Turncoat said:He straight up told me to not talk to you straight because you couldn't handle it.what's the context?
This was super recently... how'd you forget?
so you would like more respect?
Did you even read her long post or just eyeball a random guess and give an upvote to get her off your back?
Lip Service is so inauthentic, it's a shame you can only be honest when angry.not worth engaging with
Of course not, being authentic would make you look bad.
nah, you've just been whiny and weak
"poor blanc, tryp's gonna be mean...but if you put out it woulda been different"
You've pretty much said as much yourself, and you fall into patterns.
I do actually feel bad for Blanc, and I'm not saying she should put out, simply that you'd be singing a very different tune as an aspect of how shallow you are. 🤷
"that was super recent...is your memory like bad or something?"
It was literally less than 24 hours ago when I'd replied that way, having me suspect (and hope tbh) you were pretending to forget or something.
You've shown a history of asking dumb questions to try to distract from the information itself, if not flood pages so that no one'd bother to read it.
"did you EVEN READ her post? nah just lip service"
Your reply was a single sentence effectively asking her to confirm a summary that ignores most of what she was saying, and if she were better at reading social cues she'd see through it similarly to that of an English teacher looking over test papers.
"you can't even be authentic!"
I mean am I wrong?
You don't just speak your mind with people, rather you tailor your words as to appease them in the moment as a guarded means of interaction. Then later on, usually with alcohol speeding this up and giving you an excuse for the behavior (but not that every time), you grow to resent a perceived lack of reciprocation and get slowly more angry until you explode at them with what you really think.
I understand people not saying all the worst things they think about a person until they get pissed off, but yours reads more like you've been holding a ton of shit back and taking notes for when such a time is "Permitted", and those times feel like the only times you're being real with people over those being the only times you allow yourself to be openly analytical and more detailed, rather than saying broad statements, optimistic backpats, and otherwise trying to conform to how they present themselves instead of being your true authentic self.
TLDR; You're an actor.
it's not even just that you're wrong about everything, you're so snarky on top of it like you think you're making great quips with your cutting observations.
I did also link the former topics. You guys seriously do this every year, somewhat on a seasonal clock, and I'm not the only one to notice.
How can't one be snarky or otherwise made to think it'd need to be done differently when they and I are otherwise reduced to repeating themselves? Lampshade hanging in it's own right is snarky, and otherwise polite or docile communication has nothing go through. It's easier to be seen as a bitch who's otherwise heard than it is to be 'Nice' with no affect whatsoever, as at least others are liable to see what's being said and the information will still coast on some level when made to be more noticeable.
it just makes your behavior insufferable. plus a conversation with you about anything when you're like this just becomes a conversation where you try to push your perspective the whole time. no thanks to a waste of time being defensive against a bunch of accusations
It isn't that hard to have a conversation in this style when you have nothing to hide, just saying.
The hiding's what ends up prolonging it, compared to if it were Alena and I talking for example where she can just say what's on her mind. That form of talk is more respectable compared to appeasement and enabling that you don't yourself genuinely believe in, allowing 'for their sake' in silence to their own detriment in exchange for a small sentiment of social safety.
I'd rather be respected through consistency across the board than liked for saying the things they want to hear if I had to pick between the two, and for those who conflate them as if it were one thing I don't see as much depth nor genuine connection. If you can't shoot the shit with them then it's a waste of time.
