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Have your final say TC. I had my fill, and now time for my show.

Spatial Mind said: 

Have your final say TC. I had my fill, and now time for my show.

I could already tell you were winding down, you get tired so much faster than you used to. 

It's fine, there'll be future spats, Spats. 

Edit: /proceeds to watch Spatial hide in chat

Spatial Mind said: 

Turncoat said: 

Spatial Mind said: 

If the sex isn't good it's not going to work out for either party. Still I can see how someone in a body cast might appreciate a pot of daisies on the window sill with a stack of cards and helium balloons. 

You really have a thing about sex, don't you..?

As a matter of fact, if the sex isn't good, it's really not going to work out. Both parties will desire others while being shackled. It's the ugly truth.

What does it take for the sex to be good? 

Oh please.

If the sex is stale, it's not going to work out. Next thing you know there's 2 bodies laying in bed at night dreaming of others in a sexless situation.

But what makes the sex good? This is an important question. 

Do you figure it's the size of their gregarious parts or something? 

This thread is geared toward romantic relationships by the way. When Men give a woman flowers, it's a strategy, because he wants to be more than friends. Of course it's a novelty approach and not really required to make it to 3rd base.  

Flowers are just a tool, it's all about the intent behind it. 

It's more like an ice breaker wrapped within a considerate gesture of beauty, but as it can be for putting makeup on a pig it's won't always make up for their being a pig come the end of the day. 

When you're sitting there devising 'strategies' you're already making it that much less genuine. 

By your logic, it's disingenuous to give flowers to someone you want to form a romantic and sexual bond with. That Flowers are just to seal friendships, and a man devising strategies to land a date is inherently bad behavior.

I tend to try to be friends with whoever I'm dating, so the two go hand-in-hand, but that's not really my point solely. 

It's just a nice thing to do, like adding a ribbon to a present. It enhances wherever it's accompanying, but sometimes that enhancement on it's own isn't enough. 

Good for you. I don't see anything worth debating here, and still by your logic it's disingenuous to give flowers to someone you want to form a romantic and sexual bond with, that Flowers are just to seal friendships, and a man devising strategies to land a date is inherently bad behavior. 

No, I'm saying that flowers are a symbol that stand to beautify whatever your intent is. 

I don't know how to make this any more clear. 

You're erasing details in order to backpedal. you stated: "When you're sitting there devising 'strategies' you're already making it that much less genuine."

Yeah, you shouldn't need dating strategies to court someone, it should just play out naturally imo. 

You can't even explain why gifting a flower with a plan is less genuine. You also drew a line between 'Strategy' and being one self, as if having a strategy means not being one self.

I have, like, three times... Will quoting it even help you at this point? 

Starting to wonder if your confusion over these subjects is directly related to your failings, you can't even seem to follow the conversation. 

When a man plans out how he's going to approach a woman, this doesn't mean he won't be friendly if she gives it up to him. 

Yeah but you seem to focus primarily on 'the plan' with the idea of 'sex' as if it were the prize. 

You're the only one who says that. And you're the one making men out to be predatory by default

I mean it's in what you're typing, and this far into your career I'm certain it's not just me that sees it. 

It might be a tough pill for you to swallow, but surprise, men want to have sex with their romantic interests. 

They do, but how they go about it shows their character. 

Considering you called me 'bro' I'll assume you're having this apply to me as well, and for me I see friendship as first and sex life as second. If I can't be friends with them then I don't really wanna be sticking the old meat and tackle inside of them, so I just kinda focus on the friendship and see if feelings spark from there. 

You meanwhile seem to see sex as the primary objective, and seem bitter over how it doesn't come to you as readily as it might for some Chad. 

This is just incel bitterness, you're completely negating how attraction forms in the first place. 

No it's facts. If she's attracted to the guy he'll succeed, but if she's not attracted to him, in some cases a harassment claim can be filed. In this model the attractive and unattractive did the exact same thing.

What constitutes attraction though? 

That area's multifaceted, rather than just being Red Pill nonsense. I've seen some real bulldogs among the human race end up in successful relationships, attraction's in the eyes of the beholder as a matter of personal synergy. 

There you go complicating things and ignoring what's before you.

For whatever her reason is, I'm not going to make a list for you, that is grade 1, but whatever her reason is, she's either into him or not. Simple.

No, you're uncomplicating something in order to have it continue to support your downtrodden narrative. 

It's worth looking at all the factors of attraction so that you can see all the reasons you're doing it wrong and break out of that cycle. I'm for instance, by my personal opinion, quite ugly, but despite that I still seem to be able to have people become attracted to me through one means or another. 

If your idea of attraction's just the Red Pill definition, then you're ignoring a lot of important factors out of an impatience. 

The woman's perception. 

And no I'm not arguing that a guy should be able to touch any random woman

You think a gay man would never touch a woman unless they're bi or something? 

Lawd Spatial, you need to get out more, a fascination with breasts is fairly unisex. It's more about trust.

You can derail all you like, I had no comment on what a gay man's relationship is with women. That is uninteresting to me. The woman doesn't perceive the gay man as a threat as you put it. I said "The woman's perception". That also backs my previous case.

Care to explain then what you mean by 'The Woman's Perception' then? Keeping it vague like this makes it really easy to assume bad things about you. 

Spatial Mind said: 

Turncoat said: 

Spatial Mind said: 

If all it took were some flowers lol.

True, it strongly depends on who's giving them and why. 

Some have the tendency to act like whoever they give flowers to owes them something they're entitled to for having done it, which is fucking gross. It should just be about getting flowers, they smell nice and brighten a room. 

 Women want romantic gifts from someone she'll bang, and guys give romantic gifts while trying to score. If she rejects him, then he's better off sucking it up and pulling the same stunt on the next woman he falls for.

In my personal experience none of my girls ever cared about flowers. With that I'd say what Feathers wants is not really about flowers, but more about affectionate expressions. 

 

 if they look good i care about them

Feathers said: 

- Buy your girl some flowers dammit !

 you seem really unhappy in this relationship just a perception mind you i could be v wrong 

sometimes complaining a lot can be a symptom of anxiety or some other underlying pent up issue 

could be reading too much into it tho.

i myself make haphazard comments without much thought to them all the time and ppl overthink them 

but regardless u know yourself and i just am offering opportunity for intrispection at the very least

n o criticism

Blanc said: 

Feathers said: 

- Buy your girl some flowers dammit !

 you seem really unhappy in this relationship just a perception mind you i could be v wrong 

sometimes complaining a lot can be a symptom of anxiety or some other underlying pent up issue 

could be reading too much into it tho.

i myself make haphazard comments without much thought to them all the time and ppl overthink them 

but regardless u know yourself and i just am offering opportunity for intrispection at the very least

n o criticism

 Shut up blanc

Blanc said: 

sometimes complaining a lot can be a symptom of anxiety or some other underlying pent up issue 

could be reading too much into it tho.

She has been ramping up in intensity more lately. 

Turncoat said: 

She has been ramping up in intensity more lately. 

Do you not want to get 10$?

Turncoat said: 

Blanc said: 

sometimes complaining a lot can be a symptom of anxiety or some other underlying pent up issue 

could be reading too much into it tho.

She has been ramping up in intensity more lately. 

Actually things ain’t bad. I was unhappy for a bit. I doubted he cared. Now I think he does… I just need more attention.

Maybe long distance was a bad choice. Especially since my love language receiving is quality time/attention. At least, the end goal is to not be long distance. I think he does care and love me. It’s not always easy to see it obviously. 

This post is more about TC than me. 

What if you just pick them from a field of wild flowers? Is that okay too? Maybe they won't be all professional. They might be covered in dust from the dirt road. They might have a few small bugs on them. Kinda like a real relationship.