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Blanc said: 

Buttered Toast said: 

The fucking point, Blanc, is that it isn’t true.  Objectively, and specifically in regards to me.  Your sophistry amounts to some gentle attempt at gaslighting.

But whatevs.  I’m out.

 I'm being honest about how I perceived it, and like I said, 

For real, read the topic again. 

At most I laughed at your title, it was otherwise a friendly thread. 

"it's okay if we had different experiences or views based on the same occurrence or event. This, usually happens as, we are all individuals experiencing things subjectively and uniquely." 

Blanc you're straight up rewriting what happened when you can literally check it right here. 

I'm not trying to gaslight you, this is just a matter of a difference of opinions and I was choosing to respect your perception or opinion and recognize it. 

How is that gas lighting.

It's not a 'difference in opinion', it's outright reinvention. 

Seriously, check the topic again: https://sociopathcommunity.com/Forum/Topic/21594/1/i-need-serious-help-tour-my-sims-build-with-me-

It's just how I perceived it, like I said. I'm not trying to gaslight anyone, this is getting absurd. 

It's 3 comments on a video of me playing the sims, I'm allowed to perceive those comments differently than you. 

P:lease leave me alone. 

Lenalee said: 

Blanc said: 

Buttered Toast said: 

The fucking point, Blanc, is that it isn’t true.  Objectively, and specifically in regards to me.  Your sophistry amounts to some gentle attempt at gaslighting.

But whatevs.  I’m out.

 I'm being honest about how I perceived it, and like I said, 

 

" it's okay if we had different experiences or views based on the same occurrence or event. This, usually happens as, we are all individuals experiencing things subjectively and uniquely." 

  

I'm not trying to gaslight you, this is just a matter of a difference of opinions and I was choosing to respect your perception or opinion and recognize it. 

 

How is that gas lighting.

 This is gaslighting

Technically she isn't putting forth any effort to change others' opinion or mill at your trust in your own perceptions, nor is she aiming to have others accept her story to alienate the intended victim(s). 

This is closer to ego preservation through fabrication, she's saying this for her own benefit rather than to push another. 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

And while i totes get the para-social thing and how you feel that you are scrutinized and mostly agree that you do get a lot of shit for simply sharing your thoughts it's important to remember how and why it started

Lying

Aren't we supposed to have sympathy for her if it's Munchhausens/Hypochondriasis/whatever strain of MPD she's on this week? 

Are we? 

I don't think you're supposed to expand the delusion

Just figured I'd ask, some people seem to think it's weird to try to give her reality checks. 

I feel like you're talking about the tv thread, in which you honestly just came across as bitter and entitled to personal information. Reality checks are great but also realize that people will be giving you reality checks as well

During a time when you began here people were willing to accept you, most people here having shared their own stories of abuse with you and had been vulnerable with you expected perhaps the same back, instead you chose to lie and that's what started the scrutiny. 

I really saw it more as a lack of reciprocation. This website's got plenty of liars who don't want to listen to other people's input on who they are, but when another is sharing she 95% of the time isn't really listening, if anything attempting to overpower their presence so it can be about her again. 

She can listen but at times she feels the need to fit in and makes up lies i don't know if it is about overpowering others, but i do know there is a sense of wanting to belong 

I've seen a lot of the overpowering once she goes into all caps and spergs and shit. 

If someone asks her to be quiet she gets twice as loud. If she feels 'interrupted' she also risks doubling her intensity, but she can feel interrupted by others pre-existing conversations when she's just talking to herself in the chat. Tryp more than once when those two were more obviously close tried damage controlling that shit until it drove him nutty. 

Then perhaps it's the my absence from here that's messed up my memory of her, as she's not as intense as she used to be 

You choose to do it and embellish them at times and when proven wrong, you double down.

This is the portion where it gets more interesting imo: She gets more desperate to prove her perspective. 

 Admitting you're wrong can be very hard

It reads to me like she's buying her own hype. 

 Maybe, I'd like to think she's aware of mistakes but finds it hard to admit to being wrong

Blanc said: 

It's just how I perceived it, like I said. I'm not trying to gaslight anyone, this is getting absurd. 

Do you still see it that way after we've otherwise given proof that that's not how it happened, or do you still think your original idea? 

Jesus Christ. 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

And while i totes get the para-social thing and how you feel that you are scrutinized and mostly agree that you do get a lot of shit for simply sharing your thoughts it's important to remember how and why it started

Lying

Aren't we supposed to have sympathy for her if it's Munchhausens/Hypochondriasis/whatever strain of MPD she's on this week? 

Are we? 

I don't think you're supposed to expand the delusion

Just figured I'd ask, some people seem to think it's weird to try to give her reality checks. 

I feel like you're talking about the tv thread, in which you honestly just came across as bitter and entitled to personal information. Reality checks are great but also realize that people will be giving you reality checks as well

I personally don't see a difference between that topic and the other numerous ones that I drill her on, I think you might be using the wealth gap to try to rationalize a motive that's otherwise preceded financial discussions. 

During a time when you began here people were willing to accept you, most people here having shared their own stories of abuse with you and had been vulnerable with you expected perhaps the same back, instead you chose to lie and that's what started the scrutiny. 

I really saw it more as a lack of reciprocation. This website's got plenty of liars who don't want to listen to other people's input on who they are, but when another is sharing she 95% of the time isn't really listening, if anything attempting to overpower their presence so it can be about her again. 

She can listen but at times she feels the need to fit in and makes up lies i don't know if it is about overpowering others, but i do know there is a sense of wanting to belong 

I've seen a lot of the overpowering once she goes into all caps and spergs and shit. 

If someone asks her to be quiet she gets twice as loud. If she feels 'interrupted' she also risks doubling her intensity, but she can feel interrupted by others pre-existing conversations when she's just talking to herself in the chat. Tryp more than once when those two were more obviously close tried damage controlling that shit until it drove him nutty. 

Then perhaps it's the my absence from here that's messed up my memory of her, as she's not as intense as she used to be 

I mean you've been a witness to it more than once, we've had side commentary snarking at her for doing it as it's been happening to lampshade how out of control she'd become. 

You choose to do it and embellish them at times and when proven wrong, you double down.

This is the portion where it gets more interesting imo: She gets more desperate to prove her perspective. 

 Admitting you're wrong can be very hard

It reads to me like she's buying her own hype. 

Maybe, I'd like to think she's aware of mistakes but finds it hard to admit to being wrong

It seems like a lack of awareness to me, her reinterpretations never seem to consolidate her older versions. 

Blanc said: 

Jesus Christ. 

Could you show us proof that you were being bullied or w/e in the Sims topic? 

If you need me to quote every post to demonstrate how it's not the case just let me know. 

Jesus Christ. 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Blanc said: 

Buttered Toast said: 

The fucking point, Blanc, is that it isn’t true.  Objectively, and specifically in regards to me.  Your sophistry amounts to some gentle attempt at gaslighting.

But whatevs.  I’m out.

 I'm being honest about how I perceived it, and like I said, 

 

" it's okay if we had different experiences or views based on the same occurrence or event. This, usually happens as, we are all individuals experiencing things subjectively and uniquely." 

  

I'm not trying to gaslight you, this is just a matter of a difference of opinions and I was choosing to respect your perception or opinion and recognize it. 

 

How is that gas lighting.

 This is gaslighting

Technically she isn't putting forth any effort to change others' opinion or mill at your trust in your own perceptions, nor is she aiming to have others accept her story to alienate the intended victim(s). 

This is closer to ego preservation through fabrication, she's saying this for her own benefit rather than to push another. 

 When confronted with the truth she dug into "its a difference of opinion in how we experienced things" in a thread that was otherwise pretty fuckin positive. She meant to refer to a different thread, possibly "body checks" where she's deleted the video because of commentary. 

Her trying to convince others of a new narrative only worked when no one questioned it, and when someone did she attempted to outright make a different reality layer to cover it, this is just an extension and definitely still fits with that original gaslighting.