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-1 votes RE: For ChallengeSeeker's eyes only. I'm deeply enthralled by you
Turncoat said:
He straight up told me to not talk to you straight because you couldn't handle it.

what's the context?

This was super recently... how'd you forget? 

Maybe it's just a me thing, but I find it rude when people put on a facade when talking to disordered people, especially those on the spectrum. They've shown that they can handle real talk if given enough exposure to it as a matter of experience, while talking to them continually like they're a child that can't handle "the truth" stands to stunt their social growth. 

I'd rather treat Delora as a peer personally, she's not an idiot she just gets confused sometimes. 

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last edit on 1/23/2022 4:10:25 PM
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0 votes RE: For ChallengeSeeker's eyes only. I'm deeply enthralled by you
Turncoat said:

This otherwise does not answer how you feel about her, just how you don't feel this one specific way.

🌺plumeria🌺 said:
You always assume I'm stupid
🌺plumeria🌺 said:
You no longer feel that way about me?
Tryptamine said:
i do not think you are stupid
Turncoat said:
He straight up told me to not talk to you straight because you couldn't handle it.

what's the context?

 You assume you are smarter than me when there are so many things about me you don't know

you mean me?

 Yes, both of you

I was just defending you over such things... 🤦

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last edit on 1/23/2022 4:12:06 PM
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0 votes RE: For ChallengeSeeker's eyes only. I'm deeply enthralled by you

so you would like more respect?

Did you even read her long post or just eyeball a random guess and give an upvote to get her off your back? 

Lip Service is so inauthentic, it's a shame you can only be honest when angry. 

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-1 votes RE: For ChallengeSeeker's eyes only. I'm deeply enthralled by you

You think you know me so well that you can deem the sum of my entire mind as less than, and you don't even know me as person, you don't even know my favorite color, and that's basic shit, so why do you act like you know about something as complex as a human mind, my mind. You don't even know me, you hardly know anything about me other than surface level shit, yet you think you know all about me enough to judge my capabilities and compare them to yourself or to anyone? Who are you to do that?

An onlooker who's come to my own conclusions based on potentially limited information, but all the same it'd probably be good for you to figure where these sorts of opinions could come from rather than just being disgusted by it without learning why it happened. 

Same for you tc, although your far more extreme with this in every way and beyond, in fact whatever subtle annoyance I have with tryp I have for you fifty fold, and this adds up to me being mildly agitated with tryp but still some respect and care for the guy, and complete disgust with you. 

If you'd actually read everything I'm saying you'd see I'm defending you half the time. The only area we've really had contention over's been your ex-husband, otherwise we've been able to talk media and your past from me being one of the few who'd bother to read all of it and speak my mind instead of just trying to pacify you. 

I speak like this to you because it's how I'd speak to people, and to treat you any differently than any other human being would be my doing a disservice. I've made it my personal credo to speak with others as I'd speak with myself. 

When you otherwise show anger over such honesty it tells me and others that you'd rather have people lie to you. Even now Tryp's just trying to get out of this conversation, and in turn you say he's a better person for it. At this point you're so within your own presumptions that you can't even read what people are saying, so maybe it would be better to just say what you want to hear instead so that you can keep living in some sort of fantasy. 

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last edit on 1/23/2022 4:24:28 PM
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0 votes RE: For ChallengeSeeker's eyes only. I'm deeply enthralled by you
Turncoat said:

This otherwise does not answer how you feel about her, just how you don't feel this one specific way.

🌺plumeria🌺 said:
You always assume I'm stupid
🌺plumeria🌺 said:
You no longer feel that way about me?
Tryptamine said:
i do not think you are stupid
Turncoat said:
He straight up told me to not talk to you straight because you couldn't handle it.

what's the context?

 You assume you are smarter than me when there are so many things about me you don't know

you mean me?

 Yes, both of you

I was just defending you over such things... 🤦

 That's not what tryp meant on the sesame street post

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1 votes RE: For ChallengeSeeker's eyes only. I'm deeply enthralled by you

You think you know me so well that you can deem the sum of my entire mind as less than, and you don't even know me as person, you don't even know my favorite color, and that's basic shit, so why do you act like you know about something as complex as a human mind, my mind. You don't even know me, you hardly know anything about me other than surface level shit, yet you think you know all about me enough to judge my capabilities and compare them to yourself or to anyone? Who are you to do that?

An onlooker who's come to my own conclusions based on potentially limited information, but all the same it'd probably be good for you to figure where these sorts of opinions could come from rather than just being disgusted by it without learning why it happened. 

Naw you tell yourself that, but you look at anything related to me and br with a filter of bias to a crazy degree

Same for you tc, although your far more extreme with this in every way and beyond, in fact whatever subtle annoyance I have with tryp I have for you fifty fold, and this adds up to me being mildly agitated with tryp but still some respect and care for the guy, and complete disgust with you. 

If you'd actually read everything I'm saying you'd see I'm defending you half the time. The only area we've really had contention over's been your ex-husband, otherwise we've been able to talk media and your past from me being one of the few who'd bother to read all of it and speak my mind instead of just trying to pacify you. 

No you read it to argue with me about it, telling me why what I say about my own life and past should be questioned, and then taking insult when I question you about yours in response in the same way as a parody of your own behavior while you hypocritically spaz over it


I speak like this to you because it's how I'd speak to people, and to treat you any differently than any other human being would be my doing a disservice. I've made it my personal credo to speak with others as I'd speak with myself. 

 

No you don't, for the reasons I previously stated here.



When you otherwise show anger over such honesty it tells me and others that you'd rather have people lie to you.

It isn't honesty you show, it's dishonesty with yourself, and maybe even others

Even now Tryp's just trying to get out of this conversation, and in turn you say he's a better person for it.

No he isn't trying to get out of it, he is attempting to show respect outwardly, and I'm not a mind reader so I can't say what his inner motives are for what he's saying, nor can I control that nor do I want to, that's pointless so I take it at face value.

At this point you're so within your own presumptions that you can't even read what people are saying, so maybe it would be better to just say what you want to hear instead so that you can keep living in some sort of fantasy. 

 

 I just read all this bullshit didn't I?

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0 votes RE: For ChallengeSeeker's eyes only. I'm deeply enthralled by you
Turncoat said:

This otherwise does not answer how you feel about her, just how you don't feel this one specific way.

🌺plumeria🌺 said:
You always assume I'm stupid
🌺plumeria🌺 said:
You no longer feel that way about me?
Tryptamine said:
i do not think you are stupid
Turncoat said:
He straight up told me to not talk to you straight because you couldn't handle it.

what's the context?

 You assume you are smarter than me when there are so many things about me you don't know

you mean me?

 Yes, both of you

I was just defending you over such things... 🤦

 That's not what tryp meant on the sesame street post

I've been going at him more for how he responded to our discussion about the Afterlife. 

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0 votes RE: For ChallengeSeeker's eyes only. I'm deeply enthralled by you
Turncoat said:

This otherwise does not answer how you feel about her, just how you don't feel this one specific way.

🌺plumeria🌺 said:
You always assume I'm stupid
🌺plumeria🌺 said:
You no longer feel that way about me?
Tryptamine said:
i do not think you are stupid
Turncoat said:
He straight up told me to not talk to you straight because you couldn't handle it.

what's the context?

 You assume you are smarter than me when there are so many things about me you don't know

you mean me?

 Yes, both of you

I was just defending you over such things... 🤦

 That's not what tryp meant on the sesame street post

I've been going at him more for how he responded to our discussion about the Afterlife. 

 Yeah that was the sesame street post

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0 votes RE: For ChallengeSeeker's eyes only. I'm deeply enthralled by you

You think you know me so well that you can deem the sum of my entire mind as less than, and you don't even know me as person, you don't even know my favorite color, and that's basic shit, so why do you act like you know about something as complex as a human mind, my mind. You don't even know me, you hardly know anything about me other than surface level shit, yet you think you know all about me enough to judge my capabilities and compare them to yourself or to anyone? Who are you to do that?

An onlooker who's come to my own conclusions based on potentially limited information, but all the same it'd probably be good for you to figure where these sorts of opinions could come from rather than just being disgusted by it without learning why it happened. 

Naw you tell yourself that, but you look at anything related to me and br with a filter of bias to a crazy degree

You typically don't even read what I'm saying, so how are you supposed to even know what I meant? At this point you'd rather see me this way over your ex-husband drama, ignoring all our other past discussions and forgetting the times I'd otherwise argued in your favor. 

You instead read the peanut gallery's jabs and take that as what I'm saying, which will serve to further Flanderize how you perceive me when you aren't even really bothering most of the time to see what's being said. You continue to use your presumptions to not have to try hard enough to understand what's otherwise going on. Imagine if that's what I was doing in relation to you, you'd look insane. 

The only bright side I see to your continuing to want to see me as the villain is that you're less liable to return to BR. FFS I can outright say I don't agree with what he's done and it'll just bounce right off of you. 

I don't even know why I try with you, I should just pacify you like the others here are already doing for their own aims. 

Same for you tc, although your far more extreme with this in every way and beyond, in fact whatever subtle annoyance I have with tryp I have for you fifty fold, and this adds up to me being mildly agitated with tryp but still some respect and care for the guy, and complete disgust with you. 

If you'd actually read everything I'm saying you'd see I'm defending you half the time. The only area we've really had contention over's been your ex-husband, otherwise we've been able to talk media and your past from me being one of the few who'd bother to read all of it and speak my mind instead of just trying to pacify you. 

No you read it to argue with me about it, telling me why what I say about my own life and past should be questioned, and then taking insult when I question you about yours in response in the same way as a parody of your own behavior while you hypocritically spaz over it

Are you saying we shouldn't question things, and do you really not see the problem with bringing up someone's rape trauma in public?

In your case you've been posting about it on repeat for all of us to see, inviting the discussion, while you meanwhile will try to push those who've gone through it to talk about it when they haven't been the ones bringing it up.

When you otherwise show anger over such honesty it tells me and others that you'd rather have people lie to you.

It isn't honesty you show, it's dishonesty with yourself, and maybe even others

Do you think Honesty means saying the correct answer, or what one believes? 

Even now Tryp's just trying to get out of this conversation, and in turn you say he's a better person for it.

No he isn't trying to get out of it, he is attempting to show respect outwardly, and I'm not a mind reader so I can't say what his inner motives are for what he's saying, nor can I control that nor do I want to, that's pointless so I take it at face value.

If you can't see what he's doing then I don't know what else to say. 

At least others will see it I guess. 

At this point you're so within your own presumptions that you can't even read what people are saying, so maybe it would be better to just say what you want to hear instead so that you can keep living in some sort of fantasy. 

 I just read all this bullshit didn't I?

Yet you didn't pick up like half of what I've been saying, and probably only bothered this time because you were challenged to do so. 

Seriously, do you want people to just say only positive things to you to pacify you, or would you rather have discussions that have the room to hit disagreements? 

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last edit on 1/23/2022 7:12:05 PM
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1 votes RE: For ChallengeSeeker's eyes only. I'm deeply enthralled by you

You think you know me so well that you can deem the sum of my entire mind as less than, and you don't even know me as person, you don't even know my favorite color, and that's basic shit, so why do you act like you know about something as complex as a human mind, my mind. You don't even know me, you hardly know anything about me other than surface level shit, yet you think you know all about me enough to judge my capabilities and compare them to yourself or to anyone? Who are you to do that?

An onlooker who's come to my own conclusions based on potentially limited information, but all the same it'd probably be good for you to figure where these sorts of opinions could come from rather than just being disgusted by it without learning why it happened. 

Naw you tell yourself that, but you look at anything related to me and br with a filter of bias to a crazy degree

You typically don't even read what I'm saying, so how are you supposed to even know what I meant? At this point you'd rather see me this way over your ex-husband drama, ignoring all our other past discussions and forgetting the times I'd otherwise argued in your favor. 

You instead read the peanut gallery's jabs and take that as what I'm saying, which will serve to further Flanderize how you perceive me when you aren't even really bothering most of the time to see what's being said. You continue to use your presumptions to not have to try hard enough to understand what's otherwise going on. 

The only bright side I see to your continuing to want to see me as the villain is that you're less liable to return to BR. FFS I can outright say I don't agree with what he's done and it'll just bounce right off of you. 

Same for you tc, although your far more extreme with this in every way and beyond, in fact whatever subtle annoyance I have with tryp I have for you fifty fold, and this adds up to me being mildly agitated with tryp but still some respect and care for the guy, and complete disgust with you. 

If you'd actually read everything I'm saying you'd see I'm defending you half the time. The only area we've really had contention over's been your ex-husband, otherwise we've been able to talk media and your past from me being one of the few who'd bother to read all of it and speak my mind instead of just trying to pacify you. 

No you read it to argue with me about it, telling me why what I say about my own life and past should be questioned, and then taking insult when I question you about yours in response in the same way as a parody of your own behavior while you hypocritically spaz over it

Are you saying we shouldn't question things, and do you really not see the problem with bringing up someone's rape trauma in public?

In your case you've been posting about it on repeat for all of us to see, inviting the discussion, while you meanwhile will try to push those who've gone through it to talk about it when they haven't been the ones bringing it up.

When you otherwise show anger over such honesty it tells me and others that you'd rather have people lie to you.

It isn't honesty you show, it's dishonesty with yourself, and maybe even others

Do you think Honesty means saying the correct answer, or what one believes? 

Even now Tryp's just trying to get out of this conversation, and in turn you say he's a better person for it.

No he isn't trying to get out of it, he is attempting to show respect outwardly, and I'm not a mind reader so I can't say what his inner motives are for what he's saying, nor can I control that nor do I want to, that's pointless so I take it at face value.

If you can't see what he's doing then I don't know what else to say. 

At least others will see it I guess. 

At this point you're so within your own presumptions that you can't even read what people are saying, so maybe it would be better to just say what you want to hear instead so that you can keep living in some sort of fantasy. 

 I just read all this bullshit didn't I?

Yet you didn't pick up like half of what I've been saying, and probably only bothered this time because you were challenged to do so. 

No I picked up on all your bullshit and I always read what you write.


Seriously, do you want people to just say only positive things to you to pacify you, or would you rather have discussions that have the room to hit disagreements? 

 Lmfao, there is a difference between having what you say be taken into consideration and thought over, and having people just agree with everything you say. Never at any point did I so much as imply I want even so much as anyone to agree with me

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