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I get it though, it's a bad thing to be generous in 2022.

What makes it a bad thing? It's worked out fine for me. 

 What kind of money do you even have to be generous lol

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Canary said: 
 

 

 Isnt paying and buying stuff for them just simping?

 Paying is buying. And no. Unless we're paying for sex that would be simping.

Even when it comes to hanging out with male friends I don't mind paying every now and then.

I get it though, it's a bad thing to be generous in 2022.

 

 

 I thought paying for sex is less simping than paying for womens attention, which youre doing

 Oh hell no.

I have a girlfriend.

A simp will throw money at women for sexual favors. Online they throw money at them just for looking good.

I know you just lost your virginity to some hooker after all these years, and it feels great. More on topic though you're kinda projecting there. 

 You said "your girls". And didnt mention a girlfriend. I thought that just meant you'd throw money to please your female friends while getting nothing in return.

 You're right. 

I have female friends and I gift them stuff from time to time and I don't expect anything in return. But what I meant was my girls don't see me in the same light as I'm painted here. No one does.

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0 votes RE: The Psychology of Projecting
Canary said: 
Canary said: 
 

 

 Isnt paying and buying stuff for them just simping?

 Paying is buying. And no. Unless we're paying for sex that would be simping.

Even when it comes to hanging out with male friends I don't mind paying every now and then.

I get it though, it's a bad thing to be generous in 2022.

 

 

 I thought paying for sex is less simping than paying for womens attention, which youre doing

 Oh hell no.

I have a girlfriend.

A simp will throw money at women for sexual favors. Online they throw money at them just for looking good.

I know you just lost your virginity to some hooker after all these years, and it feels great. More on topic though you're kinda projecting there. 

 You said "your girls". And didnt mention a girlfriend. I thought that just meant you'd throw money to please your female friends while getting nothing in return.

 You're right. 

I have female friends and I gift them stuff from time to time and I don't expect anything in return. But what I meant was my girls don't see me in the same light as I'm painted here. No one does.

 Do you see the gifts as necessary? Would they stop being your friends if the gifts stopped?

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0 votes RE: The Psychology of Projecting
Canary said: 
Canary said: 
 

 

 Isnt paying and buying stuff for them just simping?

 Paying is buying. And no. Unless we're paying for sex that would be simping.

Even when it comes to hanging out with male friends I don't mind paying every now and then.

I get it though, it's a bad thing to be generous in 2022.

 

 

 I thought paying for sex is less simping than paying for womens attention, which youre doing

 Oh hell no.

I have a girlfriend.

A simp will throw money at women for sexual favors. Online they throw money at them just for looking good.

I know you just lost your virginity to some hooker after all these years, and it feels great. More on topic though you're kinda projecting there. 

 You said "your girls". And didnt mention a girlfriend. I thought that just meant you'd throw money to please your female friends while getting nothing in return.

 You're right. 

I have female friends and I gift them stuff from time to time and I don't expect anything in return. But what I meant was my girls don't see me in the same light as I'm painted here. No one does.

 Do you see the gifts as necessary? Would they stop being your friends if the gifts stopped?

 When I was broke and struggling, they were there.

I don't just go out of my way to get them things, it's just over time they get stuff from me.

I have this one lady friend, she came to me last year to fix her laptop. She had it fixed before, the shop tried fixing the power port. they ended up using hot glue to merge the top and bottom piece of the laptop together, cause the screws in that area were busted.

Somehow that came undone and the bottom part was loose. She came to me cause the monitor after a while would go grainy and then freeze.  I took the laptop, opened it up, removed the NvME M.2 drive ( something like an SSD drive with space, but faster ) and put it in my laptop and gave it to her so she can access her important files.

I ordered a new cable, the one that goes from the motherboard to the monitor and camera. ( 2 of them actually, I got the wrong part the first time )

It turned out the monitor itself is fucked and the only way to repair it is to use sponge to compress the bottom of the monitor ( a part of it that isn't exposed behind the upper casing. )

So I told her, I'll buy her a new laptop and I'll keep the broken one....

lol She said how about I get the new laptop and she keeps them both.

No deal.

Months goes by and she gets a new laptop, so she comes to me again to set it up. She wanted Word. I get it installed and running then bounced. I never put her old drive into the new PC cause that would void the warranty if I opened it.

She still has my laptop. Last I heard she was transfering files the hard way with a USB stick. I don't make a big deal out of it, no real reason to. What I understand is this friend of mine it kinda fucked up so I don't really react to how self absorbed she is.

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Canary said:

 When I was broke and struggling, they were there.

I don't just go out of my way to get them things, it's just over time they get stuff from me.

I have this one lady friend, she came to me last year to fix her laptop. She had it fixed before, the shop tried fixing the power port. they ended up using hot glue to merge the top and bottom piece of the laptop together, cause the screws in that area were busted.

Somehow that came undone and the bottom part was loose. She came to me cause the monitor after a while would go grainy and then freeze.  I took the laptop, opened it up, removed the NvME M.2 drive ( something like an SSD drive with space, but faster ) and put it in my laptop and gave it to her so she can access her important files.

I ordered a new cable, the one that goes from the motherboard to the monitor and camera. ( 2 of them actually, I got the wrong part the first time )

It turned out the monitor itself is fucked and the only way to repair it is to use sponge to compress the bottom of the monitor ( a part of it that isn't exposed behind the upper casing. )

So I told her, I'll buy her a new laptop and I'll keep the broken one....

lol She said how about I get the new laptop and she keeps them both.

No deal.

Months goes by and she gets a new laptop, so she comes to me again to set it up. She wanted Word. I get it installed and running then bounced. I never put her old drive into the new PC cause that would void the warranty if I opened it.

She still has my laptop. Last I heard she was transfering files the hard way with a USB stick. I don't make a big deal out of it, no real reason to. What I understand is this friend of mine it kinda fucked up so I don't really react to how self absorbed she is.

I don't think I could keep contact with someone like that.

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0 votes RE: The Psychology of Projecting
Canary said: 
Canary said: 
Canary said: 
 

 

 Isnt paying and buying stuff for them just simping?

 Paying is buying. And no. Unless we're paying for sex that would be simping.

Even when it comes to hanging out with male friends I don't mind paying every now and then.

I get it though, it's a bad thing to be generous in 2022.

 

 

 I thought paying for sex is less simping than paying for womens attention, which youre doing

 Oh hell no.

I have a girlfriend.

A simp will throw money at women for sexual favors. Online they throw money at them just for looking good.

I know you just lost your virginity to some hooker after all these years, and it feels great. More on topic though you're kinda projecting there. 

 You said "your girls". And didnt mention a girlfriend. I thought that just meant you'd throw money to please your female friends while getting nothing in return.

 You're right. 

I have female friends and I gift them stuff from time to time and I don't expect anything in return. But what I meant was my girls don't see me in the same light as I'm painted here. No one does.

 Do you see the gifts as necessary? Would they stop being your friends if the gifts stopped?

 When I was broke and struggling, they were there.

I don't just go out of my way to get them things, it's just over time they get stuff from me.

I have this one lady friend, she came to me last year to fix her laptop. She had it fixed before, the shop tried fixing the power port. they ended up using hot glue to merge the top and bottom piece of the laptop together, cause the screws in that area were busted.

Somehow that came undone and the bottom part was loose. She came to me cause the monitor after a while would go grainy and then freeze.  I took the laptop, opened it up, removed the NvME M.2 drive ( something like an SSD drive with space, but faster ) and put it in my laptop and gave it to her so she can access her important files.

I ordered a new cable, the one that goes from the motherboard to the monitor and camera. ( 2 of them actually, I got the wrong part the first time )

It turned out the monitor itself is fucked and the only way to repair it is to use sponge to compress the bottom of the monitor ( a part of it that isn't exposed behind the upper casing. )

So I told her, I'll buy her a new laptop and I'll keep the broken one....

lol She said how about I get the new laptop and she keeps them both.

No deal.

Months goes by and she gets a new laptop, so she comes to me again to set it up. She wanted Word. I get it installed and running then bounced. I never put her old drive into the new PC cause that would void the warranty if I opened it.

She still has my laptop. Last I heard she was transfering files the hard way with a USB stick. I don't make a big deal out of it, no real reason to. What I understand is this friend of mine it kinda fucked up so I don't really react to how self absorbed she is.

 Lol keeping both

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0 votes RE: The Psychology of Projecting

I get it though, it's a bad thing to be generous in 2022.

What makes it a bad thing? It's worked out fine for me. 

 What kind of money do you even have to be generous lol

It's not about the size, it's about how you use it. 

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Posts: 1687
0 votes RE: The Psychology of Projecting

I get it though, it's a bad thing to be generous in 2022.

What makes it a bad thing? It's worked out fine for me. 

 What kind of money do you even have to be generous lol

It's not about the size, it's about how you use it. 

 I mean its SSI money. How is that gonna make any difference for anyone.

Who were you generous to?

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0 votes RE: The Psychology of Projecting

I don't think I could keep contact with someone like that.

 I wouldn't have ever came here if it weren't for her.

I don't call her cause it'll get to her head. Not very mature either. 

I did learn a lot when it comes to her though. She has a nice side too. Slightly. 

I don't really cut her off cause I get the sensation of handling a rattlesnake when I see her. And I sense there's some positive progress that's been made.

Super exotic pale skinned very sharp looking Asian Cluster B. 

Her game sux though. Always trying to make me jealous, yet she keeps swinging back.

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1 votes RE: The Psychology of Projecting
Canary said: 
Outro said: 

TC has harassed women far more than spatial has. Its funny how only men claim spatial is sexist, but not women.

 Some guys have instincts to attack more appealing men so the odds of them passing on their genes instead increases.

Besides, if any of that is going on, better it be from them.

Let me make sure I'm hearing this right.

I vaguely criticize some of your attitudes, and you suggest that it's because I'm biologically wired to attack more appealing men.

And just to be clear, you don't think this could be due to narcissism?

 To be accurate, you criticize me based on what you've heard about me, not what you've personally seen. We've been through that already.

No dude. I've seen you say sexist shit all the time. Most glaring example off the top of my head was some shit about how women are too emotional to hold leadership positions lmao 

Literally classic 1950's shit. I don't know or give a shit about your history with TC. 

I've seen that psychology many times in the past decade here alone, that is why I specifically titled that other thread asking  for feedback from Long Time members. Still you came and offered your inexperienced 2 cents bringing credit to TC in the middle of 'his' ( correct pronoun ) lies.

As I've mentioned before, once a group accuses an individual of being a narcissist, it's difficult for that individual to break free of the gaslight. I deny it, you'll keep coming back trying to prove to me that I'm a narcissist and there's nothing I can to but watch hearsay spread.

Now what I had to say to Cavalier in the quoted paragraphs is about men, ( namely TC cause he has male genitalia) who accuse me of being some type of woman hater. It's not really my problem if you're aligning yourself with that.

Never said you hate women. Don't even think you're a particularly malignant guy or that you'd hurt women deliberately. But I do think your ego demands that other people be inferior to you, and I think you've found convenient broad-strokes arguments about women that basically ensure 50% of society is easily inferior. 

What remains true is in these parts, only guys accuse me of hating women. Personally I feel loved by them. Except for Trouble, she's hard.

When it comes to me, some will cry narcissist and as usual it's coming from hearsay from those who are aggressive and petty. Ed used to do this all the time, and I ended up wrestling noobs.

Again, you're conflating sexism with hating women. I don't think you hate women.

I think you think you're better than women (and most if not all men, tbh, but you're more specific about the reasons why). 

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