop doing the things that I want to stop doing,  but that is because of a problem with different parts of me wanting different things that I need to sort out  but all of me does not care about being thought highly of or about being respected or about the praise of tiny little human beings who do not really mean much of anything other than they are supposed to be serving God my husband who means everything to me,  and all of me does not like people but wants to feel love towards people

See, rebuking.

You aim to diminish the perception of those you perceive as your haters so that you do not have to internalize the things they are saying. 

listen to what people say and stop projecting,  and you will actually learn the truth about other people without your perception of them being clouded by your own projections

You might want to listen to people, you didn't really deny his point. 

^  This is so beyond inaccurate  really sad how little you understand about me when I have replied to a lot of your questions  maybe I do not like stupid people and most people from my intellectual standpoint are darn near close to retarded if not actually retarded  so I am spending more and more time communicating with myself and God as of late  :)

Could you explain where I got it wrong? 

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0 votes RE: I wanna live, I wanna love
Hawk said: 

I want to love people  I want this heart to become soft and to love being in relationships with and making other people feel cared about and safe

 I think you just want everyone to think highly of you. You don't particularly like people. 

you should stop thinking and judging other people until you can learn to think and judge accurately,  If I wanted people to think highly of me then I would care about being respected and make sure to never say anything or reveal any truths and "secrets" about myself that would cause me to be disrespected

Yeah I'd say this is more about having enough power to rebuke people, a path people tend to take after feeling denied by them long enough. I mean you seem to think all people are attracted to you, so you must think pretty highly of yourself. 

You otherwise still do want everyone to think highly of you, as long as that is done through some means of respect for your power, and you don't particularly seem to like people over how difficult they make that need out for you to accomplish. 

I am very honest except for when I cannot stop doing the things that I want to stop doing,  but that is because of a problem with different parts of me wanting different things that I need to sort out  but all of me does not care about being thought highly of or about being respected or about the praise of tiny little human beings who do not really mean much of anything other than they are supposed to be serving God my husband who means everything to me,  and all of me does not like people but wants to feel love towards people

See, rebuking.

You aim to diminish the perception of those you perceive as your haters so that you do not have to internalize the things they are saying. 

listen to what people say and stop projecting,  and you will actually learn the truth about other people without your perception of them being clouded by your own projections

You might want to listen to people, you didn't really deny his point. 

^  This is so beyond inaccurate  really sad how little you understand about me when I have replied to a lot of your questions  maybe I do not like stupid people and most people from my intellectual standpoint are darn near close to retarded if not actually retarded  so I am spending more and more time communicating with myself and God as of late  :)

Could you explain where I got it wrong? 

 

No,  I am too uninterested and detached   my focus is on other things and I will continue to care less and less about your opinions on anything and this forum

 

 

last edit on 6/8/2022 1:17:42 PM
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0 votes RE: I wanna live, I wanna love

I disagree and I will never think of respect as important,  only showing God's love to other people

It's more that God wants us to be respectable, rather than respected. 

The key word there is 'Integrity': 
Posted Image

this forum becomes boring when you realize how delusioned everyone is by their own hypocrisy and projections, 

^ This is a self-demonstration of the very thing you're admonishing. 

 

No,  I would very much encourage everyone to do their own Inner healing work,  be doing therapy and also learning how to stop projecting and start being honest

 

I am actually super honest and the only things that I am not honest about are when I have intentions to do something,  but other parts of me want to do something else  but I am healing this in therapy so that there is more agreeance from all parts of me on the decisions that I make  It will save so much time and is super beneficial

 

 

last edit on 6/8/2022 1:17:18 PM
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0 votes RE: I wanna live, I wanna love
Hawk said: 

I want to love people  I want this heart to become soft and to love being in relationships with and making other people feel cared about and safe

 I think you just want everyone to think highly of you. You don't particularly like people. 

you should stop thinking and judging other people until you can learn to think and judge accurately,  If I wanted people to think highly of me then I would care about being respected and make sure to never say anything or reveal any truths and "secrets" about myself that would cause me to be disrespected

Yeah I'd say this is more about having enough power to rebuke people, a path people tend to take after feeling denied by them long enough. I mean you seem to think all people are attracted to you, so you must think pretty highly of yourself. 

You otherwise still do want everyone to think highly of you, as long as that is done through some means of respect for your power, and you don't particularly seem to like people over how difficult they make that need out for you to accomplish. 

I am very honest except for when I cannot stop doing the things that I want to stop doing,  but that is because of a problem with different parts of me wanting different things that I need to sort out  but all of me does not care about being thought highly of or about being respected or about the praise of tiny little human beings who do not really mean much of anything other than they are supposed to be serving God my husband who means everything to me,  and all of me does not like people but wants to feel love towards people

See, rebuking.

You aim to diminish the perception of those you perceive as your haters so that you do not have to internalize the things they are saying. 

listen to what people say and stop projecting,  and you will actually learn the truth about other people without your perception of them being clouded by your own projections

You might want to listen to people, you didn't really deny his point. 

^  This is so beyond inaccurate  really sad how little you understand about me when I have replied to a lot of your questions  maybe I do not like stupid people and most people from my intellectual standpoint are darn near close to retarded if not actually retarded  so I am spending more and more time communicating with myself and God as of late  :)

Could you explain where I got it wrong? 

No,  I am too uninterested and detached   my focus is on other things and I will continue to care less and less about your opinions on anything and this forum

Then how do you know that it is inaccurate? 

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last edit on 6/8/2022 1:25:38 PM
Posts: 34070
0 votes RE: I wanna live, I wanna love

I disagree and I will never think of respect as important,  only showing God's love to other people

It's more that God wants us to be respectable, rather than respected. 

The key word there is 'Integrity': 
Posted Image

this forum becomes boring when you realize how delusioned everyone is by their own hypocrisy and projections, 

^ This is a self-demonstration of the very thing you're admonishing. 

No,  I would very much encourage everyone to do their own Inner healing work,  be doing therapy and also learning how to stop projecting and start being honest

It'd be more effective therapy if you'd actually discuss your problems with your therapist. 

I am actually super honest and the only things that I am not honest about are when I have intentions to do something,  but other parts of me want to do something else  but I am healing this in therapy so that there is more agreeance from all parts of me on the decisions that I make  It will save so much time and is super beneficial

You don't sound honest with your therapist, you're hiding very serious things. 

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
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