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-1 votes RE: being the person you wanna be viewed as

I worry too much irl about what people are thinking about my behaviour etc too, but not because I want to be seen as something in particular I think? more because in general I want not to be viewed, seen or perceived. I hate an audience, selective invisibility would be great.

I'm trying to be a better feminist and to act more just how I want to, so I didn't wear a bra when I went to the shops today, but then I spent the entire time pretending to text with my phone up close to my face so I could kind of cover my chest with my arms.

maybe it is to do with how I want to be perceived too idk

 

 

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NotCS said: 

being the person you wanna be viewed as. FOR EXAMPLE: i sometimes eat cheap shit, like processed meat etc and I think even when Im paying in the supermarket ohhh pls let no one i know or find cute be behind me in the cue so that they dont see that i eat that trash etc. i wonder what would happen to me if i would live like or be the person i would wanna be viewed as. would i be more stressed? would i be more happy?

 

thoughts?

 It wouldn’t change anything here. Everyone would still see you as the same person and associate lies with you. I’m the person I want to be seen as now and everyone sucks at updating their minds. 

Either that or you didn't really change enough to warrant it. 

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Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 

As long as you're exercising and keeping fit and not gorging on cheap and trash like food or not doing things that harm others, why shouldn't you live as you like? 

Just re-noticed this with the room it has to be it's own prompt. Why should they have to keep up their fitness and eating habits if they don't otherwise have Health as a priority? While I am otherwise of the mind that it'd ideal to stay in shape, I've both seen others get away with not doing much for their form and as I've been slacking more on that lately it hasn't otherwise been as bad. 

From the opposite angle, there's also a lot of cases where someone "Living as they Like" means they overindulge or practice self-harming mindsets. If they think this is 'living as they like' while they're clearly not enjoying it in spite of their claims, should they keep on the path their going on, the maladaptive cycles that at many points can appear as if they'd never end much to their own disappointments and suffering? 

As an example: Masturbation. It feels good, isn't trash food and does no harm to others unless you're of the idea that wanking is baby-killing, but if you do it too often you're basically harming your ability to focus and function as well. Should the pleasure principle be the sole focus here, or should there be other priorities like how you've labeled food and exercise as an importance outside of 'living as you like'? 

Why do you feel the need to write out paragraphs

Because I have these thoughts? There's a lot to unpack in what people are otherwise potentially subtexting. 

Eat junk food if you want i guess, fuck your form or whatever it's not like it's fucking hard to work out holy shit everything everything so much with you.

I'm just saying that already you're imposing a standard they might not need in their lives to 'live as they'd like', and that once you've begun doing that that it's a slippery slope towards a lot of other impositions. 

'Where's the line?'.

 'Where's the line?'

Shut up you fucking nerd. All i said was if you're going to eat shit foods that are shitty for your body maybe do some stuff to counter it or burn it off, it's not that deep.  Everyone should be doing some form of physical activity even if it's just stretching to limber up so you don't get hurt doing some simple shit like lifting a box incorrectly this dude going on about slippery slopes lmao

 

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Lenalee said: 

Eat junk food if you want i guess, fuck your form or whatever it's not like it's fucking hard to work out holy shit everything everything so much with you.

I'm just saying that already you're imposing a standard they might not need in their lives to 'live as they'd like', and that once you've begun doing that that it's a slippery slope towards a lot of other impositions. 

'Where's the line?'.

 'Where's the line?'

Shut up you fucking nerd. All i said was if you're going to eat shit foods that are shitty for your body maybe do some stuff to counter it or burn it off, it's not that deep.

But what if they don't like exercise? 

Everyone should be doing some form of physical activity even if it's just stretching to limber up so you don't get hurt doing some simple shit like lifting a box incorrectly this dude going on about slippery slopes lmao

They could just live a life where they never have to lift boxes. 

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Lenalee said: 

Eat junk food if you want i guess, fuck your form or whatever it's not like it's fucking hard to work out holy shit everything everything so much with you.

I'm just saying that already you're imposing a standard they might not need in their lives to 'live as they'd like', and that once you've begun doing that that it's a slippery slope towards a lot of other impositions. 

'Where's the line?'.

 'Where's the line?'

Shut up you fucking nerd. All i said was if you're going to eat shit foods that are shitty for your body maybe do some stuff to counter it or burn it off, it's not that deep.

But what if they don't like exercise? 

Exercise releases endorphins dopamine stims serotonin- in short

You will learn to like it.

Everyone should be doing some form of physical activity even if it's just stretching to limber up so you don't get hurt doing some simple shit like lifting a box incorrectly this dude going on about slippery slopes lmao

They could just live a life where they never have to lift boxes. 

 Ugh

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It's quite funny to see Lena out of everyone go on about exercise, as if we haven't seen her pics

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  1. Rent free in your head, cope, seethe, cry, piss and shit
  2. lmao
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Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 

Eat junk food if you want i guess, fuck your form or whatever it's not like it's fucking hard to work out holy shit everything everything so much with you.

I'm just saying that already you're imposing a standard they might not need in their lives to 'live as they'd like', and that once you've begun doing that that it's a slippery slope towards a lot of other impositions. 

'Where's the line?'.

 'Where's the line?'

Shut up you fucking nerd. All i said was if you're going to eat shit foods that are shitty for your body maybe do some stuff to counter it or burn it off, it's not that deep.

But what if they don't like exercise? 

Exercise releases endorphins dopamine stims serotonin- in short

You will learn to like it.

Not everyone gets runners high, I know I don't. 

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
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Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 

Eat junk food if you want i guess, fuck your form or whatever it's not like it's fucking hard to work out holy shit everything everything so much with you.

I'm just saying that already you're imposing a standard they might not need in their lives to 'live as they'd like', and that once you've begun doing that that it's a slippery slope towards a lot of other impositions. 

'Where's the line?'.

 'Where's the line?'

Shut up you fucking nerd. All i said was if you're going to eat shit foods that are shitty for your body maybe do some stuff to counter it or burn it off, it's not that deep.

But what if they don't like exercise? 

Exercise releases endorphins dopamine stims serotonin- in short

You will learn to like it.

Not everyone gets runners high, I know I don't. 

 You will learn to like it. 

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Lenalee said: 

As long as you're exercising and keeping fit and not gorging on cheap and trash like food or not doing things that harm others, why shouldn't you live as you like? 

Just re-noticed this with the room it has to be it's own prompt. Why should they have to keep up their fitness and eating habits if they don't otherwise have Health as a priority? While I am otherwise of the mind that it'd ideal to stay in shape, I've both seen others get away with not doing much for their form and as I've been slacking more on that lately it hasn't otherwise been as bad. 

From the opposite angle, there's also a lot of cases where someone "Living as they Like" means they overindulge or practice self-harming mindsets. If they think this is 'living as they like' while they're clearly not enjoying it in spite of their claims, should they keep on the path their going on, the maladaptive cycles that at many points can appear as if they'd never end much to their own disappointments and suffering? 

As an example: Masturbation. It feels good, isn't trash food and does no harm to others unless you're of the idea that wanking is baby-killing, but if you do it too often you're basically harming your ability to focus and function as well. Should the pleasure principle be the sole focus here, or should there be other priorities like how you've labeled food and exercise as an importance outside of 'living as you like'? 

 translation: you wanna not succumb to the pressure me and crow put on you bitch? well guess what. now i'm gonna make you sift through pages of nonsensical rambling and contrarian pretentious novels

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