Also, I thought it was interesting when I posted my house tour of my sims build, I asked for feedback, critiques, thoughts, etc.
And people critiqued me, and commented only on me, and not the house I had created.
I was asking for feedback and help on what I should do with the house, but no one was interested in making the build better.
They wanted to make me a better performer, for them to watch.
Bull
fucking
shit.
Go read that thread again. Not true at all. Frankly, it pisses me off you’d fucking think that.
I thought it was great you sharing stuff. I offered feedback on all aspects of it. I don’t have Sims or any decor expertise, and perhaps if you had continued, more feedback would develop.
For real, wtf
I just thought it was interesting, I didn't mean for anyone to take it as a negative thing, BT. Please calm down.
Anyway, I wasn't really wanting to start some 7 year debate, like I said, I'm tired of those.
I just was answering the original question posed in this thread from my point of view.
And it's okay if we had different experiences or views based on the same occurrence or event. This, usually happens as, we are all individuals experiencing things subjectively and uniquely.
It doesn't mean that we can't get along, we just have to accept that we all have different experiences and perceptions of these events, and that's okay, and perfectly normal.
It can't all be controlled and one way (your way). Because people don't work like that, they never have, and that's why we exist as individuals, and not a conglomerate.
Bull
fucking
shit.
Go read that thread again. Not true at all. Frankly, it pisses me off you’d fucking think that.
I thought it was great you sharing stuff. I offered feedback on all aspects of it. I don’t have Sims or any decor expertise, and perhaps if you had continued, more feedback would develop.
For real, wtf
It wasn't meant as a critique, I thought it was interesting from a social dynamic point of view, this happens without fail every time, and you're not the only one.
This is why you get picked on, this twist where you suddenly find a way back into victimhood each time without fail and when confronted with the idea that you might be wrong, you offer no reflection on the matter but you march right on and double down much like BT is saying.
The fucking point, Blanc, is that it isn’t true. Objectively, and specifically in regards to me. Your sophistry amounts to some gentle attempt at gaslighting.
But whatevs. I’m out.
I'm being honest about how I perceived it, and like I said,
" it's okay if we had different experiences or views based on the same occurrence or event. This, usually happens as, we are all individuals experiencing things subjectively and uniquely."
I'm not trying to gaslight you, this is just a matter of a difference of opinions and I was choosing to respect your perception or opinion and recognize it.
How is that gas lighting.
And while i totes get the para-social thing and how you feel that you are scrutinized and mostly agree that you do get a lot of shit for simply sharing your thoughts it's important to remember how and why it started
Lying
Aren't we supposed to have sympathy for her if it's Munchhausens/Hypochondriasis/whatever strain of MPD she's on this week?
Are we?
I don't think you're supposed to expand the delusion
Just figured I'd ask, some people seem to think it's weird to try to give her reality checks.
During a time when you began here people were willing to accept you, most people here having shared their own stories of abuse with you and had been vulnerable with you expected perhaps the same back, instead you chose to lie and that's what started the scrutiny.
I really saw it more as a lack of reciprocation. This website's got plenty of liars who don't want to listen to other people's input on who they are, but when another is sharing she 95% of the time isn't really listening, if anything attempting to overpower their presence so it can be about her again.
She can listen but at times she feels the need to fit in and makes up lies i don't know if it is about overpowering others, but i do know there is a sense of wanting to belong
I've seen a lot of the overpowering once she goes into all caps and spergs and shit.
If someone asks her to be quiet she gets twice as loud. If she feels 'interrupted' she also risks doubling her intensity, but she can feel interrupted by others pre-existing conversations when she's just talking to herself in the chat. Tryp more than once when those two were more obviously close tried damage controlling that shit until it drove him nutty.
You choose to do it and embellish them at times and when proven wrong, you double down.
This is the portion where it gets more interesting imo: She gets more desperate to prove her perspective.
Admitting you're wrong can be very hard
It reads to me like she's buying her own hype.
The fucking point, Blanc, is that it isn’t true. Objectively, and specifically in regards to me. Your sophistry amounts to some gentle attempt at gaslighting.
But whatevs. I’m out.
I'm being honest about how I perceived it, and like I said,
" it's okay if we had different experiences or views based on the same occurrence or event. This, usually happens as, we are all individuals experiencing things subjectively and uniquely."
I'm not trying to gaslight you, this is just a matter of a difference of opinions and I was choosing to respect your perception or opinion and recognize it.
How is that gas lighting.
This is gaslighting
