I'm surprised you didn't go with calling it a 'Man Cave' or something to that effect.
A safe space for men is funnier.
Humor is important.
Yeah but Man Cave's referential for specifically being about these kinds of themes, it's arguably timeless, but ehhh. 🤷
If she love bombs you, you'll be caught in a love spell.
I'm noticing how weirdly well that works on some people, all I can figure is that they aren't used to positive affirmations from other people.
Really interesting that this and showing interest in stuff are how you define perfection.
What the fuck ?
Dude. what ? Really ? That's how ?
You spent a paragraph detailing an inauthentic personality as if it were golden spun thread:
Idealization. Here the BPD will idolize their target.
Usually this is where the man will fall for her.
She's perfect, the person you've fallen in love with.
She makes you feel like a man, and shows a great deal of interest if whatever you're doing.
BPD are very sensitive and usually have no problem reading you like an open book.
If she love bombs you, you'll be caught in a love spell.
Someone so perfect, she'll be an absolute dream come true, like someone you never expected appears, and they exceed everything you ever hoped for no matter what they have to offer.
I'd see these traits personally and be like "What are you selling?", and would have used very different words to narrate the situation from not getting supply from that approach.
I'd personally rather have someone with their own interests that could co-mingle with mine rather than some fawning follower sycophant, as being with other people to me isn't just about holding a mirror up to myself or hiring a cheerleader but rather their ability to hold a genuine conversation.
That being said, it's spooky how this works on some people, I've straight up seen compliments disarm people into puddy.
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