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I agree with Lena that some of what you say comes off as sexist. Not blatant and hardcore misogyny like calling women inferior. More along the lines of presumptions of what men and women are like.

I don’t always disagree with you on these things, as I too see behavior of the sexes as more biologically determined than probably many here. My sense is that you’re a bit more extreme than me in this. I don’t have specific quotes or anything, but a topic like this is better hashed in dialogue on the subject than trying to insinuate with past words, etc.

That's more reasonable. 

If I required security, I'd want my guards to be men. Just people who are generally more athletic.

I also felt sorry the few times I watched fragments of a WNBA game. Maybe the action wasn't the same when I watched. 

For this I'm hated.

When I was a very small child....

.... I saw these girls and they were mean to me, but I thought to myself, "But it is I who is mightier and they are weak ! Oh why should I tolerate this behavior when I'll be King one day ?" But I was taught No ! Be nice to them no matter what, so I did that with various degrees of effort and discipline, and they kept on being mean to me even though I loved them.

Now a days I can be like, "hey miss, you seem to be struggling let me carry some of that load" and they are like "Fuck off you man creep go away I hate you !" Oh how I weep for them for they don't understand. I'm meant to be of service and protect them but they don't want it.

But still I persisted and through the ashes some great women started emerging, and they comforted me, and they let me pay for shit and build and fix things for them, and I make them laugh and they show me love.

Today some may say I'm a sexist, but not my girls. Maybe they are sexist for treating me like a man, and I for treating them the way I was born to threat them !

 

 

 Isnt paying and buying stuff for them just simping?

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That’s a harsh response you get, is it maybe how you approach the situations? At any rate I’m glad to see your situation with females is improved; I remember you were more MGTOW or whatever you want to call it, but now it seems there are some women who get you and there are even lady friends.

Dude, Spatial makes Archie Bunker look reasonable. 

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  I missed this one. It's easy to miss while scrolling.

That’s a harsh response you get, is it maybe how you approach the situations? At any rate I’m glad to see your situation with females is improved; I remember you were more MGTOW or whatever you want to call it, but now it seems there are some women who get you and there are even lady friends.

 I still identify with MGTOW and I like being this way, and lady friends is nothing new to me. To be honest all of my female friends I've had for years. ( We don't make friends too often as we age )

People are biased against guys like me. Alphas hate it, Betas hate it. It's the state of our civilization, where if a woman doesn't want to date that's fine. Empowering even, good for her. The minute a guy isn't pussy whipped and minds his own business, he's a cretin. 

The thing about this is, I simply don't chase after women. I think of it as juvenile behavior.

I'm not there quite yet, but there will come a day where it'll be absolutely necessary for a man to forget about dating all together. When that day comes, trying to date will do more damage than good for you. You'll have to date grannies while your taste in women is off limits. Unless you get a gold digger with a plastic smile.

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 Isnt paying and buying stuff for them just simping?

 Paying is buying. And no. Unless we're paying for sex that would be simping.

Even when it comes to hanging out with male friends I don't mind paying every now and then.

I get it though, it's a bad thing to be generous in 2022.

 

 

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I get it though, it's a bad thing to be generous in 2022.

What makes it a bad thing? It's worked out fine for me. 

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That’s a harsh response you get, is it maybe how you approach the situations? At any rate I’m glad to see your situation with females is improved; I remember you were more MGTOW or whatever you want to call it, but now it seems there are some women who get you and there are even lady friends.

 I still identify with MGTOW and I like being this way, and lady friends is nothing new to me. To be honest all of my female friends I've had for years. ( We don't make friends too often as we age )

People are biased against guys like me. Alphas hate it, Betas hate it. It's the state of our civilization, where if a woman doesn't want to date that's fine. Empowering even, good for her. The minute a guy isn't pussy whipped and minds his own business, he's a cretin. 

The thing about this is, I simply don't chase after women. I think of it as juvenile behavior.

I'm not there quite yet, but there will come a day where it'll be absolutely necessary for a man to forget about dating all together. When that day comes, trying to date will do more damage than good for you. You'll have to date grannies while your taste in women is off limits. Unless you get a gold digger with a plastic smile.

I don't see why it's so difficult for some people to adapt to changing times, or at least I haven't really found dating to be such a difficult thing personally. You just have to treat them like a person, rather than 'as a woman', it's really that easy. 

Why blame a large group of people for the things you do wrong? Wouldn't it be easier to just learn your lesson? 

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 Isnt paying and buying stuff for them just simping?

 Paying is buying. And no. Unless we're paying for sex that would be simping.

Even when it comes to hanging out with male friends I don't mind paying every now and then.

I get it though, it's a bad thing to be generous in 2022.

 

 

 I thought paying for sex is less simping than paying for womens attention, which youre doing

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 Isnt paying and buying stuff for them just simping?

 Paying is buying. And no. Unless we're paying for sex that would be simping.

Even when it comes to hanging out with male friends I don't mind paying every now and then.

I get it though, it's a bad thing to be generous in 2022.

 

 

 I thought paying for sex is less simping than paying for womens attention, which youre doing

 Oh hell no.

I have a girlfriend.

A simp will throw money at women for sexual favors. Online they throw money at them just for looking good.

I know you just lost your virginity to some hooker after all these years, and it feels great. More on topic though you're kinda projecting there. 

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Canary said: 

 Isnt paying and buying stuff for them just simping?

 Paying is buying. And no. Unless we're paying for sex that would be simping.

Even when it comes to hanging out with male friends I don't mind paying every now and then.

I get it though, it's a bad thing to be generous in 2022.

 I thought paying for sex is less simping than paying for womens attention, which youre doing

 Oh hell no.

I have a girlfriend.

A friend who is a girl, or like the precursor to fiancé? 

 
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Canary said: 
 

 

 Isnt paying and buying stuff for them just simping?

 Paying is buying. And no. Unless we're paying for sex that would be simping.

Even when it comes to hanging out with male friends I don't mind paying every now and then.

I get it though, it's a bad thing to be generous in 2022.

 

 

 I thought paying for sex is less simping than paying for womens attention, which youre doing

 Oh hell no.

I have a girlfriend.

A simp will throw money at women for sexual favors. Online they throw money at them just for looking good.

I know you just lost your virginity to some hooker after all these years, and it feels great. More on topic though you're kinda projecting there. 

 You said "your girls". And didnt mention a girlfriend. I thought that just meant you'd throw money to please your female friends while getting nothing in return.

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