being the person you wanna be viewed as. FOR EXAMPLE: i sometimes eat cheap shit, like processed meat etc and I think even when Im paying in the supermarket ohhh pls let no one i know or find cute be behind me in the cue so that they dont see that i eat that trash etc. i wonder what would happen to me if i would live like or be the person i would wanna be viewed as. would i be more stressed? would i be more happy?
thoughts?
I think we should always strive to be our best selves and fuck what other ppl think.
Nobody's perfect, and even if some of us could be, somebody would always take issue with some stupid thing.
If we can go to bed every night mostly satisfied with our own standards and the best efforts we've put in to meet them, then that's all anybody can do, right?
Sometimes i don't care
Most of the times I'm terrified someone will figure out I'm a fraud.
Thankfully sometimes i just don't care and that seems to be winning over most of the time now.
You'd probably be less stressed and happier. As long as you're exercising and keeping fit and not gorging on cheap and trash like food or not doing things that harm others, why shouldn't you live as you like?
I think we should always strive to be our best selves and fuck what other ppl think.
Nobody's perfect, and even if some of us could be, somebody would always take issue with some stupid thing.
If we can go to bed every night mostly satisfied with our own standards and the best efforts we've put in to meet them, then that's all anybody can do, right?
Wrong. I'm perfect. Live up to my standards, Meow! 🐈⬛
This is the most cringe mind trap you can find yourself on.
Acting like you want to be viewed. People can tell.
Delusional is where you will find yourself pretty much when you are trying to be what you ain't.
Like it or not, there is no fake it until you make it. You are or you are not.
This is the most cringe mind trap you can find yourself on.
Acting like you want to be viewed. People can tell.
Delusional is where you will find yourself pretty much when you are trying to be what you ain't.
Like it or not, there is no fake it until you make it. You are or you are not.
Fake it until you make it is an effective type of placebo that can help you achieve things, it just depends on how far and where and what level you want to take it to. You can definitely influence your brain by believing that you're helping yourself do something. Hope and placebo effects are pretty effective.
This is the most cringe mind trap you can find yourself on.
Acting like you want to be viewed. People can tell.
Delusional is where you will find yourself pretty much when you are trying to be what you ain't.
Like it or not, there is no fake it until you make it. You are or you are not.
Thats determinism etc. It does not make sense or we would all still be toddlers. Obviously there is growth and development.
Actually, I agree with Waltz for a change.
I don't bother tryinta live up to other ppl's standards.
I set my own. Because ultimately, I'm the one who has to live with me 24/7.
I'm not above showing good manners when I respect somebody (or when I want smthg from them xP)
But I know when I'm acting and when I'm not.
Knowing the difference is what brings me peace.
You seem a bit... erm... stuck on convention.
Not sure if my approach would work for you.
Sometimes i don't care
Most of the times I'm terrified someone will figure out I'm a fraud.
Thankfully sometimes i just don't care and that seems to be winning over most of the time now.
You'd probably be less stressed and happier. As long as you're exercising and keeping fit and not gorging on cheap and trash like food or not doing things that harm others, why shouldn't you live as you like?
