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If all it took were some flowers lol.

True, it strongly depends on who's giving them and why. 

Some have the tendency to act like whoever they give flowers to owes them something they're entitled to for having done it, which is fucking gross. It should just be about getting flowers, they smell nice and brighten a room. 

 Women want romantic gifts from someone she'll bang, and guys give romantic gifts while trying to score. If she rejects him, then he's better off sucking it up and pulling the same stunt on the next woman he falls for.

In my personal experience none of my girls ever cared about flowers. With that I'd say what Feathers wants is not really about flowers, but more about affectionate expressions. 

 

Ofc it’s what the flowers symbolize. It says “I thought of you and got you cute dying plant life “.

I would be just as happy if he picked up chocolates, a soft fluffy blanky, a teddy bear, bath bombs, my favorite meal, more pillows, hot chocolate from Timmies, etc. 

last edit on 10/29/2021 8:43:56 PM
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Subs are so simple

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If all it took were some flowers lol.

True, it strongly depends on who's giving them and why. 

Some have the tendency to act like whoever they give flowers to owes them something they're entitled to for having done it, which is fucking gross. It should just be about getting flowers, they smell nice and brighten a room. 

Women want romantic gifts from someone she'll bang, and guys give romantic gifts while trying to score. If she rejects him, then he's better off sucking it up and pulling the same stunt on the next woman he falls for.

If that's the only reason you get flowers and stuff for people then that's why you're not getting any as a result of the gesture. 

I just do it to see someone be happy for a few minutes, and consequently when they do the same for me that's how I take it. It's a considerate gesture that has the room to show you're thinking about them, but if those thoughts are just about spelunking your dingus then they'll smell the thirst as it overtakes the gesture entirely. 

In my personal experience none of my girls ever cared about flowers.

In mine it's been a good gesture every time, both giving and receiving. 😉

Flowers are just a tool, it's the intent behind them that counts. 

With that I'd say what Feathers wants is not really about flowers, but more about affectionate expressions. 

Also a sense of power and a free car. 

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Subs are so simple

Sub sandwiches I'd argue are quite complex. 

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Give flowers to your friends too, it's nice and the flowers make you feel lovely

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Lenalee said: 

Give flowers to your friends too, it's nice and the flowers make you feel lovely

Pretty much every Theater department agrees with you. 

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If all it took were some flowers lol.

True, it strongly depends on who's giving them and why. 

Some have the tendency to act like whoever they give flowers to owes them something they're entitled to for having done it, which is fucking gross. It should just be about getting flowers, they smell nice and brighten a room. 

Women want romantic gifts from someone she'll bang, and guys give romantic gifts while trying to score. If she rejects him, then he's better off sucking it up and pulling the same stunt on the next woman he falls for.

If that's the only reason you get flowers and stuff for people then that's why you're not getting any as a result of the gesture. 

Ha ha ha. There you go assuming I don't get any, and perverting the reasons behind my good deeds and tokens of appreciation.

In truth I wouldn't give "a friend" flowers, because that would/could be misleading and do more damage than good.

This thread is geared toward romantic relationships by the way. When Men give a woman flowers, it's a strategy, because he wants to be more than friends. Of course it's a novelty approach and not really required to make it to 3rd base.  

 



I just do it to see someone be happy for a few minutes, and consequently when they do the same for me that's how I take it. It's a considerate gesture that has the room to show you're thinking about them, but if those thoughts are just about spelunking your dingus then they'll smell the thirst as it overtakes the gesture entirely. 

In my personal experience none of my girls ever cared about flowers.

In mine it's been a good gesture every time, both giving and receiving. 😉

Flowers are just a tool, it's the intent behind them that counts. 

If someone gave me flowers I might appreciate that come to think of it. I'd surely laugh. 

I find it hard to imagine someone gave you flowers, or you giving anyone else flowers. 

 

With that I'd say what Feathers wants is not really about flowers, but more about affectionate expressions. 

Also a sense of power and a free car. 

 No. This is another aspect. Something women want in romance.

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If all it took were some flowers lol.

True, it strongly depends on who's giving them and why. 

Some have the tendency to act like whoever they give flowers to owes them something they're entitled to for having done it, which is fucking gross. It should just be about getting flowers, they smell nice and brighten a room. 

 Women want romantic gifts from someone she'll bang, and guys give romantic gifts while trying to score. If she rejects him, then he's better off sucking it up and pulling the same stunt on the next woman he falls for.

In my personal experience none of my girls ever cared about flowers. With that I'd say what Feathers wants is not really about flowers, but more about affectionate expressions. 

 

Ofc it’s what the flowers symbolize. It says “I thought of you and got you cute dying plant life “.

I would be just as happy if he picked up chocolates, a soft fluffy blanky, a teddy bear, bath bombs, my favorite meal, more pillows, hot chocolate from Timmies, etc. 

Send this to your BF.  

 

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If all it took were some flowers lol.

True, it strongly depends on who's giving them and why. 

Some have the tendency to act like whoever they give flowers to owes them something they're entitled to for having done it, which is fucking gross. It should just be about getting flowers, they smell nice and brighten a room. 

Women want romantic gifts from someone she'll bang, and guys give romantic gifts while trying to score. If she rejects him, then he's better off sucking it up and pulling the same stunt on the next woman he falls for.

If that's the only reason you get flowers and stuff for people then that's why you're not getting any as a result of the gesture. 

Ha ha ha. There you go assuming I don't get any, and perverting the reasons behind my good deeds and tokens of appreciation.

No, I'm just saying why flowers in particular don't seem to work for you. Usually if someone's trying to buy another's love the price tag's a bit higher than a bouquet, but if you're aiming to get there without being sleazy then flowers are effective at harboring good vibes. 

In truth I wouldn't give "a friend" flowers, because that would/could be misleading and do more damage than good.

If you expect the flowers to only be about sex, then yeah, it's going to seem weird to people who are used to expecting that sort of reasoning from you. 

This thread is geared toward romantic relationships by the way. When Men give a woman flowers, it's a strategy, because he wants to be more than friends. Of course it's a novelty approach and not really required to make it to 3rd base.  

Flowers are just a tool, it's all about the intent behind it. 

It's more like an ice breaker wrapped within a considerate gesture of beauty, but as it can be for putting makeup on a pig it's won't always make up for their being a pig come the end of the day. 

When you're sitting there devising 'strategies' you're already making it that much less genuine. 

In my personal experience none of my girls ever cared about flowers.

In mine it's been a good gesture every time, both giving and receiving. 😉

Flowers are just a tool, it's the intent behind them that counts. 

If someone gave me flowers I might appreciate that come to think of it. I'd surely laugh. 

Yeah, flowers feel good and they're simple, but again they're a tool. 

If someone for example only bought flowers as a way of saying "Sorry" to someone, the flowers are going to start to acquire a different meaning once there's enough to fill a garden. 

I find it hard to imagine someone gave you flowers, or you giving anyone else flowers. 

Really? Why? 

With that I'd say what Feathers wants is not really about flowers, but more about affectionate expressions. 

Also a sense of power and a free car. 

 No. This is another aspect. Something women want in romance.

What do you mean? 

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2 votes RE: How not to be a deadbeat bf

In truth I wouldn't give "a friend" flowers, because that would/could be misleading and do more damage than good.

Not even congratulation flowers?

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