Sociopath Community

Buttered Toast said: 

Xena said: 

 It's kinda cute how some of these ppl are so lonely and desperate that they have to invent feelz and mindsets and an entire worldview and personality for me, and then build their bizarre little parasocial relationships around it.

Someone will go after the grandiosity and/or inflated sense of importance that seems to be implied here.

But not you right? 

Spatial Mind said: 

I refer to my date as my date, and not my GF for a reason. Her and I get along fine, even though I expect her to go out with her friends to the cottage and most likely have affairs and whatever behind my back. I'm aware of the cottage thing cause her girlfriend who she goes with tells me about it, and how she never wanted me to know. 

That's the world today. This thing and that thing, and the other thing over there, it's unwise to wife it up, lol. It's okay though I'm fully content. 

Someone is going to remark that it sounds like a cope for being cheated on.

I'm not even sure if he's made it that far, he spends a ton of time stuck in the suspicions to the point of Incel questions. 

These are just predictions; not necessarily the views of the author. 

lolol

Buttered Toast said: 

 Critiques and predictions...

 

Spatial Mind said: 

I refer to my date as my date, and not my GF for a reason. Her and I get along fine, even though I expect her to go out with her friends to the cottage and most likely have affairs and whatever behind my back. I'm aware of the cottage thing cause her girlfriend who she goes with tells me about it, and how she never wanted me to know. 

That's the world today. This thing and that thing, and the other thing over there, it's unwise to wife it up, lol. It's okay though I'm fully content. 

 

 Someone is going to remark that it sounds like a cope for being cheated on.

 

These are just predictions; not necessarily the views of the author.  There is a chance in pointing things out like this will modify the probability.  Let's see.

 I've been cheated on, but that doesn't motivate my decision making. 

I simply recognize red flags when I see them.

Turncoat said: 

Buttered Toast said: 

Xena said: 

 It's kinda cute how some of these ppl are so lonely and desperate that they have to invent feelz and mindsets and an entire worldview and personality for me, and then build their bizarre little parasocial relationships around it.

Someone will go after the grandiosity and/or inflated sense of importance that seems to be implied here.

But not you right? 

Spatial Mind said: 

I refer to my date as my date, and not my GF for a reason. Her and I get along fine, even though I expect her to go out with her friends to the cottage and most likely have affairs and whatever behind my back. I'm aware of the cottage thing cause her girlfriend who she goes with tells me about it, and how she never wanted me to know. 

That's the world today. This thing and that thing, and the other thing over there, it's unwise to wife it up, lol. It's okay though I'm fully content. 

Someone is going to remark that it sounds like a cope for being cheated on.

I'm not even sure if he's made it that far, he spends a ton of time stuck in the suspicions to the point of Incel questions. 

 In case you haven't noticed, I'm the complete opposite of an incel, nor have a questioned any of this. An incel would threaten to jump in front of a car over a break up.

Your case is more interesting TC. For example I'd argue you're bisexual, but you say you're a transsexual out of confusion, now from what I understand you're back with Crow.

As I told you before, Transsexuals are often confused people and regularly change their minds, sometimes in regret. For this reason I don't think transsexuals should serve in military operations because in that category of people, there's a lot of mental flip flopping going on.

Very interesting case you are.

Alright, lets handle the fluff first and split the two sets into different posts as to prevent confusion: 

Spatial Mind said: 

Your case is more interesting TC.

It's a bit old hat when I've otherwise been open to talking about it with people. 

For example I'd argue you're bisexual, but you say you're a transsexual out of confusion, now from what I understand you're back with Crow.

A trans person can be bi, hetero, or gay though. It's two different classifications, one over attraction and the other over self-identity. 

As I told you before, Transsexuals are often confused people and regularly change their minds, sometimes in regret. For this reason I don't think transsexuals should serve in military operations because in that category of people, there's a lot of mental flip flopping going on.

The point of the military is to whip people into shape enough to participate in wars, it's their job to discipline the people they're given sort of like how HR is stuck disciplining male employees in how to keep it in their pants. There's also plenty of non-warfare related positions they could be filling if you figure they're not suited for combat application, or even some disconnected efforts like drone strikes. 

To have trans-rights be a way to avoid a draft would just push the trans agenda further imo. 


Now that that's done... 

Spatial Mind said: 

Turncoat said: 

Spatial Mind said: 

I refer to my date as my date, and not my GF for a reason. Her and I get along fine, even though I expect her to go out with her friends to the cottage and most likely have affairs and whatever behind my back. I'm aware of the cottage thing cause her girlfriend who she goes with tells me about it, and how she never wanted me to know. 

That's the world today. This thing and that thing, and the other thing over there, it's unwise to wife it up, lol. It's okay though I'm fully content. 

Someone is going to remark that it sounds like a cope for being cheated on.

I'm not even sure if he's made it that far, he spends a ton of time stuck in the suspicions to the point of Incel questions. 

 In case you haven't noticed, I'm the complete opposite of an incel, nor have a questioned any of this. An incel would threaten to jump in front of a car over a break up.

You push a lot of their rhetoric's been my point. They'd also just as much try to justify a MGTOW position while trying to argue that they're still dating people through strange semantics, as if defending two fronts at once. 

People on the dating scene tend to be less paranoid of women, in the case of dudes whether they're simply comfortable men or closer to a red pill type. Your discomfort raises some questions. 

Your case is more interesting TC.

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Very interesting case you are.

This was a very transparent attempt to turn the tables btw. 

Turncoat said: 

Buttered Toast said: 

Xena said: 

 It's kinda cute how some of these ppl are so lonely and desperate that they have to invent feelz and mindsets and an entire worldview and personality for me, and then build their bizarre little parasocial relationships around it.

Someone will go after the grandiosity and/or inflated sense of importance that seems to be implied here.

But not you right? 

Heaven forbid!

Spatial Mind said: 

I refer to my date as my date, and not my GF for a reason. Her and I get along fine, even though I expect her to go out with her friends to the cottage and most likely have affairs and whatever behind my back. I'm aware of the cottage thing cause her girlfriend who she goes with tells me about it, and how she never wanted me to know. 

That's the world today. This thing and that thing, and the other thing over there, it's unwise to wife it up, lol. It's okay though I'm fully content. 

Someone is going to remark that it sounds like a cope for being cheated on.

I'm not even sure if he's made it that far, he spends a ton of time stuck in the suspicions to the point of Incel questions. 

These are just predictions; not necessarily the views of the author. 

lolol

Spatial Mind said: 

 I've been cheated on, but that doesn't motivate my decision making. 

I simply recognize red flags when I see them.

 There is a contradiction in there.  Also, you said you've given up on relationships, but claim also to be in one.  Do you rate the validity of a relationship on the number of red flags?  I'm sure it all boils down to semantics, but it sounds confused.

(Nevermind.  This point was kind of brought up already.)

Heh.

So by your logic, I'm an incel MGTOW. 

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You can say I'm turning the table if you want, the difference is what I have to say is true, while you'd reckon I'm both needy and walking away. Silly creature. 

It's true about you though. You called yourself a transsexual for some time now. And, now you're back with crow. Now I'm not Crow or anything, but I personally wouldn't want to be with someone who thinks they can keep changing their gender, I'd assume them to be more likely to be promiscuous on top of fawning over both genders.

I realize my outlook in relationships will be appalling to you, cause if you thought like this, then your relationship wouldn't be so hot, though if or when yours is over (again), you might see my outlook as healthy, which it is for the middle aged in 2021.

Spatial Mind said: 

Heh.

So by your logic, I'm an incel MGTOW. 

No, I'm saying you often enough carry and profess Incel rhetoric, that Incels often try to argue both MGTOW and Red Pill at the same time as if defending on two fronts, and that your paranoia over women in conjunction with your need to explain to us how some specific group of women find you bangable resembles the two-fronts display I've otherwise seen from Incels when they feel the need to compensate over two stances that otherwise serve to contradict each other somewhat. 

You've been crossing off the checkboxes for it's criteria for a while now. 

You can say I'm turning the table if you want, the difference is what I have to say is true, while you'd reckon I'm both needy and walking away. Silly creature. 

It wasn't related and served to shift the attention. Plenty of people try to shift spotlight but you have to shroud it better than that. 

It's true about you though. You called yourself a transsexual for some time now. And, now you're back with crow.

Now I'm not Crow or anything, but I personally wouldn't want to be with someone who thinks they can keep changing their gender, I'd assume them to be more likely to be promiscuous on top of fawning over both genders.

These two things are mutually exclusive, and I've consistently held the femme perspective. 

I realize my outlook in relationships will be appalling to you, cause if you thought like this, then your relationship wouldn't be so hot, though if or when yours is over (again), you might see my outlook as healthy, which it is for the middle aged in 2021.

So you're trying to say that your perspective that actively keeps you girlfriendless is the superior one? 

Buttered Toast said: 

Spatial Mind said: 

 I've been cheated on, but that doesn't motivate my decision making. 

I simply recognize red flags when I see them.

 There is a contradiction in there. 

There isn't, but feel free to elaborate on this, contradiction you see there.

Also, you said you've given up on relationships, but claim also to be in one.

Yes. We had sex twice this year on the same day and we're cordial. Sometimes we don't talk for weeks. She lies often too, does want me to know when she goes on trips with her friends, though her friend tells me anyway. I don't even care. 

The word relationship isn't as narrow as you make it out to be. Regardless if we're together with someone or not, it's still a relationship.

  Do you rate the validity of a relationship on the number of red flags?  I'm sure it all boils down to semantics, but it sounds confused.

 Don't blame me for knowing the signs of someone who would literally gut half my wealth and go bang someone else. Trust me, I have my reasons.

I know, I sound like some insecure man, that's actually a component to this thing where society will side with any woman who rips a guy in half. 

There's this other one, it's best for me to at least record audio when she's around, as it would only take a few lashes of her tongue to have 2 men come down and lock me up. I say this because I've argued with her before and she really goes that low.